Caged Beast.

[subbie_333]

Are you like a BDSM dictionary? Thats impressive. As far as I can tell, not all people who describe themselves as dominant have exactly the same expectations of submissives.

And, i have never come across a person who describes themselves as a dominant who has explicitly stated that they want and seek out submissives who state that they misbehave and push buttons on purpose.


subbie_333

 

[DVS]

Yeah, Composition B flavoured. I like it because it's castable. You can make pretty stuff with it. I prefer my art to be functional.

Taliin' about slpody stuff, I've found out from a frend of mine that there are two powders you can purchase that by themselves are not volitile. And, when mixed together, they will go boom.

And, they are legal to purchase and have, as long as you store them in their respective containers. But, if you are ever caught with them mixed for very long, you ass is grass, buy the Feds. One is a powder and the other is kind of a pebble type granual. They really do go boom. I've seen it happen.

 

[MorfeuV]

Unleashed Beast

I'm body building people. It's hard. I'm also "doing".

NICE.

 

[Marquis]

I'm body building people. It's hard. I'm also "doing".

NICE.

Good for you bro, let us know how it goes.

Both.

 

[Arrete]

I have the same type of feelings as the original poster...and it depresses me that this is labeled 'wrong' and 'undesirable' by the majority of the posters. I don't feel submissive, in fact in my marriage and in the bedroom we are experimenting and I'm much happier in the dominant role. However, I also have the very occasional desire to be forced to submit and be dominated by an extremely strong individual. I don't want to give in, I want to have it taken from me. My husband and I have talked about it, and that is not something he is going to be able to do for me.

I can *of course* see where constant rebellion would get extremely old in a 24/7 relationship, but is the only option for the original poster an extremely expensive paid rendezvous? Bummer.

Admittedly I'm a total noob to all of this and am not experienced in the lifestyle at all. One obvious problem for the original poster is that generally speaking many men are physically stronger than most women. Women that can truly physically dominate a man that doesn't want to be controlled and is 'fighting back' are pretty rare I would imagine. Does it have to be physical? Is the original poster more interested in being psychologically dominated? Does it have to be a woman doing the dominating in his fantasy?

 

[JMohegan]

I have the same type of feelings as the original poster...and it depresses me that this is labeled 'wrong' and 'undesirable' by the majority of the posters. I don't feel submissive, in fact in my marriage and in the bedroom we are experimenting and I'm much happier in the dominant role. However, I also have the very occasional desire to be forced to submit and be dominated by an extremely strong individual. I don't want to give in, I want to have it taken from me.

From your last post, on a different thread:

To clarify, I definitely want more of the hair pulled, wrists gripped, pushed down sexual type of domination...and the urge only strikes me occasionally. <......> I want to be physically overpowered or bested in a competition with high stakes, and I want to be able to fight back.

Putting these two posts together, I'd say that what you want is hot caveman sex. [Thank you, SpectreT.]

This is not 'wrong', and it's not 'undesirable'. It's just not D/s, at least as I would define it.

The idea of being "forced to submit" is nonsensical. Submission is a voluntary concept, and being taken by force is something else altogether.

Any thug in an alley can do this. I can too, but only under conditions that have been discussed and agreed to ahead of time. Why? Several key reasons, not least of which is the fact that I really, really don't want to be incarcerated for rape.

 

[Arrete]

Perhaps so...

I do like being in control too though, and we are working on following a more typical pathway when I'm in the dominant role. We are learning though, and I didn't realize that there was such a clear difference between the two types. It isn't a spectrum, it is that black and white?

 

[Netzach]

Perhaps so...

I do like being in control too though, and we are working on following a more typical pathway when I'm in the dominant role. We are learning though, and I didn't realize that there was such a clear difference between the two types. It isn't a spectrum, it is that black and white?

It's a spectrum.

If your needs and desires always dictate what happens, including "fuck me hard as you can, throw me to the floor, pull my hair MAKE me"

you may not be that submissive though.

(Note to self: hmmmmmm)

 

[Marquis]

You know how they say "a fool can ask more questions than a wise man can answer"?

Well, take that basic concept, get creative, and you'll have my feelings on this matter in a nutshell.