Daddy's Little Girl: Second Edition

[MaBelle3120]

I put one of the pictures I colored in my profile.

Thats so pretty!

 

[DarkSimian]

Yes, DD/lg is a part of BDSM. There is the Dominance and submission as a core basis in the relationship...a power exchange.

This came to me in a PM, and I wanted to draw attention to it in case others reading this thread were under any misconception.

The other thing I want to say is this, and I mean this politely. If this thread offends you...you don't have to open it. If you don't like what we do or say, you have the power to avoid it. If I personally am disliked by you, go ahead and put me on ignore, you won't see me or the threads I start at all. I'm okay with that.

After today and all the "fan mail" - my PMs will be turned back off and I'll only use my buddy list. That means, if you have questions, comments, or concerns after that point, you'll have to ask them here.

Ta!

*sends you snail mail*

 

[barefootgirl69]

Thats so pretty!

Thank you

*sends you snail mail*

A bottle of bourbon?! Woo hoo! jk lol

 

[DarkSimian]

Also, sorry I haven't popped in lately; I know I don't necessarily belong here (I'm more of that weird uncle you only see at funerals, weddings, or reunions), but I have been watching the growing debate/ open warfare in some of the other threads. and was concerned that my opinions would not be...appreciated.

But you know what; fuck 'em! BFG, Cas, and Shy are my friends, and I love you and stand with you no matter what...

Unless you want me to eat a tomato: Yuck!

 

[barefootgirl69]

Also, sorry I haven't popped in lately; I know I don't necessarily belong here (I'm more of that weird uncle you only see at funerals, weddings, or reunions), but I have been watching the growing debate/ open warfare in some of the other threads. and was concerned that my opinions would not be...appreciated.

But you know what; fuck 'em! BFG, Cas, and Shy are my friends, and I love you and stand with you no matter what...

Unless you want me to eat a tomato: Yuck!

Except in Pico de Gallo, or chili...I'll never ask you to eat tomatoes.

Pinky promise! Lol

 

[DarkSimian]

Except in Pico de Gallo, or chili...I'll never ask you to eat tomatoes.

Pinky promise! Lol

Thank you; I like the things MADE from tomatoes (sauce, marinara, ketchup), but not tomatoes in their natural state......I'm a freak

 

[barefootgirl69]

Thank you; I like the things MADE from tomatoes (sauce, marinara, ketchup), but not tomatoes in their natural state......I'm a freak

Me, either...but diced with raw onion (which I hate) ...just tastes GOOD.

My little freaky friend

 

[DarkSimian]

Me, either...but diced with raw onion (which I hate) ...just tastes GOOD.

My little freaky friend

*looks down at you* Little?

 

[barefootgirl69]

*looks down at you* Little?

Just a figure of speech

 

[DarkSimian]

Just a figure of speech

That's the pot calling the kettle....something

 

[Esslemont]

Just wanted to know thoughts on others that feel strongly about this topic as I do.

When I think about Daddy’s girl, I think about the smile that she gives. The one that is a result of absolute trust and adoration.That is what pops into my mind.
Not the sex...not even the submission aspect. These are obviously components of this but not my main driver.

Knowing that she can smile, breathtaking in itself, is the erotic part for me.

So...thoughts on your individual feelings about the dynamic. What drives you to crave it?

 

[cascadiabound]

Also, sorry I haven't popped in lately; I know I don't necessarily belong here (I'm more of that weird uncle you only see at funerals, weddings, or reunions), but I have been watching the growing debate/ open warfare in some of the other threads. and was concerned that my opinions would not be...appreciated.

But you know what; fuck 'em! BFG, Cas, and Shy are my friends, and I love you and stand with you no matter what...

Unless you want me to eat a tomato: Yuck!

Please keep popping by. (however, I would contend that my cherry tomatoes are some of the most delicious things you can pop in your mouth right from the vine.... I will not make you eat any - MORE FOR ME!!!!)

I guess I am here so infrequently and when I am here, I usually only check in on my subscribed threads so I am blissfully unaware of the "open warfare" elsewhere. Do I need to beat anyone up?

Hugs for the beastie. and all my friends here.

This thread is an important haven for more than I think we generally know.


cas

 

[letmeontopforfun]

Just wanted to know thoughts on others that feel strongly about this topic as I do.

When I think about Daddy’s girl, I think about the smile that she gives. The one that is a result of absolute trust and adoration.That is what pops into my mind.
Not the sex...not even the submission aspect. These are obviously components of this but not my main driver.

Knowing that she can smile, breathtaking in itself, is the erotic part for me.

So...thoughts on your individual feelings about the dynamic. What drives you to crave it?

its more than a sexual feeling. its the safety and strength and protection that drives it

 

[Esslemont]

its more than a sexual feeling. its the safety and strength and protection that drives it

I agree. Well said. Thank you.

 

[letmeontopforfun]

i use to have nightmares and my dad would come get in bed with me until I fell asleep or I would run to his bed and snuggle up against him. there was safety and warmth.

 

[Esslemont]

i use to have nightmares and my dad would come get in bed with me until I fell asleep or I would run to his bed and snuggle up against him. there was safety and warmth.

Ahh comfort received. The other side of the dynamic from my end is comfort given.
Now I’M smiling.

