Cock Talk

[UnquietDreams]

If in a ‘two guys and a girl’ threesome, do you only want the guys paying attention to you, or are you interested in seeing them plow each other too? (And none of that “whatever makes us all happy” garbage. I’m asking what you and only you want. )

The one ‘two guys and a girl’ relationship I was in, the guy would try his very best to pretend I wasn't there. Woulnd't look at me, wouldn't talk, wouldn't even respond to direct questions -- nothing. Considering that my cock was stroking against his through his girlfriend's vaginal wall, that was just hilarious...

 

[Bry1313]

Have you ever sucked a cock? If so, what was the circumstance?

No lollipop action

Do you want to blow a dick, or ever at least considered it?

Never say never but it hasn’t been high on my list of to do’s

Do you trust your partner enough to talk to her about it, or will it be a deal crusher?

Not much to discuss

Do you feel the same about sucking a dick today as when you were (let’s say) in your twenties?

Yeah

Is your desire to suck a dick out of pure curiosity, or do you want to do it with your partner?

I think only way would be in a MMF 3some or group, so with my partner

Have you ever sucked, or tried to suck, your own cock?

I can barely touch my toes.

How sexually open minded are you, in your opinion? What would others say?

Relatively so, if I’m asked to do something I’ll try almost anything once

What do you want to know about guy on guy?

I’ve got nothing

 

[lavendersilk]

No lollipop action

Never say never but it hasn’t been high on my list of to do’s

Not much to discuss

Yeah

I think only way would be in a MMF 3some or group, so with my partner

I can barely touch my toes.

Relatively so, if I’m asked to do something I’ll try almost anything once

I’ve got nothing

Why did I think you had this expression while writing this?

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

Guys:
Have you ever sucked a cock?

I haven't

Do you want to blow a dick, or ever at least considered it?

I have considered it. I'm sure I will before I expire

Do you trust your partner enough to talk to her about it, or will it be a deal crusher?

I did. The divorce is almost final. Not sure that correlation-causation applies though

Do you feel the same about sucking a dick today as when you were (let’s say) in your twenties?

I'm more open to it now than I was in my early 20s that's for sure

Is your desire to suck a dick out of pure curiosity, or do you want to do it with your partner?

Curiosity. Doing it with an F partner is absolutely the desired scenario

Have you ever sucked, or tried to suck, your own cock?

I could successfully get the head in my mouth in my teens. I tried it just last night and the closest I could get to it was like 2-3" away. So close, yet so far

How sexually open minded are you, in your opinion? What would others say?

I'm pretty GD open

What do you want to know about guy on guy?

Nothing. Porn has taught me everything I could possibly ever need to know. Porn is real life-adjacent, right?

 

[Apisto42]

Curiouser and curiouser . . .

There are a lot of guys (straightish even) who fantasize about sucking on a cock. More than I ever thought there would be. These are guys who (apparently) aren’t really bi, who only want a relationship with a woman, but still wonder about cock.

We can also say that a lot of these guys are in relationships with women who are not at all into it.
(Based on intense research )


We’re gonna split this one up into two categories:

Ladies:
Has your male partner ever admitted to sucking a cock or being curious about it?
How would (or did) you feel if he did?
Are you aroused by guy on guy action, but don’t want your guy involved in it?
Would you like to see your partner with a cock in his mouth?
Why does it seem like most women don’t want guy on guy?
If in a ‘two guys and a girl’ threesome, do you only want the guys paying attention to you, or are you interested in seeing them plow each other too? (And none of that “whatever makes us all happy” garbage. I’m asking what you and only you want. )
If your guy wanted cock, would you overthink yourself to death wondering all kinds of stuff, or would you be happy that you have a guy who is comfortable enough with you to be open?

Guys:
Have you ever sucked a cock? If so, what was the circumstance?
Do you want to blow a dick, or ever at least considered it?
Do you trust your partner enough to talk to her about it, or will it be a deal crusher?
Do you feel the same about sucking a dick today as when you were (let’s say) in your twenties?
Is your desire to suck a dick out of pure curiosity, or do you want to do it with your partner?
Have you ever sucked, or tried to suck, your own cock?
How sexually open minded are you, in your opinion? What would others say?

What do you want to know about guy on guy?

(I fully suspect the “Guys” portion of this to go mostly unanswered )

This deserves more than one word flippant answers, so I’ll cum back to them.

