Daddy's Little Girl: Second Edition

[Wild_Honey_66]

I like balls.

 

[cascadiabound]

You know, I'm not a little and I don't have a Daddy but I can certainly relate to the idea of someone making your self care as a priority.

Yesterday, was a totally awful day and by 6pm (when I was done with my paid job and off to hang out with kids for 4 hrs) I had literally only eaten a pear and drank one cup of tea all day. While talking to Meister, he was like - "No, stop. Even cars needs fuel. Drink some water. Eat some real food. Something green with a modicum of nutritional value."

It's not that I don't know that. I'm an adult with a lot of balls in the air at any given time (not those kind of balls, pervs) but sometimes we can get caught up in work or stress and it's nice to have someone care enough to say - take care of yourself. I'm lucky to have someone who cares.

Shy, everyone else has said it and you know but... take care of yourself.

This is a perfect example of what happens to many of us. We often defer our own needs to those of everyone else.

Self care is important...if we do not take care of ourselves our tank will be empty to care for others and keep all those many balls in the air.

It is lovely to have somebody take care of us. good daddys, good doms, good boyfriends, good husbands all do that to some extent or another. When we don't have someone (like Meister) in our lives, it is incumbent on us to do things for ourselves that we *know* we must...sleep. eat. Play. Walk in the sunshine. Read a book. Explore a hobby that brings you joy. A well cared for person is happier, more productive, more available for love.

 

[barefootgirl69]

This is a perfect example of what happens to many of us. We often defer our own needs to those of everyone else.

Self care is important...if we do not take care of ourselves our tank will be empty to care for others and keep all those many balls in the air.

It is lovely to have somebody take care of us. good daddys, good doms, good boyfriends, good husbands all do that to some extent or another. When we don't have someone (like Meister) in our lives, it is incumbent on us to do things for ourselves that we *know* we must...sleep. eat. Play. Walk in the sunshine. Read a book. Explore a hobby that brings you joy. A well cared for person is happier, more productive, more available for love.

I love this, cb. So true.

When I'm sick, I often forget to take care of myself. Or when I'm caught up in my day and forget to eat. Just a quick reminder from someone is enough to get my attention. This afternoon, it was my mom chewing me out because I didn't eat breakfast. I can't take care of my family if I'm sick. So, I have to take care of me.

 

[Specula]

Offers a tin of cookies to anyone who wants them.

I'll take one, but no sugar, please.

 

[akkur1]

Yeah, and that's why I always prefer to order writing service of the official papers from professional essay writer, and no matter of money I have to pay for it. After all, it will give me confidence, that work is gonna be genuine and with no mistakes. There was only once, when I have written essay by myself, but I messed up as well, so I'm done with it, hah.

 

[barefootgirl69]

I’ve read and will continue to re-read all the wonderful words of wisdom you all have shared.

Self care is important and I know that I have to be responsible for keeping myself taken care of but when you’re sick or extra sad it’s just nice to have someone step in.

It’s been a rough couple of weeks but I’m doing what needs to be done.

I took myself to the doctor without waiting for someone to make me, I’m taking my meds and trying to rest when I can. I’m even trying to have a little cheerfulness and flirt some. I still just feel a little isolated is all *shrugs* this too shall pass


But back to the advice you all have shared, you have my sincere gratitude, it’s encouraging and helpful

I hope you're feeling better soon, Shy. I think it will help you feel stronger in all areas. I'm glad you're still out there posting, it's not easy to do when you want to pull back. You are being so brave!

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

I hope I'm not butting in or stepping on toes but -

After all recent discussion, I think it would be really interesting to do an Audiophiles episode on Dlg. If anyone it interested or knows someone that may be, PM me?

Gracias!

 

[barefootgirl69]

I hope I'm not butting in or stepping on toes but -

After all recent discussion, I think it would be really interesting to do an Audiophiles episode on Dlg. If anyone it interested or knows someone that may be, PM me?

Gracias!

I'm not interested in more people hating on DD/lg. If they're interested, they can ask here where many of us can answer, or message privately, or Google. That's just my own personal opinion. Others may feel differently and they are welcome to.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

That's totally fair but from my experience there's a lot of power in just saying your truth.

No worries! Just asking.

 

[barefootgirl69]

That's totally fair but from my experience there's a lot of power in just saying your truth.

No worries! Just asking.

No problems asking. I'm just extremely tired and crabby.

Truly, though, I don't think sharing something in a group where some may NOT be interested in learning is wise. That's why, when Pmann mocked the other day, I told him I wouldn't be casting pearls before swine. Someone truly interested in understanding (not just because it's the hot topic that's being shamed) will take the time to find out, whether here or through other sources, or PM - even if they decide it's not their thing.

