Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition

Sometimes letting someone give up instead of expecting them to keep on trying is a very profound way of caring.

Edit. No, not something that happened. Rather something I'm trying to teach my Dom. He's overly optimistic over how much one can expect from my working ability in the future, and it isn't really helpful.
 
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Sometimes letting someone give up instead of expecting them to keep on trying is a very profound way of caring.

Edit. No, not something that happened. Rather something I'm trying to teach my Dom. He's overly optimistic over how much one can expect from my working ability in the future, and it isn't really helpful.
That's complicated and difficult. Sometimes people really can't understand how incapacitating illnesses are. Especially ones that are rather *invisible*
 
That's complicated and difficult. Sometimes people really can't understand how incapacitating illnesses are. Especially ones that are rather *invisible*
I'll probably need to tell him some more history... But in my case it's not even about an illness, but neurodivergency. And how those affect is not very well known among the general public (unless there's some intellectual disability included but that's a minority within an minority).
 
I'll probably need to tell him some more history... But in my case it's not even about an illness, but neurodivergency. And how those affect is not very well known among the general public (unless there's some intellectual disability included but that's a minority within an minority).
I have a neurodivergent son. Sometimes it's about picking and choosing which battles are worth fighting. My thoughts and wishes go out to you. You are beautiful, you are strong. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
 
Sorry for the long post but I just have to share.
It's that time of year—the holiday season. The most stressful time of the year for me. I want everything to be perfect, and that spurs my anxiety. There’s a ton of stress and endless work and decision making, mostly of my own making.
This year, I’m actually looking forward to it, because of my Wolfie and our DD/lg dynamic.
We had a long discussion this afternoon and decided integrate our dynamic into the entire season.
We agreed that I will lean into him as we go through this season, allowing me to surrender even more than usual. In the past, I made almost all of the plans and decisions. This year our roles will reverse. He will delegate to me what I am best suited to help with, and we will pace ourselves so we have time to relax and have fun.
Our goal is simplify, and to get through it all with grace, staying in connection with each other the whole time. No fights. No arguments. No disagreements.
We are excited at the prospects for the coming weeks.
 
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