Can I come home now?--An unabashedly warm fuzzy thread

[RisiaSkye]

more for today...

MotorCitySam hasn't been here for all that long, yet he's already in indespensible part of this community. Starting by coming to an unfamiliar place to post to people he didn't know--just because his lady cared, and *we* might worry--now that's how you make an entrance that impresses people in a lasting way. He's reasonable, intelligent, honest, succinct (something I could certainly learn from!) and strong enough to refrain from being dragged down to a dishonorable level despite temptation. I have great respect for a Dom who cherished their sub so much, and who freely admits they have much yet to learn, reaching out to others for that knowledge rather than closing up his world to defend an incomplete and insecure dominant ego. Besides, I like a man who can start a sentence with "My grandma used to say..." without sounding like a yokel. Well met, Sam. Very well met indeed.

Shadowsdream is so comfortable in her own skin that you can see it even through the monitor. Her posts reflect her dominance in a positive and self-assured way without arrogance, and the care, trust, and value she places in/with Her submissives, and subs more generally, shines through all she writes about D/s. She's friendly and compassionate but not a puddle of mush (thank Gods), and she's sharp and to the point without being nasty when the situation call for it. Her voice has tremendously enriched this place, and my enjoyment of it.

Sandhia had to slay--or at least appease--one of the most ferocious (if also most beloved) dragons around in order to find a place here, and that's not an easy task. He's a private person, and seems likely to be shy in real life, yet he reaches out for contact and information a little more each day. He's funny but not a wise-ass, flirtatious but not playing the fool, and seems to genuinely take everyone here just as they are--or, at least, just as they present themselves, which works out to the same thing in context. He's got a knack for asking the right question to steer a conversation in a fruitful direction (a fellow former debater, perhaps? ) and he's warmly open and positive, particularly with new people--perhaps sparing them the trial-by-fire that he faced when he first arrived. Besides, "Calvin & Hobbes" is my all-time favorite comic strip.

More tomorrow. cym's allegedly on her way over. Details to follow...

 

[MzChrista]

When I was a brand new Lit newbie, I wandered about, and read in all the areas, and took my first steps posting on the GB, but I was a little reticent to post in the just opened BDSM Talk area at first, because I didn't feel like I had much to contribute and I was, frankly, a little scared.
But in my explorations of the boards I saw certain names that popped up in opportune places and some of those names soon became real people to me, and a few became trusted guides to me, even before they had any idea who I was.
Two of those posters were strong, gracious and charming women who I came to count on as a sure sign of friendly and thoughtful conversation. If they had not been involved in this particular forum, I don't know that I'd have gotten up my courage to come in and join this wonderful, wacky bunch.
So thank you, Miss Taken, and thank you, Petrel.


Oh, and for those of you who are new, let me slip in a little plug for lovely Petrel. Check out her graceful beauty here-->http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=84205

Whoa, caroline you aint never lied, baby. I went and looked those Petrel pics and she is way hot.

 

[MzChrista]

me and Big Sam cut a deal. If he ever wants to see what the bottom side is all about, Ive got the contract, and if I ever decide to try man love Ill give it up to him.
C.Oh gets to watch either way.

And thanks to them with nice things to say about me, you are kind but maybe a little delusional.

 

[morninggirl5]

Next group of warm-fuzzies from me.


Cym - She gives her all for us and doesn't seem to realize how much it means. She's always got an answer, a link, a helpful word. And she takes out the trash around here when it absolutely has to be done.


lovetoread - She's stayed and become a member of this community despite a very rough couple of threads on the GB when she and her Tiger first got together. Her strength and courage simply amaze me.

Cellis and Miss Taken - They both share so much of their own struggles here. It really helps to have that "i'm really not alone" to fall back on.

 

[seXieleXie]

cym- what can i say? she's the reason i opened the bdsm thead on the how-to board all those months ago. she's the reason i stay here, even when i feel out of place. i don't have the words to express the respect i have for her, as a woman, as a submissive, and as a person. she's just great.

risiaskye- i am frequently laid flat by this woman's ability to cut to the heart and soul of an idea or an arguement. i can't decide whether i'm most attracted to her intelligence, her sincerity, her witt, or her warmth. i've always admired her from afar, but every time i read a post by her she is able to reveal a new layer. it's utterly fascinating.

spectreT- i admire his bravery in vocalizing his struggle, and his ability to laugh it off when he needs to. i've enjoyed watching him come out of his shell to show us all how smart, funny, and interesting he truely is.

mzchrista- fun, funny, and utterly unapologetic. dommes like her give me hope for my future.

 

[Shadowsdream]

continuing..

Spectre..for his openess even in his pain of Bi-Polar disorder. The way he reaches out to touch reality and to share what he has learned~. His humour and sensitivity have no limits but he is also quick to debate.

