Can I come home now?--An unabashedly warm fuzzy thread

[Titania1616]

*cellis*
because she spelled my name right in another post and no one ever does. and of course becuse shes so open and warm in her advice to others. and because she understands what i was talking about in another thread.
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=99486&pagenumber=2

thank you cellis!

 

[Sandia]

I hate list threads..I really do.

If you dont post a million times or have a wonderful online personality,no one names ya and you feel kind of crappy.

Just so's yall know..

If I have spoken to ya,I like ya.

But if we must name names to be in this thread...

WD is the reason I came over here.

lovetoread because, even though I don't know her, I love her AV's.


Ed. to spell love's name right.

 

[MotorCitySam]

I am grateful to read of the good impression I have made with the fine people here, and pleased to read what they say of Caroline.
I am also very grateful for the wisdom and the friendship I have received from so many here, and I hesitate to single out individuals, for it is the community as a whole that has been so warm and receptive to me.
Thank you Risia, for starting this great thead.

 

[willfulbrat]

I'm not good at the warm, fuzzy stuff, but can't resist giving it a try.

I really enjoy DRxBlue's and Lancastor's posts, they have such wonderful humor.

Spankablebelle, piercedboy, CarolineOh, cellis, dusty and jen are wonderfully caring and have made me feel very welcome here.

I've adored WriterDom for a long time now. His posts are intelligent, he has a delightful sense of humor, and has unique perspectives.

There are so many others that i enjoy here, i'm sure i'll be back to add to this list, but it's the most frequent posters who stay at the forefront of my mind.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Well...

Thank you, all of you, for the wonderful feeling of warmth I just got from reading this thread's development in the last day. I am honored by your company and humbled by your kindness.

Today's additions:
artful is a man who has fought some very public battles in defense of himself and those for whom he cares, a thing which in and of itself could turn someone away from this place--particularly when such battles come early in one's time here. However, he's chosen to own up to his own failings, accept apologies and forgive the transgressions of others, and stick it out--to the benefit of us all. It takes a strong person, a stronger man (given our social conditioning), and a titanium-clad Dominant to seek guidance when one's honest expression is not finding acceptance despite all attempts to communicate. And I respect him very much for being strong enough to know that personal Power doesn't mean iron-fisted control, even of ourselves.

Also, I'm a better Moderator today because he called on me to use my head and conscience to alleviate a tough situation. The combination of clueing me in to the idea that people might actually want or need me to do such things, and his apparently absolute certainty that I would and could do a good job of negotiating peace have helped me to approach this place with the image of who I want to be firmly in mind. This is a tremendously valuable service to me as a person, and I thank him for that.

MissTaken has consistently been supportive, warm, compassionate, quick to join the spirit of those she's posting with, and adaptable to all kinds of conversational styles and people. In the time since she arrived here, I've had the opportunity to see her come into her own as a woman of self-assurance, one reconciled with her own desires, and sometimes nearly bursting with emerging feelings of excitement about what the future will bring. Her refusal to take the easy way out is right there in her name, and she wears its duality well--as a laughing acceptance of human foibles and a passionate pursuit of a real and lasting bond with One who will help her as she continues on her path.

Ebonyfire is the unsung lady of laughter around here. Well before the admittedly fabulous MzChrista arrived, Ebony was in there causing my spit-takes with her bantering style of accepting all, her great one-liners, a repertoire of ways to say "don't take yourselves so freakin' seriously" without hurting anyone, and an ongoing compilation of closing descriptions of herself that always ring true. (I think my favorite is still: Ebonyfire <who's laughing her ass off>) She's also experienced, willing to share, and one of the most legitimately accepting members of this whole crew; She manages the tricky task of embracing that everyone's going to have their own opinions while still standing firmly behind her own. She's a woman I'd really like to meet for a cup of coffee and a conversation. I have no idea what we'd talk about exactly, but I feel sure it would be well worth the trip.

DRxBlue is actually one of the toughest for me, although he's just as wonderful as several have already suggested, because I feel such a unique bond to him. He has both privately and publicly credited me with introducing him to this whole thing, the idea that BDSM meant something more than whips and chains and scary weirdos. Our first exchange was a disagreement about the organization Mensa on the GB, and despite our conflict of opinion, I found tremendous respect for his willingness to recognize his own areas of ignorance, clarify his intent, and still defend what he knows to be true. He's been there in my reality ever since, sharing bits and pieces of his experiences and allowing me a chance to do the same--for two people who live solidly entrenched behind defensive barriers in our real lives, that's quite a feat indeed.

