Chaos... to be continued

[Codeman93]

Hey Code

How are you doing today?

Just happy it’s Friday!! How about you?

 

[MsNatalie99]

Just happy it’s Friday!! How about you?

Not too bad. Busy day at work, but I head to the airport when I'm all done

 

[Diosax]

A

Not too bad. Busy day at work, but I head to the airport when I'm all done

At what time is your flight?

 

[jason28053]

This is a red flag for me. On both ends but more so him. In this scenario I think a conversation is needed and paying attention to how he responds to it bc that'd be very telling as to whether there are other major red flags that will make me stop dating him.

Whose idea was the throat grab and hair pull?

 

[Diosax]

Whose idea was the throat grab and hair pull?

Are you asking that because you're blaming her that he decided that means slap her?

 

[Codeman93]

Not too bad. Busy day at work, but I head to the airport when I'm all done

Your Almost there

 

[water_moutina]

https://img-9gag-fun.9cache.com/photo/aze3MXp_460sv.mp4

 

[jason28053]

Are you asking that because you're blaming her that he decided that means slap her?

Of course not! If it was his idea and then he hit her I think it’s assault at a minimum. If it was her idea, maybe in the moment he got carried away but Either way it’s not cool.

 

[water_moutina]

I need backup that I’m not overreacting to something…

In a social FB group I’m in, a woman posted about having sex with a guy on their third date. She said she told him he could “grab her hair and throat (yes, I know, not smart)” but then out of nowhere, he hit her across the face.

The other comments were so almost forgiving!!! Like, oh if you see him again, make sure to tell him that’s not ok. My comment was that’s assault. Am I overreacting??

Next time a guy tells me during sex that I can grab his dick, imma slap him.

See, feels uncalled for, doesn't it? That's why he should have slapped her just cause she liked it a bit rough. He should have eased it in, test the boundaries. Even if she says slap her, don't fucking just slap her. Take it slow ffs

 

[Diosax]

Of course not! If it was his idea and then he hit her I think it’s assault at a minimum. If it was her idea, maybe in the moment he got carried away but Either way it’s not cool.

Cheeky said she asked

 

[water_moutina]

Let me ask few cop buddies of mine, what they think. But I guess it's hard to get an honest answer but I'll try

Of course not! If it was his idea and then he hit her I think it’s assault at a minimum. If it was her idea, maybe in the moment he got carried away but Either way it’s not cool.

 

[Diosax]

Let me ask few cop buddies of mine, what they think. But I guess it's hard to get an honest answer but I'll try

Given the high % of domestic violence in the profession I wouldn't really go by what they say

 

[Diosax]

Ultimately, the issue of whether it was assault or not will depend on the jurisdiction. I think this is more so an issue of boundaries and respect within a relationship.

 

[water_moutina]

Yep def boundaries. Third date, first sex, yeah you're not there yet that you can slap her

 

[water_moutina]

When it's already Friday but not party time yet
https://img-9gag-fun.9cache.com/photo/ay9KM8r_460sv.mp4

 

[cheekygirl75]

When it's already Friday but not party time yet
https://img-9gag-fun.9cache.com/photo/ay9KM8r_460sv.mp4

But it is party time!!

 

[FranklyFrank]

But it is party time!!

Well okay but it's just 3 pm here...lol

 

[water_moutina]

Im still at work. I'm pretending to work but that's not the point

But it is party time!!

 

[MsNatalie99]

A

At what time is your flight?

12:10p

 

[MsNatalie99]

Yep def boundaries. Third date, first sex, yeah you're not there yet that you can slap her

Rule of thumbs... you can't until you're told you can. And when you're told you can, you can always be told you can go harder, so always start slow.

 

[MsNatalie99]

Ultimately, the issue of whether it was assault or not will depend on the jurisdiction. I think this is more so an issue of boundaries and respect within a relationship.

Lmao... we establish most assholes can't find the clitoris, but some still want to jump straight into boxing.

 

[MsNatalie99]

When it's already Friday but not party time yet
https://img-9gag-fun.9cache.com/photo/ay9KM8r_460sv.mp4

Shit.... I've been her

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

Are you asking that because you're blaming her that he decided that means slap her?

Yes, that's exactly why he's asking. There's a reason he wears "wife beaters". I can hear him saying "she asked for it!" (please note the sarcasm)

Jason is known for his inflammatory statements on Lit. Calls women skanks & goes off on people and gets banned. Oh, wait... that's not him.

 

[water_moutina]

Yes, that's exactly why he's asking. There's a reason he wears "wife beaters". I can hear him saying "she asked for it!" (please note the sarcasm)

Jason is known for his inflammatory statements on Lit. Calls women skanks & goes off on people and gets banned. Oh, wait... that's not him.

Goes off on people or gets off of people?

 

[Mo_Bandy]

Yes, that's exactly why he's asking. There's a reason he wears "wife beaters". I can hear him saying "she asked for it!" (please note the sarcasm)

Jason is known for his inflammatory statements on Lit. Calls women skanks & goes off on people and gets banned. Oh, wait... that's not him.

How awful. Jason needs a good talking to.