There's a term called gold-star lesbian, someone who's never ever been with a guy. I hate it. People who use it have this tier-system of gay women, where gold-star lesbians will only ever get with other gold-star lesbians; if you've ever been with a man you're "tainted". Neither me nor my partner adhere to this idea, so we've talked about past and previous mistakes and ideas. Also she's a lot more bi than I am so she doesn't have the same aversion as I do. Which is fine!!

God damn, people are shits.

Is docking real??? A real thing?

I don’t even know what this is. Seems like something drunk sailor boys might do though.

 

[Apisto42]

I haven't

Hey sailor boy

I have considered it. I'm sure I will before I expire

I did. The divorce is almost final. Not sure that correlation-causation applies though

I'm more open to it now than I was in my early 20s that's for sure

Curiosity. Doing it with an F partner is absolutely the desired scenario

I could successfully get the head in my mouth in my teens. I tried it just last night and the closest I could get to it was like 2-3" away. So close, yet so far

I blame age and tacos for not being able to do so anymore.

I'm pretty GD open

How open we talking? Is this starter plug or baseball bat?

Nothing. Porn has taught me everything I could possibly ever need to know. Porn is real life-adjacent, right?

right on.

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

Hey sailor boy

I blame age and tacos for not being able to do so anymore.

Tacos are the cause of, and solution to, a lot of life's problems

How open we talking? Is this starter plug or baseball bat?

I feel like there is A LOT of middle ground between those two things. If it were a scale, I'd say wayyyyyyyy closer to the starter

 

[hotwords229_A]

Guys:
Have you ever sucked a cock? If so, what was the circumstance?

I have not.

Do you want to blow a dick, or ever at least considered it?

Kinda. I haven’t decided if it’s a real desire or just a fantasy at this point. But yeah, I’ve thought about it.

Do you trust your partner enough to talk to her about it, or will it be a deal crusher?

Currently single. But it will be the first thing I say, even before introducing myself.

Do you feel the same about sucking a dick today as when you were (let’s say) in your twenties?

No. In my twenties I would never have considered it. I had a conversation with a girlfriend at the time who asked me if I could get off to a guy blowing me. I told her I didn’t think I could even get hard in that situation. And I meant it. I really felt that way. She was skeptical.

I no longer feel that way. She was way more mature than me obviously.

Is your desire to suck a dick out of pure curiosity, or do you want to do it with your partner?

Partner. And, honestly, an audience. The fantasy is doing it in front of a group of horny women.

Have you ever sucked, or tried to suck, your own cock?

Yes. A lot. No dice.

How sexually open minded are you, in your opinion? What would others say?

Reasonably open minded. Half prude, half in the mood to get rude in the nude.
Others would probably agree.

What do you want to know about guy on guy?

I am more interested in the answer most women won’t give (probably) for fear of being called a somethingaphobe. I am interested to hear from the women who are not into it to figure out why. I used to think it was because it could, in a way, make for a type of “feminization” of the guy and most women want manly men. But now I think it has more to do with her wanting the attention on herself more than the 2 guys with each other.

I think the points made about competing and jealousy and concerns about what he might pursue when she isn’t around are all valid points.

I’m often more interested in the answers people won’t give over the ones they will.
Anyone who wants to answer but is afraid of backlash, feel free to PM me.

I can’t be offended.

(I fully suspect the “Guys” portion of this to go mostly unanswered )

This is kind of a dick thing to say.

 

[summer_reine]

Ladies:
Has your male partner ever admitted to sucking a cock or being curious about it?

He was adamantly against it.

How would (or did) you feel if he did?

It would have been really hot to watch/join in.

Are you aroused by guy on guy action, but don’t want your guy involved in it?

I am. I'm single but would be fine with Mr Imaginary and I enjoying it together.

Would you like to see your partner with a cock in his mouth?

Mr Imaginary would look hot af

Why does it seem like most women don’t want guy on guy?

Does it? I'd be far more insecure in a fmf situation since she's new and likely hotter than me. To the responses saying women might feel threatened.. If he enjoys guys more than girls I definitely think we should both learn that asap.

If in a ‘two guys and a girl’ threesome, do you only want the guys paying attention to you, or are you interested in seeing them plow each other too? (And none of that “whatever makes us all happy” garbage. I’m asking what you and only you want. )

Both! We all need a breather now and then. Mr Imaginary in the middle of a mmf train is a long standing fantasy.

