Butt Plugs and Dildos

[P. B. Walker]

Wondering...

I've seen alot of references to humilation when it comes to buttplugs and dildos. Is that the ultimate goal for most? Or is it more a fact that you are taking every possible part of your sub's anatnomy (i.e., you own them totally)?

Is it more humiliating for a male sub to have a buttplug used on them than for a female sub? How big is big enough? I would think after a certain point it would become unhealthy (i.e., unable to hold ... uhmm... "stuff" back). I've seen pictures that are quite upsetting in this area. Women and men taking rather large fruit up the ass, such as grapefruit and large mellons.

Is it important that the sub feel pain? Is that maybe a reason to keep going bigger (i.e., because they eventually adapt to a certain size and it no longer hurts)?

What happens when it no longer hurts, no matter the size and it's no longer humiliating to them?

I'm not trying to imply anything here or judge anybody or anything like that. Just in a pondering kinda mood today. Hope ya understand.

PBW

 

[SexyChele]

Wondering...

I've seen alot of references to humilation when it comes to buttplugs and dildos. Is that the ultimate goal for most? Or is it more a fact that you are taking every possible part of your sub's anatnomy (i.e., you own them totally)?

Is it more humiliating for a male sub to have a buttplug used on them than for a female sub? How big is big enough? I would think after a certain point it would become unhealthy (i.e., unable to hold ... uhmm... "stuff" back). I've seen pictures that are quite upsetting in this area. Women and men taking rather large fruit up the ass, such as grapefruit and large mellons.

Is it important that the sub feel pain? Is that maybe a reason to keep going bigger (i.e., because they eventually adapt to a certain size and it no longer hurts)?

What happens when it no longer hurts, no matter the size and it's no longer humiliating to them?

I'm not trying to imply anything here or judge anybody or anything like that. Just in a pondering kinda mood today. Hope ya understand.

PBW

I can only speak from a sub's position, but for me butt plugs and dildos taken anally simply feel good to me. I enjoy the feeling of being stretched, but not of pain. Of course, depending on how turned on I am, I can take a rather large butt plug or a longer dildo.

I don't consider doing so humiliating, unless it were a situation where I was told to have one inserted while being out in public. And even then I'm not so sure "humiliation would be the appropriate term. More like doing something that is slightly "taboo" - and also the worry about whether it will slip out. (if there is nothing to keep it in place.

From what I've been able to discern, the tissue in the rectal area is very elastic. While it can stretch quite a bit, it normally goes back to the way things were. Now, I'm not familiar with having overly large items inserted for long periods of time. That might be different.

I've seen some of the pictures you have mentioned, and I also find them intriguing, yet a bit scary. I've never the pleasure (?) of a grapefruit insert anally, so I simply cannot speak to that.

I'm sure there are subs who are into the pain of it all, but not this one. If it isn't pleasurable, then it is a "no go".

Speaking of inserting things anally......!

 

[P. B. Walker]

I can only speak from a sub's position, but for me butt plugs and dildos taken anally simply feel good to me. I enjoy the feeling of being stretched, but not of pain. Of course, depending on how turned on I am, I can take a rather large butt plug or a longer dildo.

I don't consider doing so humiliating, unless it were a situation where I was told to have one inserted while being out in public. And even then I'm not so sure "humiliation would be the appropriate term. More like doing something that is slightly "taboo" - and also the worry about whether it will slip out. (if there is nothing to keep it in place.

From what I've been able to discern, the tissue in the rectal area is very elastic. While it can stretch quite a bit, it normally goes back to the way things were. Now, I'm not familiar with having overly large items inserted for long periods of time. That might be different.

I've seen some of the pictures you have mentioned, and I also find them intriguing, yet a bit scary. I've never the pleasure (?) of a grapefruit insert anally, so I simply cannot speak to that.

I'm sure there are subs who are into the pain of it all, but not this one. If it isn't pleasurable, then it is a "no go".

Speaking of inserting things anally......!

I can understand that and it makes alot of sense to me. I've never thought that anal play would be really all that humiliating to a female sub. At least that was my theory. And you've kind of reinforced that. Yes, I think the tissue is elastic, but at the same time, I think you can stretch it out to the point where it will not return to it's original place. In fact I know that to be true. It can also happen with the opening to your stomach.

"Speaking of inserting things anally......! " ??? what's that mean? Are ya saying I need to put something into my ass?

PBW

 

[SexyChele]

"Speaking of inserting things anally......! " ??? what's that mean? Are ya saying I need to put something into my ass?

PBW

Pretty please? With sugar and a cherry on top?

 

[P. B. Walker]

Pretty please? With sugar and a cherry on top?

Awww Sugah... you know that ain't gonna happen... <winks> We can still have fun together though right?


PBW

 

["angel" eve]

mmmmm....

okay. i admit. i want it. i really really want it.

 

[zipman]

I think...

