Cock Talk

[Bisexguy70]

From what I see on Lit there are a lot of men that identify as heterosexual that fantasize about sucking another man’s dick. These men, can in theory, get there dick sucked by their female partner but they do not have a dick to suck in their heterosexual relationships.

Ill chime in on this. My wife hates sucking cock and she wasnt too good at it anyway. I was curious and realized my attraction to the male member and decided to pursue my curiosity. My first situation was a 69 so i was sucking AND getting sucked. I was hooked after that!! I never imagined myself doing this because Of the stigmatism and negative view of it. I mean how many guys have you heard get mad and call another person a cocksucker?
In my case, its been pretty easy to find a guy wanting his cock sucked.

Good thinking Deft. Hot boy glory hole is where my mind went too @hotwords229_A
The other place it went was wondering if the desire was to suck a real dick or if sucking a strap on would be satisfying in any way.
For me, if i want a cock in my mouth then that is what I want and a synthetic one would not satisfy me but maybe it might be hot for some men.

im going to also chime in and say real flesh is much better. Part of the allure of sucking cock is the taste of real flesh and sweet precum. Also a synthetic one doesnt twitch and throb. And there is no moaning when your tongue slithers around the shaft and its deep in the mouth.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Good thinking Deft. Hot boy glory hole is where my mind went too @hotwords229_A
The other place it went was wondering if the desire was to suck a real dick or if sucking a strap on would be satisfying in any way.
For me, if i want a cock in my mouth then that is what I want and a synthetic one would not satisfy me but maybe it might be hot for some men.

I never understood sucking a strap on. I think that’s more of a humiliation kink than a cock curiosity.

How does hot boy glory hole work exactly?
Which side is the audience on?

 

[hotwords229_A]

Are we going to do some hot boy glory hole for the ladies?

Do they choose who is on which side?

 

[deft]

How does hot boy glory hole work exactly?
Which side is the audience on?

I'm imagining the audience sitting perpendicular to the glory-hole wall... we'll build a set... then they can watch both sides of the interaction... spectating, and even encouraging where appropriate.

 

[Wand3rlust]

I'm imagining the audience sitting perpendicular to the glory-hole wall... we'll build a set... then they can watch both sides of the interaction... spectating, and even encouraging where appropriate.

I've a feeling you've thought about this before....

 

[deft]

I've a feeling you've thought about this before....

Ever the showman... I feel I'm the PT Barnum of Lit.

 

[Wand3rlust]

Ever the showman... I feel I'm the PT Barnum of Lit.

Not the description I'd use, but you do you, boo..

 

[hotwords229_A]

Ever the showman... I feel I'm the PT Barnum of Lit.

Wouldn’t that be the BJ Barnum in this case?

 

[hotwords229_A]

I've a feeling you've thought about this before....

Are you saying you haven’t?

 

[positiveflirt]

Good thinking Deft. Hot boy glory hole is where my mind went too

If members of this thread ever want to form a band, Hot Boy Glory Hole gets my vote

 

[hotwords229_A]

If members of this thread ever want to form a band, Hot Boy Glory Hole gets my vote

I’ve heard they suck.

 

[Wand3rlust]

I’ve heard they suck.

And blow.

 

[UnquietDreams]

I'm imagining the audience sitting perpendicular to the glory-hole wall... we'll build a set... then they can watch both sides of the interaction... spectating, and even encouraging where appropriate.

I've a feeling you've thought about this before....

"No! Absolutely not. But I do have some plans drawn out, and over here I have a LEGO mockup..."

 

[UnquietDreams]

I’ve heard they suck.

Oh, well done, sir!

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

Better than the other way around I guess. Although it could make LinkedIn way more exciting.

Yup. Speaking from experience. It’s much worse the other way around.

Not a work colleague, but someone who was not in the realm of receiving the type of picture I sent. Thankfully that’s someone I don’t see a whole lot. But oof so cringey.

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[deft]

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This is definitely a good thing to remember

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

This is definitely a good thing to remember

 

[UnquietDreams]

Yup. Speaking from experience. It’s much worse the other way around.

Not a work colleague, but someone who was not in the realm of receiving the type of picture I sent. Thankfully that’s someone I don’t see a whole lot. But oof so cringey.

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[justanotherguy80]

This is definitely a good thing to remember

I’ve got my work instant messaging app on my personal phone. When I select a picture to share from my photo album, quite often work colleague’s faces appear as recommended contacts.

I feel a pang of guilt and disgust at myself just seeing their faces. Just one little drunken finger slip and I may have to leave the country and never return.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Yup. Speaking from experience. It’s much worse the other way around.

Not a work colleague, but someone who was not in the realm of receiving the type of picture I sent. Thankfully that’s someone I don’t see a whole lot. But oof so cringey.

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Was it a suggestive pic or did it leave nothing to the imagination?

 

[hotwords229_A]

Curiouser and curiouser . . .

There are a lot of guys (straightish even) who fantasize about sucking on a cock. More than I ever thought there would be. These are guys who (apparently) aren’t really bi, who only want a relationship with a woman, but still wonder about cock.

We can also say that a lot of these guys are in relationships with women who are not at all into it.
(Based on intense research )


We’re gonna split this one up into two categories:

Ladies:
Has your male partner ever admitted to sucking a cock or being curious about it?
How would (or did) you feel if he did?
Are you aroused by guy on guy action, but don’t want your guy involved in it?
Would you like to see your partner with a cock in his mouth?
Why does it seem like most women don’t want guy on guy?
If in a ‘two guys and a girl’ threesome, do you only want the guys paying attention to you, or are you interested in seeing them plow each other too? (And none of that “whatever makes us all happy” garbage. I’m asking what you and only you want. )
If your guy wanted cock, would you overthink yourself to death wondering all kinds of stuff, or would you be happy that you have a guy who is comfortable enough with you to be open?