 

[DarkSimian]

Please keep popping by. (however, I would contend that my cherry tomatoes are some of the most delicious things you can pop in your mouth right from the vine.... I will not make you eat any - MORE FOR ME!!!!)

I guess I am here so infrequently and when I am here, I usually only check in on my subscribed threads so I am blissfully unaware of the "open warfare" elsewhere. Do I need to beat anyone up?

Hugs for the beastie. and all my friends here.

This thread is an important haven for more than I think we generally know.


cas

BFG can fill you in, or I can by PM; suffice to say, there have been some heated exchanges by people that don't understand/ don't agree with the DD/LG lifestyle....

 

[barefootgirl69]

Just wanted to know thoughts on others that feel strongly about this topic as I do.

When I think about Daddy’s girl, I think about the smile that she gives. The one that is a result of absolute trust and adoration.That is what pops into my mind.
Not the sex...not even the submission aspect. These are obviously components of this but not my main driver.

Knowing that she can smile, breathtaking in itself, is the erotic part for me.

So...thoughts on your individual feelings about the dynamic. What drives you to crave it?

I'm not sure what actually drives me to crave this dynamic. I don't think of it as a craving, because it's just a part of me...much like the submission has always been a part of me. I like the tenderness, the compassion, and safety. Those are factors that cause the smile and adoration, that soft, gentle wooing. But, I still want the firm, unfailing power over me.

its more than a sexual feeling. its the safety and strength and protection that drives it

Hi

 

[Esslemont]

I'm not sure what actually drives me to crave this dynamic. I don't think of it as a craving, because it's just a part of me...much like the submission has always been a part of me. I like the tenderness, the compassion, and safety. Those are factors that cause the smile and adoration, that soft, gentle wooing. But, I still want the firm, unfailing power over me.



Hi

Very well said. Honest and well spoken. Thank you. It’s really good hearing the female side.

And hi to you to. lol I should be working.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Very well said. Honest and well spoken. Thank you. It’s really good hearing the female side.

And hi to you to. lol I should be working.

Me, too.. but, I am going to have lunch before more math.

 

[Esslemont]

Me, too.. but, I am going to have lunch before more math.

Potato + Bacon + Cream = Potato Bacon Soup. Good math. Yummy.
Hope today goes well and fast.

 

[barefootgirl69]

I’ve just decided to give up on trying to explain it, even to myself


It just is...it’s just something I like and something that soothes me, quiets me, and excites me all at once


I owe no one any further explanation


(Btw that’s not said with malice or an attitude at anyone at all here or any questions posted here, just said in light of current nonsense on the PG)

I understand that quite well.

I am not going to defend who I am. I'm not going to feed a troll, who really doesn't care to have understanding.

I'm just going to sip my tea and be me. I don't have to please anyone.

 

[cascadiabound]

Just wanted to know thoughts on others that feel strongly about this topic as I do.

When I think about Daddy’s girl, I think about the smile that she gives. The one that is a result of absolute trust and adoration.That is what pops into my mind.
Not the sex...not even the submission aspect. These are obviously components of this but not my main driver.

Knowing that she can smile, breathtaking in itself, is the erotic part for me.

So...thoughts on your individual feelings about the dynamic. What drives you to crave it?

Like bfg, I think that there are things about this dynamic that are just *me*
I have said many times in this thread that some of the so called "typical" little behavior does not fit me at all (I have little use for disney movies, typical girly stuff, coloring books, stuffies etc), but I do want to have that sweet protectiveness within which I can thrive and grow and be my badass self when I am out in the world. I want to curl against his chest, my arms and legs wrapped around him while he cuddles me in his lap, kissing my forehead, stroking my hair and whispering that I am his good girl. I think that I want warm loving genuine interest and support that my narcissistic biologic father was severely lacking in. I love that he encourages me and wants me to be good to myself - that these things that sometimes feel like indulgent pampering - makes HIM happy that I am taking care of his girl.
I have no idea why that just gets me on so many levels, but it is one of the things I appreciate most about our dynamic.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Like bfg, I think that there are things about this dynamic that are just *me*
I have said many times in this thread that some of the so called "typical" little behavior does not fit me at all (I have little use for disney movies, typical girly stuff, coloring books, stuffies etc), but I do want to have that sweet protectiveness within which I can thrive and grow and be my badass self when I am out in the world. I want to curl against his chest, my arms and legs wrapped around him while he cuddles me in his lap, kissing my forehead, stroking my hair and whispering that I am his good girl. I think that I want warm loving genuine interest and support that my narcissistic biologic father was severely lacking in. I love that he encourages me and wants me to be good to myself - that these things that sometimes feel like indulgent pampering - makes HIM happy that I am taking care of his girl.
I have no idea why that just gets me on so many levels, but it is one of the things I appreciate most about our dynamic.

Beautifully said, cb!

There's so much to it that we agree on, but it's really so much individual needs and desires. Once again, I'll say that's why it's important to talk and find someone who suits you. Don't rush into things.

There's a meeting every month that I try to get to in our local BDSM community where things like this are brought up, and topics are discussed. There's always wiggle room for what certain things mean to us...and that's okay, as long as our particular needs are met.

 

[DarkSimian]

I know I'm not part of the group, and maybe that I've done more harm than good by being here. So, I'm stepping away, to try and let y'all live in peace.

I'm sorry...