While I *still* think he gives me far too much credit for my strengths and the role I played in his reawakened interest in human contact, I have been in touch with him since the very day he found this forum, so I've gotten the chance to watch him revel in the ecstatic realization that he's not broken inside, just missing something he hadn't found a way to define. His stubborn insistence on treating me like a mentor not only makes me want to live up to the version of myself that he seems to see, it gives me a beautifully exquisite chance to be a party to the paradigmatic shift of a man in the middle of his life finally finding a path he wants to follow, a path that just might have love and romance to offer along the way.

That's all for today. MasterMe's birthday was a wonderful (if exhausting) complete sensory overload, far too much to process all at once. I'll have to review it in small bites to savor all its richness. Eventually, I'll find the words to express what I feel for him (as he lives here in spirit and awareness, if not in deed) and the finally-in-the-flesh cymbidia. Maybe.

RS, I am dying to meet you too! We could talk about anything! I really can listen, honest! And... WE CAN LAUGH OUR ASSES OFF!!!

Eb

 

[MissTaken]

speechless

Thanks for bringing a tear to my eye....

 

[WriterDom]

Thanks KM, that was nice. And you'll be happy to know that I haven't even read the general board in 10 days or so.

 

[WillowPuss]

This is one of those threads that has me wishing for more adjectives - to try and write out all the various thoughts that are running around in my head.

I didn't do justice to Spectre, Monster and Blue in my first post - I am going to try and do better in this one, but nobody hold their breaths!


Shadowsdream.
When Shadowdream first made an appearance here I was terrified of her. Her posts are so eloquent, she is able to paint such a vivid picture. Now that I have grown to know her a little better the fear has been replaced by a feeling of awe.
Each post is so full of information that I need two or three readings to take everything in.
The fact that she states I have earned her respect has left me gasping. Thank-you Shadowsdream.

cymbidia.
cym is another I hold in slight awe. The majority of her posts come so clearly from the heart, but are written just as clearly with her head.
The amount of information she has shared so willingly with everyone is just staggering. I wish I had 'met' cym years ago.

CarolineOh
Caroline is warm and friendly and imparts her knowledge in a loving way. (She also doesn't mind countless silly type PM when I check something with her!) I am overjoyed that Caroline has Sam who matches her in big-heartedness (did I just make a word up? Is that allowed?)

MissTaken
Another one who posts from the heart and is willing to share her hard won experiences so that others may learn. MissT - you are priceless, and deserve every happiness.

cellis
I avidly read all that cellis has to say. She doesn't mind sharing her knowledge to educate others and is always one of the first with a word of encouragement.



There will be more to follow when I can think of different ways of saying much the same thing.

Willow (who should have paid a little more attention in gammar class perhaps?)

 

[spankableBelle]

I'm not good at the warm, fuzzy stuff, but can't resist giving it a try.

I really enjoy DRxBlue's and Lancastor's posts, they have such wonderful humor.

Spankablebelle, piercedboy, CarolineOh, cellis, dusty and jen are wonderfully caring and have made me feel very welcome here.

I've adored WriterDom for a long time now. His posts are intelligent, he has a delightful sense of humor, and has unique perspectives.

There are so many others that i enjoy here, i'm sure i'll be back to add to this list, but it's the most frequent posters who stay at the forefront of my mind.

Wow...i have to say i'm shocked to be mentioned...and sweetheart, you're just adorable and while i don't post much, i find many here thoughtful and insightful and warm and full of knowledge that i soak up like a sponge. i don't have personal friendships with anyone on this section of the Lit boards, but it's not because i don't desire them or that i don't enjoy reading and learning...i do feel rather intimidated by most and that's evidently not as hard to do as i thought...people here touch me with things they say, the honesty they share, the experiences, the ups and downs, the opinions...everyone offers so much...and while person A doesn't always agree with person B, there's always, i like to think a measure of respect for differences...i like this board and have varied opinions on the different people that post here regularly...but for the most part i respect, like, and adore everyone...most of your experiences humble me for i have nothing to compare or offer...most of your thoughts and opinions floor me for the level of indepth responses and measured words that go into discussions...most of all, most here are real and they show it...perhaps one day i'll fit in...~smile~

Again, thank you, willful...you brightened up an otherwise dreary day...

 

[Sandia]

spankableBelle because she's so sweet and caring, and because she could so easily make so many friends here and so quickly become a part of the community. And because she's brave.

And

Because she's a truly gifted writer. (Check it out.)

