Daddy's Little Girl: Second Edition

[DarkSimian]

I will say this; 3 years ago, I didn't get the DD/LG lifestyle. But after reading a book on BDSM (and all of the shades in-between), posting in this thread, and numerous conversations with BFG and Cascadia....I do understand it a little better. Maybe I don't get all the nuances, and I know that it probably isn't for me....but I get it. And I think y'all are amazing just the way you are

 

[barefootgirl69]

I will say this; 3 years ago, I didn't get the DD/LG lifestyle. But after reading a book on BDSM (and all of the shades in-between), posting in this thread, and numerous conversations with BFG and Cascadia....I do understand it a little better. Maybe I don't get all the nuances, and I know that it probably isn't for me....but I get it. And I think y'all are amazing just the way you are

You came at it the right way. I remember being so afraid to say something wrong and scaring you off! I'm glad you stuck around and we've become family.

 

[DarkSimian]

And now some music for all my strong, fierce Lit Sisters:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5A4xBp2rizQ

 

[barefootgirl69]

And now some music for all my strong, fierce Lit Sisters:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5A4xBp2rizQ

That fits right here perfectly this week! Thank you!

 

[Esslemont]

That fits right here perfectly this week! Thank you!

Question...Does everyone/anyone believe that loving discipline is part of a Daddy/daughter trust?

Some people I talk to say no. Absolutely not, since it is punishment. Therefore it erodes the trust.

Others...say absolutely that loving discipline is required to expand the relationship.
Thoughts?

Why Jimmy...? Because she is just so damn cute...

 

[MaBelle3120]

Question...Does everyone/anyone believe that loving discipline is part of a Daddy/daughter trust?

Some people I talk to say no. Absolutely not, since it is punishment. Therefore it erodes the trust.

Others...say absolutely that loving discipline is required to expand the relationship.
Thoughts?

Why Jimmy...? Because she is just so damn cute...

Just my thoughts...
I wouldn’t say it’s “required”, it’s definitely going to depend on each couple. At its core, it’s still a relationship, and just like all relationships, Daddy/Little relationships all vary.
If both Daddy and Little agree on incorporating punishment into their dynamic, and agree on rules/guidelines and types of punishment, then that can be a bonding experience and a tool for growth for the relationship and the Little.
However, if one partner feels coerced into giving or receiving a “punishment”, then yeah, that’s not helping build trust. It’s just crossing a line.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Just my thoughts...
I wouldn’t say it’s “required”, it’s definitely going to depend on each couple. At its core, it’s still a relationship, and just like all relationships, Daddy/Little relationships all vary.
If both Daddy and Little agree on incorporating punishment into their dynamic, and agree on rules/guidelines and types of punishment, then that can be a bonding experience and a tool for growth for the relationship and the Little.
However, if one partner feels coerced into giving or receiving a “punishment”, then yeah, that’s not helping build trust. It’s just crossing a line.

I agree with this.

For some, it's not something that will build trust or the relationship. For others, it's a MUST. That's why taking time to get to know someone who will have the power over you, or will be giving you that power, is so very important. Talking beforehand...going back to review and discuss all aspects of their needs (not just the littles) is imperative.

 

[Esslemont]

I agree with this.

For some, it's not something that will build trust or the relationship. For others, it's a MUST. That's why taking time to get to know someone who will have the power over you, or will be giving you that power, is so very important. Talking beforehand...going back to review and discuss all aspects of their needs (not just the littles) is imperative.

Thank you both. Very well said. Trust. Communication.

Funny how those two words come up so often.

 

[MrPractical]

There a so many different ways to approach the type of relationships discussed in this thread. I have spent the last couple of days reading through it and the previous thread.

I have noticed that from time to time some people find pleasure in denigrating lifestyle choices made by others. I don't understand it. We all make choices based on our needs and what makes us happy. If I don't like yours I just move on. You don't affect me. If you don't like mine...ask yourself...Do I affect yours? Ask that question before you post.

I really enjoy this thread and all of it's nuances.

You have done a great job BFG....

 

[barefootgirl69]

There a so many different ways to approach the type of relationships discussed in this thread. I have spent the last couple of days reading through it and the previous thread.