I'll even turn my PMs back on for those not on my buddy list, in case they're interested in asking a question.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

No hurry to decide but think about it!

 

[lurkingguy1978]

I’m not against the idea at all, it just makes my palms all sweaty

Psst...do it. PLP isn't scary...much

Half-kidding. You do what feels right.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Psst...do it. PLP isn't scary...much

Half-kidding. You do what feels right.

Now take that back! I'm terrifying!

 

[lurkingguy1978]

Now take that back! I'm terrifying!

You're right. I was horribly scarred by my AudioPhiles experience

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

You're right. I was horribly scarred by my AudioPhiles experience

Good

I like leaving marks.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Good

I like leaving marks.

Oooooh...now you got my attention!

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Oooooh...now you got my attention!

<sharpens claws>

 

[DarkSimian]

No problems asking. I'm just extremely tired and crabby.

Truly, though, I don't think sharing something in a group where some may NOT be interested in learning is wise. That's why, when Pmann mocked the other day, I told him I wouldn't be casting pearls before swine. Someone truly interested in understanding (not just because it's the hot topic that's being shamed) will take the time to find out, whether here or through other sources, or PM - even if they decide it's not their thing.

I'll even turn my PMs back on for those not on my buddy list, in case they're interested in asking a question.

BFG, have you eaten breakfast? It is the most important meal of the day....:d

Now take that back! I'm terrifying!

I've seen PLP without make-up...the horror, the horror...

 

[barefootgirl69]

BFG, have you eaten breakfast? It is the most important meal of the day....:d

I've seen PLP without make-up...the horror, the horror...

Nope. I haven't had a lot of sleep, I was hoping to get more but the sun came up...then, the guy across the street decided to wash his car with his boom-chichi-boom music turned up. Why? He's standing RIGHT THERE and can hear. I mean, it's the driveway not the club, we don't need to do the turn 'n bounce.

I'm hungry. Feed me.

 

[DarkSimian]

Nope. I haven't had a lot of sleep, I was hoping to get more but the sun came up...then, the guy across the street decided to wash his car with his boom-chichi-boom music turned up. Why? He's standing RIGHT THERE and can hear. I mean, it's the driveway not the club, we don't need to do the turn 'n bounce.

I'm hungry. Feed me.

I'll mail you some English muffins; start checking the mailbox on Wed or Thurs....

 

[barefootgirl69]

I'll mail you some English muffins; start checking the mailbox on Wed or Thurs....

You're so good to me! Lol

 

[DarkSimian]

You're so good to me! Lol

Gotta take care of my Lit Sis.

And you're welcome for drawing Pmann's fire for a while....

 

[barefootgirl69]

Gotta take care of my Lit Sis.

And you're welcome for drawing Pmann's fire for a while....

I'm sorry he's such a butthead.

 

[DarkSimian]

I'm sorry he's such a butthead.

He'll be on ignore by the end of the day; problem solved.

 

[barefootgirl69]

To all the lurkers - a beginning

There's been a lot of unwelcomed attention focused on DD/lg lately. I only say that because it's been in the form of ridicule and kink shaming. The upside to that is it's caused others to want to know more. I welcome the curiousity, even if you find it's not your 'thing'.

Polite, non-judgmental questions are always welcome. Someone will try to answer them as best they can...but, realize, this dynamic os ultimately about a relationship between people, and each relationship is different.

The very first post in this thread has a link to the previous thread. The very first thread, which was deleted, had some very good discussion on what DD/lg is and what it means to us individually.

I found this recently but forgot to write down the author. I thought it was easy enough to remember, but then life stepped in and I got turned in another direction.

A little is very complicated. She is a sexy woman and a cute girl; a no mess business woman who also sleeps with a teddy bear. She enjoys wearing sexy lingerie and pretty pink bows in her hair, and goes from girls’ night out to tea parties with her stuffies. A Little is naturally submissive. She has complete trust, respect, and admiration for her daddy, feeling safest in his arms because she is free to be her true self. She knows all that he does is for her own good. All the punishments, protection, and support, even sometimes him pushing her to be her best self. She might be needy, sassy, bratty, and whiny, but she holds a pure and innocent enthusiasm.

***
A Daddy protects his Little, but the Little is also always there to support her daddy. Through good and bad, she is his light and he is her hero. That is how I feel with my Daddy. Some may say this is degrading and ask, who would want to be treated like a child? For me, it brings my boyfriend and I so much closer. We play with each other twenty-four seven, yet in my personal day to day life, I am independent, self-reliant, and a huge supporter of female strength. Playing this game, I’ve found it helps keep the innate masculine and feminine roles in tact. And to be honest, it’s just really fun.

Some people find the titles abrasive or it makes them quesy, but not everyone uses these titles. Choose your own labels, you have that freedom.