 

[monster666]

part II

lilfrk because she's caustic, she's funny, she's honest, she's real, she's cool.

Willowpuss for her warm and genuine manner. Supportive, quick to laugh and just plain welcome anytime.

Killermuffin because I love a bitch on wheels. And because she's such a bright bitch on wheels, and a whole lot more. She makes me laugh, she makes sit up and foam at the mouth, she ma and she makes me wonder who peed in her wheaties. She always does her damndest to make it real. Ya gotta love KM.

cellis for her unflappable loyalty to this forum and the people in it. She's kind, helpful and has some experience to draw from - some good and if my understanding is correct, some I hope no one has to know. She's strong and quiet and caring.

Sierramoon for that one AV of hers. And for her enthusiasm about things BDSM.

Todd-O-Vision because of my absolute certainty that he's the only man ever abducted by aliens to come back a virgin. Kudos to Todd, for his inquisitive mind, non-judgemental manner and friendly demeanor. It's a rare combination for a bible thumper.

Lancecastor because although he too has been abducted by aliens, he managed to come back with a few more notches in his bedpost, a few green pelts on his belt and a few new mindtricks in his repertoire. He's not always the easiest to read, but he does get attention. He's bright and can add a whole lot to a discussion.

 

[artful]

spankableBelle

spankableBelle because she's so sweet and caring, and because she could so easily make so many friends here and so quickly become a part of the community. And because she's brave.

And

Because she's a truly gifted writer. (Check it out.)

I agree with you Sandia.

 

[Todd-'o'-Vision]

Re: part II

Todd-O-Vision because of my absolute certainty that he's the only man ever abducted by aliens to come back a virgin. Kudos to Todd, for his inquisitive mind, non-judgemental manner and friendly demeanor. It's a rare combination for a bible thumper.

WOW, thank you Monster Dude.

abducted by aliens, I don't remember being that, but who knows what happens while I sleep

I think the rarest combination for this bible thumper is that I try to remember that I am human, and those who I am talking to are human. it doesn't matter to me color, ethnicity or anything we are all humans. If we can't learn to love each other, we don't deserve to be loved.

Stepping back from the podium before I get carried away again.

 

[CarolineOh]

I'd like to say a few words about Artful.
I admit freely that I had some misgivings about him a few months back when the was in the middle of some controversy here. But since his return, he has been nothing short of completely gracious, informative and insightful. But more to the point, he has rejoined the discussion without rancor, or recrimination for past grievances, and he has shown himself to be a man of honor, deserving of all our respect.

 

[cellis]

I am humbled by the comments written about me.

I am moved beyond words....

 

[spankableBelle]

Thank You Sandia and Artful...both of whom i respect for their forthrightness and honest opinions.

i am humbled by Your kind words...touched and blessed to know You both...

belle

 

[artful]

Caroline

I'd like to say a few words about Artful.
I admit freely that I had some misgivings about him a few months back when the was in the middle of some controversy here. But since his return, he has been nothing short of completely gracious, informative and insightful. But more to the point, he has rejoined the discussion without rancor, or recrimination for past grievances, and he has shown himself to be a man of honor, deserving of all our respect.

I had made up my mind to not post to individuals on this thread, (including all of the posters in my one prior post), but once again, you have compelled me to change my mind. It is difficult for me to explain just HOW much I value your post, but believe me when I say, thank you very much.

I respect your expressed opinions as much as I do my own,...you have that right, as we all do. I will admit, sometimes I don't understand where you are coming from, but I place as much VALUE on your posts as I do any others, and hope to be able to understand you better in the future.

Best wishes to you and Sam both.

 

[SierraMoon]

ohh my.... there are tooo many to mention, but i'll try...

ok, here goes.......

Blue is just the cat's pajamas in my eyes... i feel so good after reading his posts, and he shows that a little humor, can make such a difference in everyone's life... he has certainly saved me from a few very rough days....

cym what can i say about her, that hasn't been said already? She has been such a constant source of information, and inspiration in my life...

Monster has been such a terrific friend to me.. He has listened intently to quite a few of my ramblings, and makes sense out of them.....

Artful and i have talked at length about millions of different thiings, and i know that i can rely on him to give me an honest and caring point of view

ok.. i am falling asleep at my computer. so i guess that means i should close this for now.. but i WILL be back!!
Thank you to each and every one of you here, who have made my journey into BDSM such a wonderful and inspired one

 

[Shadowsdream]

continued...

