Butt Plugs and Dildos

SaltydogNH said:
abbey_kyle,

you asked for suggestions:

1. use lots of lube

2. take lots of time, muscles take minutes to relaxe

3. be persistant

4. start small, use something the size of a finger
and work up, you don't want to tear the tissues

Happy plugging.


Salty.

This is very true. TAKE OUR TIME!!! DON'T BE IN A HURRY!! I use a medium to a large butt plug, not those ridiculous ones...and it helps to relax the anal muscles and then take a longer and larger dong into the ass. Do use lots of lube. My favorite is the gel types as it's not messy and it stays where you put it...use it on the plug as well as lube your ass...enjoy the experience!!!
 
So glad for the bump!!!

What a wonderful topic!!!! Wish I were a part of lit when it first came up. Shadow, You really are wonderful, especially in your thinking. I would love to use anal plugs with a sub, so much fun... have them walk around during the day... geeze, gettting myself all excited again. And to think its after 2 in the morning and i WAS going to go to bed until i decided to check lit... oops! oh well, who needs sleep, I have to ponder what I shal have a sub do next week ... mmm oh the possibilities!

Great topic, Richard thanks for bumping it up and everyone, thanks for not only the ideas but the stories. Havent had a lot of experience with them myslef (using or having others use) but then again, I havent been old enough to buy most this stuff for very long. ^_^ yey for being legal.

- Tears
 
Yikes!

I've only had one incident with a BP and it was part of a t&d treatment from a Mistress I had been "shared" with for the experience. It was vibrating and was connected to a penis vibrator.

I have no idea how the Mistress knew when to shut them off, but she was good. Too good. :eek: By the time she released me from them I wanted to go home with my own Mistress so bad and beg for release that I thought I'd go crazy. It was a LONG night.

My Mistress was amuzed and said she had to learn more about the toys. :eek:

Insane, but in a fun way.


Phil
 
Butt plugs and dildos are all very nice. There are so many variations of each that you could never experience them all. The best thing to do is search for the ones that "fit" you best. And, by using the word "fit", I don't necessarily mean size.

If you're a Domme or Dom, you could choose one that fits what you have in mind for punishment. If you're into electrical play, you could find one that fits your particular TENS unit or violet wand.

If you are into gaggets, there are some dildos and butt plugs that rotate, wiggle, vibrate and even some that thrust in and out of the hole they are inserted into. Of course, all are pretty expensive, but what is the price of satisfaction, anyway?

Some butt pluge are for training or stretching the ass hole of your sub. They have a low profile base so they can be worn under clothing for the day at work or play. Personally, I don't go for this kind of putt plug. My training is done a different way and as for stretching, I like to stretch with my own hard cock, and not an unfeeling plug. Just a personal thing, I guess. :D
 
DVS said:
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Some butt plugs are for training or stretching the ass hole of your sub. They have a low profile base so they can be worn under clothing for the day at work or play. Personally, I don't go for this kind of putt plug. My training is done a different way and as for stretching, I like to stretch with my own hard cock, and not an unfeeling plug. Just a personal thing, I guess. :D

I thought, from reading your stories that like to to keep it all tight up in there and not stretched. Mmm, maybe I'm all wrong.

*shrugs*

Fury :rose:
 
FurryFury said:
I thought, from reading your stories that like to to keep it all tight up in there and not stretched. Mmm, maybe I'm all wrong.

*shrugs*

Fury :rose:
that's exactly true. I like 'em tight. That's why I said..."Personally, I don't go for this kind of putt plug. My training is done a different way and as for stretching, I like to stretch with my own hard cock, and not an unfeeling plug."
 
DVS said:
that's exactly true. I like 'em tight. That's why I said..."Personally, I don't go for this kind of putt plug. My training is done a different way and as for stretching, I like to stretch with my own hard cock, and not an unfeeling plug."

Yay you!

*grins*

And yay me I got it right!

Fury :rose:
 
There is nothing better than a real, alive juicy hard cock.
I have some dildos but what I enjoy a lot is toys
that I can keep inside me under my clothes.
Ben wa balls for vaginal and plugs for anal use.
I can also note that plugs helps me a lot to
increase my anal activity.
 
A new question

Okay ladies did any of you ever wear a butt plug dildo harness? Does the dildo feel erotic? What is the effect walking around in one of these things? I'm trying to justify the expense of these things and I'd like to know if they really work.

