Cock Talk

[hotoldrguy]

Have you ever sucked a cock? If so, what was the circumstance?
no
Do you want to blow a dick, or ever at least considered it?
I have thought about it. If the circumstances seemed right and was given the opportunity, I would give it a try
Do you trust your partner enough to talk to her about it, or will it be a deal crusher?
N/A
Do you feel the same about sucking a dick today as when you were (let’s say) in your twenties?
Much more open to the idea now than I was then
Is your desire to suck a dick out of pure curiosity, or do you want to do it with your partner?
partly curiosity but if it were a threesome with a woman involved I would be all in with both of them
Have you ever sucked, or tried to suck, your own cock?
attempted when I was younger but failed LOL
How sexually open minded are you, in your opinion? What would others say?
I am open to try a lot of new things and whatever other adults want to do with each other is fine by me. No judgement

What do you want to know about guy on guy?
Only wondering about those who are strictly cock centric. I am not sexually attracted to men if that makes sense

 

[vagrantx]

I'm just going to sneak into the other team for this one, the questions felt like they hit home better than the ones for ladies.

Guys:
Have you ever sucked a cock? If so, what was the circumstance?

Yes. Before I knew/realized/accepted I was gay, I often pushed myself into doing straight things while trying to convince myself that I should be enjoying them. I never did.

Do you want to blow a dick, or ever at least considered it?

I wanted to try it because "surely, I just haven't gone far enough. Dick must be magical, no? Once I get to it, I'll like it?" I didn't.

Do you trust your partner enough to talk to her about it, or will it be a deal crusher?

There's a term called gold-star lesbian, someone who's never ever been with a guy. I hate it. People who use it have this tier-system of gay women, where gold-star lesbians will only ever get with other gold-star lesbians; if you've ever been with a man you're "tainted". Neither me nor my partner adhere to this idea, so we've talked about past and previous mistakes and ideas. Also she's a lot more bi than I am so she doesn't have the same aversion as I do. Which is fine!!

Do you feel the same about sucking a dick today as when you were (let’s say) in your twenties?

Yes. No thanks.

Is your desire to suck a dick out of pure curiosity, or do you want to do it with your partner?

N/A

Have you ever sucked, or tried to suck, your own cock?

I've tried to suck my own boobs n' nips, does that count?

How sexually open minded are you, in your opinion? What would others say?

Very. Very. Me and my SO are very physically open and have invited other playmates over. We'll try almost anything at least once. We don't really share this with friends and family, lol, so I've no idea what others would say. They'd probably be shocked at our toy collection.

What do you want to know about guy on guy?

Is docking real??? A real thing?

 

[UnquietDreams]

There's a term called gold-star lesbian, someone who's never ever been with a guy. I hate it. People who use it have this tier-system of gay women, where gold-star lesbians will only ever get with other gold-star lesbians; if you've ever been with a man you're "tainted". Neither me nor my partner adhere to this idea, so we've talked about past and previous mistakes and ideas. Also she's a lot more bi than I am so she doesn't have the same aversion as I do. Which is fine!!

This makes me so terribly sad.

I've tried to suck my own boobs n' nips, does that count?

Yes. Yes. Yeeeeeessssssss.

 

[vagrantx]

This makes me so terribly sad.

Oh yeah, it's not like the rainbow world is free of prejudice. Far from it.

 

[UnquietDreams]

Oh yeah, it's not like the rainbow world is free of prejudice. Far from it.

I know, and I know enough people in that world to know that before, but still. Especially in marginalized communities, why does everyone have to create a reason to punch down on someone? Blame the romantic in me. It gets me in trouble every time...

 

[Wriggle]

Is docking real??? A real thing?

Erm....
The biggest thing I've got down my peepee hole is a kerplunk skewer and I doubt mine is fitting into anyone's peepee hole either.


But on a serious note - you and you SO should come over to Manchester gay pride on Saturday - I'm in the parade with my wife and you can both come and see the sights.