~morninggirl...sweetly optimistic without being saccrine (spelling) sweet or unrealistic. Always ready to support, learn and share. mg has an open mind and reality that is refreshing.

spankablebelle...depth and integrity..wonder and hope as she looks cautiously into the words before her. Neither excepting or rejecting automatically but adding where ever she sees a place that willbenefit from her participation.

never...Never conforms...Never takes the easy road...Never allows humour to get past her without jumping in with both feet. Never leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

Sandia...boldly, shyly, bluntly, cautiously, into learning and learning and learning who can teach and who he can teach. A valuable addition to the forum.


to be continued...

 

[spankableBelle]

continuing..

spankablebelle...depth and integrity..wonder and hope as she looks cautiously into the words before her. Neither excepting or rejecting automatically but adding where ever she sees a place that willbenefit from her participation.

Wow...a nail on the head, Shadowsdream...moved beyond words...though i will find enough to say thank you and that you have many times inspired within me thought and reflection, with your experience and your honesty...your clarification of questions asked by others in effort to advise and suggest with truth and not miscommunication...your non-judgement of those in not so perfect situations soothes already stressed emotions, and your acceptance of those that are new, curious, and not so experienced as others is warm and comforting in a sometimes not so welcoming place, both inside and out...

Again, i thank you...

belle

 

[petrel]

continued......

Cymbidia: for wisdom and experience - a firm guiding hand that is inspiring but still human - finely steeped china tea - refreshing, sharp and clear and somehow comforting
RisiaSkye: wit, brilliance and excellent writing style - I think she is one of our brightest brains - a swift clear shot of vodka over cranberries
Artful: I began by disliking him intensly but I have been won over by his thoughtful and sometimes inspiring posts -
Cellis: someone I would like to call friend - her posts and sharing of experiences gives me hope and new ideas!!! (especially that AV with the blue flogger) - a latte drunk in a cafe whilst talking
Willow: a fellow UK person and a friend - I'll pm you soon sweetie - a bottle (or two) of gluggable white wine
Quint: yahay a fellow buffy addict - we really ought to start a buffy/angel RP thread you know - bottles of bubbly - light fun and always a pleasure to drink
Writerdom: even when I don't agree with him his writing is clear and thoughtprovoking. I sometimes wonder if he exists and posts to keep us thinking and to challange lazy mental patterns - strong dark espresso coffee
Nessus: the continent that holds her is fortunate indeed, a quiet elegant image flosts through my mind when I think of her - she reminds me of the film 'delta of venus' - an elegant glass of chilled champagne
Hecate: dark warm mulled wine -sweetly spiced but faintly bitter - a warning of the potency of her as mistress.

Caroline - you darlin are a pink gin - fun, sexy and sharp (not to sweet and sickly)
Blue - Hot chocolate with irish whisky
Spectre - a bottle of beer (swigged in a bar playing pool)
James - a smooth red wine


I wish I could think of the right words to use - you are all special to me and to yourselves - big hugs all round

 

[CarolineOh]

cym- what can i say? she's the reason i opened the bdsm thead on the how-to board all those months ago. she's the reason i stay here, even when i feel out of place. i don't have the words to express the respect i have for her, as a woman, as a submissive, and as a person. she's just great.

Lexie, I hope you never feel out of place here. I, for one, always find your contributions refreshing and insightful, and I am always glad to see you posting.

 

[spankableBelle]

Cym, Risia, DVS, Caroline...i find all of you so talented and expressive...i feel there is always something to tell about one that writes, whether from their own experiences or from their imagination...i find your convictions heartfelt...and your openness, while at times stinging, it is refreshing. A multitude of experiences are found in all of you and i find that in one form or another, i admire you. None of you are afraid to speak your minds, whether another will agree or not and i find most of what you all have to say, insightful. So, thank you.

belle

 

[Shadowsdream]

continuing..

Petrel...who is so happy and authentic. so real and inquisitive and always shares her joy and experiences in the nicest possible ways

Lancecaster...~like a needle in a haystack. A barb on the wire...a thorn on the stem of the rose...

Jen...who I feel is a generous warm addition to the community even though she does not post often.

James Blandings openess and intellect are welcomed with every word I have enjoyed from his finger tips and I wait patiently to read more and more of his news.

Todd...who always stimulates the mind and shows he is not a judgemental pain in the ass but a man on a journey to learn as many realities as his mind can absorb.

to be continued...