I have noticed that from time to time some people find pleasure in denigrating lifestyle choices made by others. I don't understand it. We all make choices based on our needs and what makes us happy. If I don't like yours I just move on. You don't affect me. If you don't like mine...ask yourself...Do I affect yours? Ask that question before you post.

I really enjoy this thread and all of it's nuances.

You have done a great job BFG....

*curtsies* thank you, Mr. Practical.

I am so glad you read the previous one, as well!

 

[MrPractical]

*curtsies* thank you, Mr. Practical.

I am so glad you read the previous one, as well!

I am not done with it yet, girl....I have been going back and forth between the two.
I enjoy enlightenment.

 

[barefootgirl69]

I am not done with it yet, girl....I have been going back and forth between the two.
I enjoy enlightenment.

LOL well, no one said you couldn't take your time.

I'm interested to hear your thoughts.
*looks at the clock*

 

[MrPractical]

LOL well, no one said you couldn't take your time.

I'm interested to hear your thoughts.
*looks at the clock*

Put your clock away...You will in my time.

But you already know that...

 

[barefootgirl69]

Put your clock away...You will in my time.

But you already know that...

. I do and I wouldn't have it any other way. I like how you take your time to understand things, or form questions and opinions. Even if you find it's not something you'll venture into, knowing you're investing this time makes me smile.

Pretty practical.

 

[MrPractical]

. I do and I wouldn't have it any other way. I like how you take your time to understand things, or form questions and opinions. Even if you find it's not something you'll venture into, knowing you're investing this time makes me smile.

Pretty practical.

It is my job. I am a Practical kind of guy.

 

[cascadiabound]

The above exchange is giving me feels

I am always glad when someone new stumbles across these threads and finds things of merit and use to them. It is one of the chief reasons I keep hanging around here long past my Lit expiration date.

Welcome MrPractical. I too am interested in your thoughts whenever you care to share them.

cb

 

[barefootgirl69]

Yes, DD/lg is a part of BDSM. There is the Dominance and submission as a core basis in the relationship...a power exchange.

This came to me in a PM, and I wanted to draw attention to it in case others reading this thread were under any misconception.

The other thing I want to say is this, and I mean this politely. If this thread offends you...you don't have to open it. If you don't like what we do or say, you have the power to avoid it. If I personally am disliked by you, go ahead and put me on ignore, you won't see me or the threads I start at all. I'm okay with that.

After today and all the "fan mail" - my PMs will be turned back off and I'll only use my buddy list. That means, if you have questions, comments, or concerns after that point, you'll have to ask them here.

Ta!

 

[AlwaysFara]

Yes, DD/lg is a part of BDSM. There is the Dominance and submission as a core basis in the relationship...a power exchange.

This came to me in a PM, and I wanted to draw attention to it in case others reading this thread were under any misconception.

The other thing I want to say is this, and I mean this politely. If this thread offends you...you don't have to open it. If you don't like what we do or say, you have the power to avoid it. If I personally am disliked by you, go ahead and put me on ignore, you won't see me or the threads I start at all. I'm okay with that.

After today and all the "fan mail" - my PMs will be turned back off and I'll only use my buddy list. That means, if you have questions, comments, or concerns after that point, you'll have to ask them here.

Ta!

Dude. What happened?

 

[AlwaysFara]

Im going to guess that a certain someone’s coven came at BFG because of the posts yesterday

BFG, am I on your buddy list???

 

[barefootgirl69]

Im going to guess that a certain someone’s coven came at BFG because of the posts yesterday

Ignorant lurkers...probably coming from the mass call of one who likes to laugh and make fun of people and things he hasn't a clue about. I'm good, I just thought I'd answer them here. Save my time.

BFG, am I on your buddy list???

Yes, of course.

 

[lurkingguy1978]

Ignorant lurkers...probably coming from the mass call of one who likes to laugh and make fun of people and things he hasn't a clue about. I'm good, I just thought I'd answer them here. Save my time.



Yes, of course.

Thank you for specifying "ignorant" lurkers....I might have gotten a complex.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Thank you for specifying "ignorant" lurkers....I might have gotten a complex.

LOL. We can't have THAT, can we?

 

[HeavyBalls]

*makes a long overdue cookie delivery*

 

[barefootgirl69]

*makes a long overdue cookie delivery*

Thank you, HB! I need something sweet today.

Don't tell, though. Lol

 

[barefootgirl69]

I put one of the pictures I colored in my profile.