 

[lavendersilk]

Is docking real??? A real thing?

Yes. I don't have a penis (darn it) but if I did I would totally do this with another penis.

Erm....
The biggest thing I've got down my peepee hole is a kerplunk skewer and I doubt mine is fitting into anyone's peepee hole either.

It involves foreskin not the peepee hole. But now I have so many more questions...

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Yes. Before I knew/realized/accepted I was gay, I often pushed myself into doing straight things while trying to convince myself that I should be enjoying them. I never did.

Your responses are quite enlightening to me.

 

[UnquietDreams]

Is docking real??? A real thing?

I have not experienced it, but I have had it explained that it is real, more or less.
Frotting I have done, docking I have not.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Do you need a foreskin to dock "correctly"?

 

[UnquietDreams]

Do you need a foreskin to dock "correctly"?

At least one of the two. That is what does the "docking." Needs to be long and stretchable.

 

[lavendersilk]

Do you need a foreskin to dock "correctly"?

Yes. You have to be uncircumcised.

 

[Photog1rl]

Now I need to google both docking (although I’ve got a good idea) and frotting. Thanks Cock Talk

Has your male partner ever admitted to sucking a cock or being curious about it?
No-he has never talked or shown any interest.

How would (or did) you feel if he did?
I’d be ok with it. I’m a pleasure seeker and would support this for him as well.

Are you aroused by guy on guy action, but don’t want your guy involved in it?
No. Guy on guy sometimes arouses me. It depends on my mood but if my guy wanted it-all good! A mmf threesome is a huge fantasy of mine. My only desire would be that we all enjoyed each other.

Why does it seem like most women don’t want guy on guy?
I think that women feel like they can compete with other women but not with a man so they risk losing their partner to a man.

If in a ‘two guys and a girl’ threesome, do you only want the guys paying attention to you, or are you interested in seeing them plow each other too? (And none of that “whatever makes us all happy” garbage. I’m asking what you and only you want. )
All of it! Please and thank you. Pleasure trifecta…mmm now my mind is wandering

If your guy wanted cock, would you overthink yourself to death wondering all kinds of stuff, or would you be happy that you have a guy who is comfortable enough with you to be open?

No overthinking for me. I love it when my partner shares his sexual wants and needs with me.

 

[vagrantx]

Your responses are quite enlightening to me.

Always happy to be of service

Why does it seem like most women don’t want guy on guy?

Au contraire! In hentai there are two major genres; yaoi and yuri. The first is gay men, the second is gay women. Yaoi is mass-ive-ly popular with women. This can also be seen in written fan-fiction on sites like Ao3 where people write, for lack of a better word, an extreme amount of gay male love scenes from their favorite IPs, and the readers are almost exclusively women.

I don't think actual filmed gay male sex is as popular, though I have nothing but anecdotes to back that up.

But on a serious note - you and you SO should come over to Manchester gay pride on Saturday - I'm in the parade with my wife and you can both come and see the sights.

I hope you have loads and loads of naughty fun

 

[hotwords229_A]

Au contraire! In hentai there are two major genres; yaoi and yuri. The first is gay men, the second is gay women. Yaoi is mass-ive-ly popular with women. This can also be seen in written fan-fiction on sites like Ao3 where people write, for lack of a better word, an extreme amount of gay male love scenes from their favorite IPs, and the readers are almost exclusively women.

It certainly has its fandom, it just seems like the average Sally Housecoat isn’t into it. There are a lot of guys in relationships who are curious but their wife/girlfriend is not. Or so I’ve heard.

 

[UnquietDreams]

It certainly has its fandom, it just seems like the average Sally Housecoat isn’t into it. There are a lot of guys in relationships who are curious but their wife/girlfriend is not. Or so I’ve heard.

Gay romance is a very popular e-book genre among women, including Sally Housecoat. Many women don't claim to be into porn, but they will read the ever living fuck out of it, especially if they can do so on their phone.