Guys:
Have you ever sucked a cock? If so, what was the circumstance?
Do you want to blow a dick, or ever at least considered it?
Do you trust your partner enough to talk to her about it, or will it be a deal crusher?
Do you feel the same about sucking a dick today as when you were (let’s say) in your twenties?
Is your desire to suck a dick out of pure curiosity, or do you want to do it with your partner?
Have you ever sucked, or tried to suck, your own cock?
How sexually open minded are you, in your opinion? What would others say?

What do you want to know about guy on guy?

(I fully suspect the “Guys” portion of this to go mostly unanswered )

 

[hotwords229_A]

I know the above topic is a hard one and a lot of you will stiffen up reading it.
I know this set of questions can make people teste, but let’s try to be adults.
I think if we all cum together we can really wrap ourselves around this thing and swallow what ever it shoots at us.

Thank you for your professionalism.

 

[UnquietDreams]

(I fully suspect the “Guys” portion of this to go mostly unanswered

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I accept this challenge!

Guys:
Have you ever sucked a cock? If so, what was the circumstance?

It was a party. Ecstasy and a stupefying beautiful man relaxed and intrigued me. We went to a room and started to make out. I sucked his cock, both kneeling, and then in a 69, which I generally do not enjoy (I love to focus my attention when going down on a woman). He was circumcised and pretty well-endowed, and I remember indulging in doing a lot of the things I enjoyed to have done. We did not go to completion because I let him fuck me as well. It was a wild night...

Do you want to blow a dick, or ever at least considered it?

It was a singular experience. I have been with a transsexual woman, but I did not perform oral on her. She got off in a different manner.

Do you trust your partner enough to talk to her about it, or will it be a deal crusher?

I never brought it up with my ex-wife. She would not have taken it well.

Do you feel the same about sucking a dick today as when you were (let’s say) in your twenties?

I was in my twenties. I haven't since then, so ...no?

Is your desire to suck a dick out of pure curiosity, or do you want to do it with your partner?

It was purely because of the person I was with. And thinking about it now, curiosity. The idea of having another man's cock in my hand and in my mouth, to play with and do as I wanted to, was powerful.

Have you ever sucked, or tried to suck, your own cock?

That was never really an option, heh. But I know people who have, and they said it was much more like giving a blow job than receiving one. I have, however, come on my own face and in my own mouth. I was with a woman who had that as a persistent fantasy, and I gave it to her.

How sexually open minded are you, in your opinion? What would others say?

I think I have made that pretty clear...

What do you want to know about guy on guy?

Nothing comes to mind.

 

[justanotherguy80]

Right, hold my beer.

Have you ever sucked a cock? If so, what was the circumstance?

Nope.

Do you want to blow a dick, or ever at least considered it?

Nope.

Do you trust your partner enough to talk to her about it, or will it be a deal crusher?

Not strictly applicable but if I were to have this desire, I probably wouldn’t share it with my partner as I’m pretty sure it would freak her out.

Do you feel the same about sucking a dick today as when you were (let’s say) in your twenties?

Definitely not. I think the idea of sucking cock would have totally freaked me out in my twenties. I’m mid forties now and whilst it’s not something I actively want to do, it’s more of a ‘thanks, but no thanks’ reaction. And if someone wanted to write a big enough cheque for me to do it, I probably would

Is your desire to suck a dick out of pure curiosity, or do you want to do it with your partner?

N/A

Have you ever sucked, or tried to suck, your own cock?

Hasn’t everyone? It didn’t go well. Some jobs are best performed with one (or more) other persons involved.

How sexually open minded are you, in your opinion? What would others say?

Very. I’m a live and let live sort of person and will try most things once. Consenting adults, and all that. People who know me reasonably well would tell you that I’m a good-natured pervert.

What do you want to know about guy on guy?

Is it easier to pick up guys than women? My perception is that gay guys are more promiscuous than women (in general terms) but is it true?

And I speak as someone who has never successfully pulled a woman in a bar or club, so fully accept that this perception may just be because I’m deeply unattractive and terrible at talking to women.

 

[lavendersilk]

Ladies:

Hello.

Has your male partner ever admitted to sucking a cock or being curious about it?

Fingering and pegging. But never with a guy.

How would (or did) you feel if he did?

100% okay with it.

Are you aroused by guy on guy action,

Yes.

but don’t want your guy involved in it?

No, that would be awesome.

Would you like to see your partner with a cock in his mouth?

Yes.

Why does it seem like most women don’t want guy on guy?

I would imagine jealousy and worrying that they aren't going to be able to satisfy all of their partner's needs.

If in a ‘two guys and a girl’ threesome, do you only want the guys paying attention to you, or are you interested in seeing them plow each other too? (And none of that “whatever makes us all happy” garbage. I’m asking what you and only you want. )

This is my dream fantasy and I would want everyone fucking everybody.

If your guy wanted cock, would you overthink yourself to death wondering all kinds of stuff,

I might have to take a moment to go to the bathroom, close the door, and jump up and down squealing...

or would you be happy that you have a guy who is comfortable enough with you to be open?

...oh, totally that part.