If your guy wanted cock, would you overthink yourself to death wondering all kinds of stuff, or would you be happy that you have a guy who is comfortable enough with you to be open?

Both *shrug*

 

[RosewoodTulip]

Currently single. But it will be the first thing I say, even before introducing myself.

I can just imagine this scenario...
You see a lovely lady and make your approach
"Hey, I have a fantasy about sucking cock. Name's hotwords"
And then finger guns obviously

I used to think it was because it could, in a way, make for a type of “feminization” of the guy and most women want manly men. But now I think it has more to do with her wanting the attention on herself more than the 2 guys with each other.

I can honestly, hand on heart say those two things are not a factor for me but I know some women who think it's a turn off for a man to be bisexual/bicurious. I would hate for someone to feel they couldn't be honest with me for fear of rejection.
And I'm a total pleaser in bed so being the main focus of attention over my partner(s) isn't a priority

 

[hotwords229_A]

And then finger guns obviously

This is a good idea.
I also need her to know that I finger bang.

 

[Wand3rlust]

This is a good idea.
I also need her to know that I finger bang.

What else?...

*makes notes*

Seriously - would it be easier if you could get all this shit out the way when you first meet someone?

Or is it better to gradually find out..... that you've been missing out on shared kinks for months cos of reasons.

 

[hotwords229_A]

What else?...

*makes notes*

Seriously - would it be easier if you could get all this shit out the way when you first meet someone?

Or is it better to gradually find out..... that you've been missing out on shared kinks for months cos of reasons.

I think this is all first date stuff. Actually, it’s before first date.

In a non sexual way, I tend to subvert people’s expectations of me. It seems most people consider me to be a nice guy, polite, kind, courteous, etc. then when they find out all the juicy stuff, my penchant for dark comedy, boldness and raw sexual desires they are usually shocked (hopefully in a good way).

I have come to realize this and so, when I meet someone new, I try to throw a little of all of that “dark and juicy” in right away so they can think this guy is not what he seems.

I think it would be great if a couple could sit down and share all their sexual proclivities right off the bat, so there are no (unpleasant) surprises and then maintain that honesty as things progress.

The problem, of course, is that people hear and think what they want to even when you flat out tell them the opposite is true.

Often, people who know me only in a public setting will say “Melvin . . .” (That’s not really my name, but we will pretend it is for the sake of this comment), they say, “Melvin, you’re a really nice guy, you never get upset about anything, do you?” To which I respond (in a monotone voice) “I live in a constant state of uncontrollable rage”. This always gets a laugh because they think I’m joking.

They think that.

 

[Thirsty_Hellcat_J]

This is a good idea.
I also need her to know that I finger bang.

I love fingers, and a good finger bang, is the best.

 

[subdudeme13]

Finger bang?

I love fingers, and a good finger bang, is the best.

 

[Thirsty_Hellcat_J]

Finger bang?

I thought everyone knew what a finger bang was!

 

[subdudeme13]

I thought everyone knew what a finger bang was!

I could make a number of guesses and my fingers have been everywhere and done everything. I probably have done it but never heard the term. The main thing that comes to mind is sticking a finger up urethra.

 

[subdudeme13]

Ok Ok

I could make a number of guesses and my fingers have been everywhere and done everything. I probably have done it but never heard the term. The main thing that comes to mind is sticking a finger up urethra.

Don't everyone go first!

 

[Thirsty_Hellcat_J]

I could make a number of guesses and my fingers have been everywhere and done everything. I probably have done it but never heard the term. The main thing that comes to mind is sticking a finger up urethra.

Ouchie! I have sounder for that.

 

[subdudeme13]

Ok Ok

Don't everyone go first!

 

[subdudeme13]

Ouchie! I have sounder for that.

There are all kinds of sounders. My Domme had a nice set and I took the largest one with a little peppermint for good measure.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I could make a number of guesses and my fingers have been everywhere and done everything. I probably have done it but never heard the term. The main thing that comes to mind is sticking a finger up urethra.

 

[Thirsty_Hellcat_J]

Just have three steel ones, they usually stay in my toy box... ha ha

 

[Thirsty_Hellcat_J]

There was a film I saw, a girl had really long thumbs and she ended making other girls very happy! Lol.

 

[hotwords229_A]

There was a film I saw, a girl had really long thumbs and she ended making other girls very happy! Lol.

Steel Magnolias?