 

[Wand3rlust]

Ladies:
Has your male partner ever admitted to sucking a cock or being curious about it?

single, so not overly applicable. However all the guys I've been with would baulk at the thought of another cock near them. Delicate little flowers that they were...

How would (or did) you feel if he did?

i dont yuck somone eels's yum. As long as its clear I'm the primary.

Are you aroused by guy on guy action, but don’t want your guy involved in it?

im aroused by people being aroused, i think. I wouldnt want to be left out though

Would you like to see your partner with a cock in his mouth?

Single.

Why does it seem like most women don’t want guy on guy?

no idea

If in a ‘two guys and a girl’ threesome, do you only want the guys paying attention to you, or are you interested in seeing them plow each other too? (And none of that “whatever makes us all happy” garbage. I’m asking what you and only you want. )

All about me. Yep. 100 oer cent. But I'd want that in any group situation.

If your guy wanted cock, would you overthink yourself to death wondering all kinds of stuff, or would you be happy that you have a guy who is comfortable enough with you to be open?

oh I'd over think. Cos i do that about evrything.

What do you want to know about guy on guy?

In the hotboyanal scenario, do @hotwords229_A and @deefalttwunnyfor have a preference about who does what or would it be one big love in?

 

[hotwords229_A]

In the hotboyanal scenario, do @hotwords229_A and @deefalttwunnyfor have a preference about who does what or would it be one big love in?

@StillRain created hoyboyanal, so we should probably leave it up to her.

 

[hotwords229_A]

i dont yuck somone eels's yum. As long as its clear I'm the primary.

So if your visual entertainment is the driving force of the blowjob, then you’re cool with it?
Or would you be sitting there thinking, “this is time that could be spent on my body!”

 

[Ricardus]

i dont yuck somone eels's yum.

This is the greatest typo in ages, given what you're talking about

 

[Wand3rlust]

im aroused by people being aroused, i think. I wouldnt want to be left out though

So if your visual entertainment is the driving force of the blowjob, then you’re cool with it?
Or would you be sitting there thinking, “this is time that could be spent on my body!”

That's the important part

 

[aussiegeekygal]

This is the greatest typo in ages, given what you're talking about

 

[Ricardus]

So thoughtful of you to realize I might have missed that!

 

[RosewoodTulip]

Ladies:
Has your male partner ever admitted to sucking a cock or being curious about it?

Currently eternally single but my ex wasn't interested at all

How would (or did) you feel if he did?

Wouldn't bother me at all. People should always be free to explore their sexualities and curiosities

Are you aroused by guy on guy action, but don’t want your guy involved in it?

Very aroused. I'd totally support it too because it's something I could never give him. I'd need complete honesty though.

Would you like to see your partner with a cock in his mouth?

Sure, if that's what he wanted

Why does it seem like most women don’t want guy on guy?

Dunno. Maybe they don't like to share or could maybe feel threatened by them getting fulfillment from someone else

If in a ‘two guys and a girl’ threesome, do you only want the guys paying attention to you, or are you interested in seeing them plow each other too? (And none of that “whatever makes us all happy” garbage. I’m asking what you and only you want. )

I've never had any kind of third party sex but I'd be up for either scenario. MMF porn is some of my favourite and everyone making everyone else happy sounds great but I'd never expect anyone to do something they were uncomfortable with

If your guy wanted cock, would you overthink yourself to death wondering all kinds of stuff, or would you be happy that you have a guy who is comfortable enough with you to be open?

Oh good question. My overthinking skills are legendary and I am also very anxious and insecure but I'd like to think I'd be ok with this. I'm pretty open minded and have only recently started to think about same sex attraction for myself so I'd like to think I could support his needs.
A healthy sex life surely needs good communication and trust to work no matter who wants to do what to who so as long as those things are strong a little self exploration is a good thing I think.

 

[UnquietDreams]

Now I need to google both docking (although I’ve got a good idea) and frotting. Thanks Cock Talk

You're welcome, love!