Black male & black female submissives in BDSM ?
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Ok! Don't care! *waves*
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Oh lookie...that person just called me amazing! *falls to his feet*
He must be very astute. You are amazing.
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QFT.
qft?
Ok. I suddenly feel like explaining. I stated how I feel about the whole interracial kink and I'm told
So. Because I don't get it, personally, I don't know what I'm missing.
And this doesn't deserve a whatever? WHATEVER!Well, I've decided that all the domme's don't know what they're missing. After all, it does it for me it should do it for everyone else. And all the gay people? They don't know what they're missing, either.
WHATEVER!
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qft?
QFT = "Quoted For Truth"
It means I agreed strongly with the statement being quoted.
Ok. I suddenly feel like explaining. I stated how I feel about the whole interracial kink and I'm told
So. Because I don't get it, personally, I don't know what I'm missing.
Well, I've decided that all the domme's don't know what they're missing. After all, it does it for me it should do it for everyone else. And all the gay people? They don't know what they're missing, either.
WHATEVER!
Eh, technically I go interracial every time I have sex with either of my girls. One is a blue-eyed white girl, and the other is a jew. I'm legally Asian, as the NC State Board of Education told me when I was about 11. So I'm all about some interracial. Hell, I've never had sex with someone of my own race, so I guess I'm positively xenophilic.
That said, I get no particular thrill out of the fact that both my girls are of a different race. I don't giggle about fucking the jew or sullying the white girl. Not my thing.
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you touched upon a person pet peeve of mine. jewish is not a nationality. jewish is not a race. jewish is a religion, and arguably a culture.
your statement still holds however since i am just as white (if not paler) then viv and hail from the hungary/poland area.
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QFT.
That's pretty much my thing. I had a minor crush on a black guy once. Nothing came of it, but the crush had nothing to do with him being black. His color was just another aspect of him that was attractive, like broad shoulders and a nice ass. (And he had both. *sigh*) I'm not anti-interracial. I just don't fetishize (is that a word?) it. But that's my opinion. I don't care if you do fetishize it. It just isn't my thing - I was just weighing in with my opinion. I'm also not into waterplay or cbt. *shrugs*
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Eh, I understand. The "interracial" thing is a sobriquet used to cover a pretty fair number of non-racial divides though. Identifiable and major cultural differences can count as interracial. Regardless, you ain't Asian, so it's interracial with me.
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Most Jews I've known were white. But it depends on from where. I'm somewhere between half and 3/4 Jew (not sure how much since a lot of it was hidden during the Holocaust). You've all seen pictures of me, I'm so white I glow in the dark. lol
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i always tell people im whiter then the monopoly man
LOL I'll remember that one.
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no offense intended whatsoever, but i personally would not describe the subject matter of your stories as "bold." i only read two (all i could really take), but they seem to focus only on silly racial stereotypes, without an intelligent or feasible story from which to hang it all. language like "ghetto," "big black butt," "lilly white," and character names like "boomquesha" (yeah made that one up, couldn't recall an actual name from one of your stories)....just doesn't make for a plausible storyline to me, but then perhaps my standards are a bit higher than those of your typical erotica reader.
fyi, i am a black submissive and slave, owned by a black Master, and there is no shortage of us in either the BDSM or D/s lifestyle. i enjoy interracial porn a great deal (WM/bf), and i also enjoy/appreciate serving white Dominants. however my interest has nothing to do with racial stereotypes, or superficialities such as skin color, but with the very real tensions, conflicts and psychological issues due to cultural and "class" differences. coming face to face with deep-seeded racism, that exists within even the most politically correct among us. being completely open and honest about it, even embracing it at times. that is the interracial dynamic that pushes my particular buttons, and what i seek when i'm reading or viewing interracial porn.
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You know I think ultimately thats what interracial is.
I use to hate that title, because of that very reason. I use to wish it was called inter ethnic or something weird like that. But a few months ago someone got me thinking on race play, which I am still conflicted with, but can sort of understand. Racism, and racist history just provides such a powerful back drop for degradation, humiliation, and objectification, its hard to beat.
I have been working on a thread about the issue, so be on the look out.
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I'm sure osg can bring some stuff to light. As a black sub herself, and as someone with remarkable porn-locating skills, I'd be surprised if she couldn't help out.
I didn't see if it was already mentioned, but I'd bet dollars to donuts that the reason there's not as much Wdom/bsub is because it's taboo. After all, American history is laced with the real thing (nobody thinks Sally Hemings wanted it, do they?) so it's still all dangerous to talk about. Then again, that makes it extra hot, so...who knows.
I didn't see if it was already mentioned, but I'd bet dollars to donuts that the reason there's not as much Wdom/bsub is because it's taboo. After all, American history is laced with the real thing (nobody thinks Sally Hemings wanted it, do they?) so it's still all dangerous to talk about. Then again, that makes it extra hot, so...who knows.
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I'm thinking along the same lines. I think Black BDSM is somewhat taboo in general. It's not talked about or seen in normal BDSM circles, but it still exists in a more discreet manner behind closed doors. Black subs are not rare. Trust me.
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Wow. I never knew osg and her Master were black. Learn something new every day.
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Do they really? That's just such a shame. I thought we were a bit more adult here than that. We talking GB stylee, monosyllabic textspeak tirades where a sentence and a paragraph are the same thing? They should all be shot. Failing that, they should be locked away for the remainder of their days with a dictionary and 'grammar for beginners.'
I've had some of those type of pms about being a stupid slave and a deviant bitch who's destined to burn in hell. I love the way they think threats like that will have a painwhore like me quakin' in her corset.
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sorry rosco. i couldn't help but to make further comment.
in the area that i live (south florida), being a black female sub, i never felt popular in the scene. there really aren't many of us (black subs) that are active in the scene down here but there is still quite a few of us out there. i can only speak from my experience, of course, but i never really felt that "wanted" by other doms. even my ex, who is mixed, had a tendency to hook up with white girls. i can only recall him hooking up with one black sub during our tenure (since then i've been told he hooked up with one other black girl, although i'm not sure if she identified as a sub).
i can't say there weren't ANY doms who may have shown some interest. most of them were old and scary and seemed to have the look in their eyes that i read as the type who fetishize race. i didn't get the vibe from the younger generation that they were interested and it seemed like all of the black doms had white subs.
in the area that i live (south florida), being a black female sub, i never felt popular in the scene. there really aren't many of us (black subs) that are active in the scene down here but there is still quite a few of us out there. i can only speak from my experience, of course, but i never really felt that "wanted" by other doms. even my ex, who is mixed, had a tendency to hook up with white girls. i can only recall him hooking up with one black sub during our tenure (since then i've been told he hooked up with one other black girl, although i'm not sure if she identified as a sub).
i can't say there weren't ANY doms who may have shown some interest. most of them were old and scary and seemed to have the look in their eyes that i read as the type who fetishize race. i didn't get the vibe from the younger generation that they were interested and it seemed like all of the black doms had white subs.
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That's why they're fiction stories. As in the reader gets to decide what he or she thinks of them. An ordinary man or woman from middle America finds them bold. As a self-professed black sub, you think it mundane. To each his/her own. America is beautiful.
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"Deep-seeded racism"!