Humiliation is something wew allow ourselves to feel. Recently, I have really gotten into having my prostate massaged during a blowjob. At first, I was embarassed that I liked it, I mean, straight guys just don't like things in their ass. But let me tell you, when my prostate is being massaged, the cum seems to boil up from toes and my orgasm is much more intense, and draining (both literally and figuratively).

In other words, don't knock it unless you've tried it!

 

[Vulpesvulpes]

Anyone have any experience with the inflatable butt plug...which really is a monster in its own right.

Even before inflation it is huge..wonderful for that extra dose of humiliation and control.

Equipped to invade the most private areas..to own inside and out. Stimulate or humiliate...My choice as always

The one I tried wasn't all that large to begin with but could be inflated to be huge!

I liked it but at one point, the pressure became non-erotically painful. It is also made out of a type of latex that makes my ass burn in a not-so-sexy way so I don't use it very much.

The thing that I did like about it was that my partner could make my eyes bug out with just a squeeze of the bulb.

-Vv

 

[NemoAlia]

What happens if one of these inflatables develops a leak?

 

[Vulpesvulpes]

I'm not sure but...

I shudder to think about the consequences.

If it leaked out slowly, then it would just cause you to be a little flatulent.

If it popped, you might be in big trouble.

oh god........9..........this hurts..........1.......oh jesus..........1..........




-Vv

 

[chicagoguy]

I recently became involved in ass play for the first time in my life and gave my virgin ass to my lover. She was gradual, gentle and made me believe that this is something that I want to continue to explore. At first I thought this when against my masculinity. One good evening of play will set you on a new path of play. Gentlemen, find a lady that has experience or a partner that will listen to you are feeling get a stapon and go at it.
You cannot believe what you are missing.

 

[chicagoguy]

I really can spelllllllllllll. Oops The Sopranos are on!

 

["angel" eve]

hello chicagoguy hello mikey

oooh mikey is CUTE!

 

[chicagoguy]

I'm cuter

 

[Ebonyfire]

You can never have enough of these

So I am bumping this up for the new folk.

Ebony

 

[Moyds_jewel]

Re: You can never have enough of these

So I am bumping this up for the new folk.

Thanks for the bump, Eb! This 'new folk' appreciates it...

I LOVE ass play and for me it has nothing to do with degradation OR humiliation, but the way pain merges into pleasure.

Master often commands me to wear a small butt plug while in public. This serves to keep me focused on Him, on acting submissively even when not in his physical presence.

Not incidentally, it has served to stretch me enough so that I can truly enjoy anal sex...the sweet friction, the full feeling, and (for me) the feeling of being completely mastered.

....'scuse me but I'm SURE I hear my Master calling me to be plugged...(laughing)
__________
I am His to command. It is my delight and joy to serve Him.

 

[maddi]

Yes, Thanks for bumping it up!

I am glad I read this one!

Maddi

 

[Richard49]

Ohhhh I occasionally have to wear a small butt plug whilst we are out shopping ...

does that count Shadowsdream?

That is something I love to do to "my" submissive

 

[sluttygirl4u22]

i unfortunately haven't had the chance to use a butt plug, however one of my fantasies is being made to wear one out in public by a Dom. maybe one day it will happen

 

[abbey_kyle]

ooh sluttygirl! It's as if you read my mind!

I had no idea I even liked anal play until a girlfriend caught me off guard and filled both my cunt and my ass with her fingers. I had the most explosive orgasm I ever had before I could even object and that is when I realized that some things needed to change in how I was going to relate to my partners, both emotionally and physically.

Your fantasy is my fantasy--my girlfriend and I split before I could even try it. I just bought my first plug and am hoping to try it on myself until I find a new partner. Consider buying one also so we can share notes!

Any suggestions from those more experienced--send them my way.

abbey

 

[SaltydogNH]

Plugging away

abbey_kyle,

you asked for suggestions:

1. use lots of lube

2. take lots of time, muscles take minutes to relaxe

3. be persistant

4. start small, use something the size of a finger
and work up, you don't want to tear the tissues

Happy plugging.


Salty.

 

[lovetoread]

Re: I'm not sure but...

I shudder to think about the consequences.

If it leaked out slowly, then it would just cause you to be a little flatulent.

If it popped, you might be in big trouble.

oh god........9..........this hurts..........1.......oh jesus..........1..........




-Vv

Oh gawd,I just saw this.

 

[cellis]

I am thinking it is time to do some shopping!

 

[Cuckolded_BlK_Male]

Yeah, it is funny how that can work! one toy, two functions = Domme fun.

Eb

Or the big one is for a reward, and the bigger one is a punishment...

 

[pet petra]

Wow I just got back from vacation in Holland. While we were there, I stopped in a sex shop and bought a small plug. My husband/master wanted me to get an inflatable one but it was so huge I said no way. I did buy a smaller one because I'm not experienced in that area. I also bought a beautiful lace-up victorian corset. I'm sure I'm getting punished for the expence. I can't wait! BTW this is a great thought provoking thread!

Peace out! Mel