-John
 
Richard49 said:
A big thank you
very interesting
very interesting in deed
Some of the sub pages are still in German, but I don't know why. I thought it was very interesting, too. ;)
 
I think it is worthwhile to spend little more a money for sextoys because I did not feel the cheap plastic balls.
This loveplug stimulated alone already by the collision of the small balls.
 
it would seem,...it is past being just a guess,..

i must be the only one that loathes the anal play bit.
i have tried and tried butt plugs and no matter what i do......argh!

i hate it.....

just like being hit with floggers and crops and canes and.....

pain is pain is pain.........i hate every second of it.


i am happy just being a mere domestic house boy, and screw all that s/m b.s.-----------


take care
 
Whoa!

timberwolf05 said:
it would seem,...it is past being just a guess,..

i must be the only one that loathes the anal play bit.
i have tried and tried butt plugs and no matter what i do......argh!

i hate it.....

just like being hit with floggers and crops and canes and.....

pain is pain is pain.........i hate every second of it.


i am happy just being a mere domestic house boy, and screw all that s/m b.s.-----------


take care


lol... well, I understand. I'm not a pain slut myself. Has caused discontent with potential Dommes, but I'm honest and up front about it. No need to suffer unnecessarily! :eek:

"However!"

Done properly, anal doesn't hurt much at all. Invasive, perhaps, but the right size should always be used at the beginning. Your mate shouldn't try to ram a 2 inch diameter rubber cock in your rectum if you've never done this before.

The right size, as I said may feel invasive, but a plug sure can enhance your sex life! I'm sure there are people here who can give you the "medical" details why... there's something there at just lights up when it's there, especially if it's a vibe. ;)

Guess what I'm trying to say is you may not want to write it off until it's been done right. If your bad experience has already turned you off of the idea permanently, sorry to hear that. You're missing something!

:D
 
mrJohnJones said:
lol... well, I understand. I'm not a pain slut myself. Has caused discontent with potential Dommes, but I'm honest and up front about it. No need to suffer unnecessarily! :eek:

"However!"

Done properly, anal doesn't hurt much at all. Invasive, perhaps, but the right size should always be used at the beginning. Your mate shouldn't try to ram a 2 inch diameter rubber cock in your rectum if you've never done this before.

The right size, as I said may feel invasive, but a plug sure can enhance your sex life! I'm sure there are people here who can give you the "medical" details why... there's something there at just lights up when it's there, especially if it's a vibe. ;)

Guess what I'm trying to say is you may not want to write it off until it's been done right. If your bad experience has already turned you off of the idea permanently, sorry to hear that. You're missing something!

:D


I agree. That sort of pleasure is a wonderful thing done correctly.

Fury :rose:
 
FurryFury said:
I agree. That sort of pleasure is a wonderful thing done correctly.

Fury :rose:
And, it takes someone with the proper experience and knowledge to put a woman (in my case) in that certain frame of mind (and position) to make it happen.

They've tried it with some drunk boyfriend who had no sense of understanding and just wanted his jollys and thought nothing of his partner. Typical jerk.

Too many times I've met someone to have them say "Oh, I tried that once, and I don't like it." I spend too much time trying to talk them into trying it again. i'm pretty sure I could change their mind, but they think it will be just like the last time. It doesn't have to be that way.
 
DVS said:
And, it takes someone with the proper experience and knowledge to put a woman (in my case) in that certain frame of mind (and position) to make it happen.

They've tried it with some drunk boyfriend who had no sense of understanding and just wanted his jollys and thought nothing of his partner. Typical jerk.

Too many times I've met someone to have them say "Oh, I tried that once, and I don't like it." I spend too much time trying to talk them into trying it again. i'm pretty sure I could change their mind, but they think it will be just like the last time. It doesn't have to be that way.

You're preaching to the choir here!

I'm the new poster girl for anal pleasure didn't you know?

LOL!

Fury :rose:
 
lol, Fury

FurryFury said:
You're preaching to the choir here!

I'm the new poster girl for anal pleasure didn't you know?

LOL!

Fury :rose:

Hey! I think I saw that poster!!!

:D

.
 
mrJohnJones said:
Hey! I think I saw that poster!!!

:D

.

*winks*

Yeah, that's me, and I'm paid to come here and TONS of other places to get the word out. I am working for the the butt toy and lube manufacturing council!

*giggles*

Fury :rose:
 
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