 

[petrel]

DustyGrrl - sweetness and light and an incredible strength - you are truly worth so much and I am so glad you and Jen have foudn each otehr

Shadowsdream - graceful and generous and expereinced a Domme who understands and enjoys the rest of life whilst respecting the importance of BDSM in her own and others life choices

Wizard - who posts rarely but i remember from my first forays into the GB way back in the days before the mother thread! If for nothing else but beginning the links thread here (but there is lots mroe)

 

[MzChrista]

Lexie, I hope you never feel out of place here. I, for one, always find your contributions refreshing and insightful, and I am always glad to see you posting.

Square business. She should post more good shit about me.

 

[Todd-'o'-Vision]

Todd...who always stimulates the mind and shows he is not a judgemental pain in the ass but a man on a journey to learn as many realities as his mind can absorb.

WOW

you people are too nice to me

you keep saying such nice things about me it will go to my head

 

[cymbidia]

I love this thread and am simultaneously humbled and warmed to the depths of my slipstream soul by the many openhearted sentiments and honestly wrought emotions of caring and support that i've found within these few pages.

This is, indeed, a gorgeously special place, and one in which we've had a hand in the construction, too.

To us, to our continued honesty and truth-telling, and to the maintenence of our growth, together and individually: cheers!
We've done well.

 

[SierraMoon]

ok, i'm back for another round...

Risia.... like cym, you have helped me immensely in my finding my true identity, and for that i thank you from the bottom of my heart.. The things that you write, opinions you give, information you share have helped so many here, that i wonder if you know how much you have touched everyone who comes here....

Willowpuss.... you are a treasure.. and i love reading your posts... you are so articulate, yet funny and i am very glad you found your way to us!!

Shadowsdream... i have always had a preconceived notion of what a Domme is like... hard nosed, scary, and to the point... all business and no fun, so to speak.... and you have blown that idea to bits... you appear to be very even tempered, honest, and willing to help anyone in need, not to mention humurous... What a great woman!!!

hmmm, and MzChrista.... i truley enjoy your sense of humor, and love reading your posts... you are sometimes rough around the edges, but your other posts paint a different side.... so glad you are here!!!!

to be continued.....

 

[SexySusan]

... this one goes out to MzChrista ... for being one of the most authentic people I've ever known ... and for having a heart of gold in spite of what she says ...

And to dixicritter, who strikes me as honest, and sweet, and caring and I just wish she wouldn't divide her time between the GB and us and post here more often ...

 

[Never]

Shadowsdream:
"never...Never conforms...Never takes the easy road...Never allows humour to get past her without jumping in with both feet. Never leaves a bad taste in my mouth."

Never obviously has no feelings.

 

[Shadowsdream]

OMG!!!

just did the reread.....so BIG fuck up when one word is left out...arghhhhhh


(never...Never conforms...Never takes the easy road...Never allows humour to get past her without jumping in with both feet. Never leaves a bad taste in my mouth. )

Was meant to read Never *NEVER* leaves a bad taste in My mouth..such as in a GOOD thing.....

Please accept My apologies for an omission of a single word that made a totally false statement never?

 

[Never]

She doesn't really hate me!

 

[Shadowsdream]

No She doesn't She really likes you...says the Domme that is at this moment feeling like the resident idiot!

 

[Never]

No, it's my fault.
I should have just PMed you. I saw the play on words you were doing with the first part and should have guessed that you just left a word out.

I'm sorry for misjudging you Shadowsdream. You're a high class lady and I jumped to the worst conclusion.

 

[artful]

Never

I'm sorry for misjudging you Shadowsdream. You're a high class lady.

I agree wuth you 100% !

 

[Daddyslilpet]

... this one goes out to MzChrista ... for being one of the most authentic people I've ever known ... and for having a heart of gold in spite of what she says ...

And to dixicritter, who strikes me as honest, and sweet, and caring and I just wish she wouldn't divide her time between the GB and us and post here more often ...

Thanks Susan.....I actually do spend much more time here lately... The GB seems to lose my interest quickly...lol. I'll work on the posting more and lurking less thing....

dixi

edited to put the "t" in posting.....damn Blue ya had to point that out didn't ya....lol

 

[DRxBlue]

Oooh GOOD!

Thanks Susan.....I actually do spend much more time here lately... The GB seems to lose my interest quickly...lol. I'll work on the posing more and lurking less thing....

dixi

This is wonderful news!

i find myself wanting to know more about you... well, cuz you said nice things about me *blush*

i know that's sorta self serving, but i'm kinda like a pony with a sweet tooth. You never forget when someone hands you a big hunk of a yummy apple. You try to find ways to "accidently" bump into that person again. y'know?

<BUMP>

You can put a bridle and harness on me and smack me with a riding crop if you want to.

Blue

P.S. if you're really going to be "posing" more, could you take some pictures and put 'em up in the Amateur Pics Forum?

Ooops.

i'm gonna get spanked for that one.


<yes! edited cuz "T's" and "Y's" are too close together on this *$^#&^$ keyboard!>