MzChrista...who blows my mind with Her off the cuff humour...such a wonder and refreshing addition to Lit.

cellis...always open..always honest...sharing deeply..never avoiding the hard questions and so ready to accept new arrivals with a sincere helping hand.

Hecate...a dynomite personality..full of knowledge, shared so calmly with a no bullshit delivery. Neither are Her words tempered with arrogance nor uncertainty.

lovestoread...such a soft and warm spirit that shows no weakness in her innate soft warmth. Intellect wrapped in silk.


to be continued

 

[Guest]

May I add lilredwolph? I admire her knowledge of toys - especially how to make them. Love the recipe for lubricant. And I really adore her signature - Beware of the Wolph in sheeps clothing. Makes me think of my favorite cartoon.

Would it be totally inappropriate to tell SpectreT I fall more in love with him every time I read one of his hilarious posts?

 

[SexySusan]

whoops ...

... that was me. How I became logged out I don't know.

 

[petrel]

how hard is this - well ebveryone has something they've contributed over time that has made me think or made em laugh or just brightened my day up but those who I woudl happily fly a thousand miles or more to meet are:

CarolineOh - sweetheart I think you are one of the sexiest, funiest, warmest girls around - Sam is sooooo lucky!

Dr Blue - Blue you do know I have a crush on you don't you?? Your wisdom, humuor and ability to stay well out of any firefights amazes me (and hey you are a music man)

SpectreT - I could just eat you up - you make me laugh, make me feel all warm and cosy wish there was someone like you in my RL as a friend I think we are all lucky to have you.

JamesBlandings - well I always know which way my switchyness would go if I met James insight and experience with that little edge that makes me cross my legs (hard)


Myst - who must be busy preparing for her wedding right now - I'll PM you later darlin'

 

[Lancecastor]

People in my neighborhood....

These are some of the people in the neighborhood I enjoy reading each day, in no particular order, with a quick sense of how they "feel" to me in terms of vibes:

KillerMuffin: Smart, with little patience for fools. A wee bit crusty at times, with a sly quiet wit.

Ebonyfire: Smart, sensitive, funny, hot as hell.

MissTaken: Caring, engaging, active, funny, loving.

CarolineOh: Caring, curious,leader, willful, intuitive,maddening.

RisiaSkye: A soft gooey center encased in a will of steel and a coating of molton pride.

Cymbidia: Rational, reasoned, kind, always willing to put Us before Her. I'll bet she has really soft eyes.

Monster: Smart, grouchy, genuine, educated, mannerly, manly,rapier wit.

MzChrista: If I thought I'd win the toaster oven, I'd try to get her to play for the Hets and marry me, just for her brains and wit. Damn she's got gigs of Ram.

Artful: Calm, well-reasoned, rational.

Richard49: Genuine. Concise. No BS. Always.

WD: Provokative, experienced, intelligent, funny.

Willow: British charm masking (possibly) one of the kinkiest, wisest ones here.

Shadowsdream: Yummy, sophisticated, funny, smart. I'd like to watch her walk, I'll bet she's got great bearing...and that her voice is like liquid sex mixed with smoke. She doesn't scare me, so I guess that'd be a problem. (ha)

Sandia: Reminds me of a longtime great friend of mine; a royal pain in the ass, but I can't get mad at him.

Funny how you've all grown on me....must go get some cream for that....

Lance "It's not the itching as much as the swelling" Castor

 

["angel" eve]

thoughts to the young ones

this is for you Quint for being young and articulate, never forgetting that your experiences are relevant, even when we're near cymbidia and the others who have infinately more experience than the virgins have had time to. cym, i respect your knowledge incredibly much.thank you James Blandings for your reasuring posts. Keeper69, your stories have been a delightfully wet read which i appreciated early on in my interest in BDSM.

to everyone else , you fascinate me, no less than any of those mentioned above. to everyone who posts on occasion, i appreciate the guts it takes to post. to those who have been thanked many a time already. thankyou. but i dont want to inflate your ego's much more. *grin*

 

[Quint]

CarolineOh, because her limericks had the proper meter. (They were so dead-on and original, too!)

Sandia, because he took blows with grace and resilience.

MorningGirl, because I see a great love of life in her.

KillerMuffin, because she shows me every day what an editor should aspire to be.

Shadowsdream, because she is beautiful. Courtesy, wisdom, grace, command--true Renaissance material.

Blue, because he brings me back every time I slip away.

Lance, because he makes me smile at my own pretension.

Monster, because he made me reevaluate initial impressions for the better.