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Noor
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yeah, never date co-workers...
I have a friend whom I would only let date strangers, she's cute, bright, fun, extremely horny, aggressive as all hell, totally out of control, ex-military and she thinks she needs a dominant man. Just don't asked what happened to the last one...
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yeah, never date co-workers...
I have a friend whom I would only let date strangers, she's cute, bright, fun, extremely horny, aggressive as all hell, totally out of control, ex-military and she thinks she needs a dominant man. Just don't asked what happened to the last one...
Nice, I'm a stranger...tell her to hit me up! lol
And def agree on the Not Dipping the Pen in the Company Ink. Having done that several times, it just never works out. Short term, yes, it was fun. But long term, more damage was done than good. I say this from having dated women in both Fortune500 Companies to Restaurants where the Waitress' assets are their selling points over the food and drink. Although, the latter, I was also just like a kid in the candy store. My owners actually banned me from dating personnel since I was going through a new woman each week. Still, yea, not worth it.
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Dating Sucks...
Oh Yeah.
I met someone who I seemed to have a connection with, fabulous Ds sex, fabulous vanilla times, fabulous everything. He managed to move Andante right out of my mind, and then.....
Friday I get a text saying he needs space.
WTF does that mean?
Do I call him, text him, ignore him (which is against the rules), is it over, is it a break, is it....
WTF is it?
Answers on a postcard.
Thank goodness he isn't a co-worker as well!
Oh Yeah.
I met someone who I seemed to have a connection with, fabulous Ds sex, fabulous vanilla times, fabulous everything. He managed to move Andante right out of my mind, and then.....
Friday I get a text saying he needs space.
WTF does that mean?
Do I call him, text him, ignore him (which is against the rules), is it over, is it a break, is it....
WTF is it?
Answers on a postcard.
Thank goodness he isn't a co-worker as well!
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Nice guys finish last....fact
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Dating Sucks...
Oh Yeah.
I met someone who I seemed to have a connection with, fabulous Ds sex, fabulous vanilla times, fabulous everything. He managed to move Andante right out of my mind, and then.....
Friday I get a text saying he needs space.
WTF does that mean?
Do I call him, text him, ignore him (which is against the rules), is it over, is it a break, is it....
WTF is it?
Answers on a postcard.
Thank goodness he isn't a co-worker as well!
If he sent your break up in a text, then let this one go. Trust me. He could have at least had the courtesy to Facebook it.
Dating had its excitement, but this whole new technology era makes things so much more complicated. I remember when I liked a girl I had to actually talk to her or if I wanted to break up, talk to her. Or even worse, if I was to get dumped, I got to hear it from the asshole's mouth.
Loverskitten
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What does this text mean "Being pinched or bit provides me with zero pleasure."? Sad kitten
And then this "You really take pleasure in someone else's misery" lol rawr
And then this "You really take pleasure in someone else's misery" lol rawr
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mynameisben
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What does this text mean "Being pinched or bit provides me with zero pleasure."? Sad kitten
And then this "You really take pleasure in someone else's misery" lol rawr
I means he doesn't get you.
Literally.
Noor
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nice girls too
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I've met nice girls...they only wanted to be friends. Cos guys treated them badly so they wanted to keep me as a mate because I am nice, makes me feel like fucking pet they go to every time they want to feel happier or ask advice.
I've been shit on too many times to be nice for nothing now.
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shy slave
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If he sent your break up in a text, then let this one go. Trust me. He could have at least had the courtesy to Facebook it.
Dating had its excitement, but this whole new technology era makes things so much more complicated. I remember when I liked a girl I had to actually talk to her or if I wanted to break up, talk to her. Or even worse, if I was to get dumped, I got to hear it from the asshole's mouth.
Thank you
I needed another pov I was beginning to go around in circles. Is asking for space a break up text? If only he had announced it on FB I would have known for sure what he wanted, or didn't want!
Why can't people just say what they mean
We have talked but he is still sitting on the fence about whether he wants me in his life. For my part I have said all I want to, to him, on it all.
He can decide and let me know.
This makes me heart sick and fed up with everything. No wonder I have spent a life time of putting work first, it is more reliable.
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Thank you
Is asking for space a break up text? If only he had announced it on FB I would have known for sure what he wanted, or didn't want!
Why can't people just say what they mean
We have talked but he is still sitting on the fence about whether he wants me in his life. For my part I have said all I want to, to him, on it all.
He can decide and let me know.
This makes me heart sick and fed up with everything. No wonder I have spent a life time of putting work first, it is more reliable.
I realize your response was rife with sarcasm, but kidding aside, if this dude cannot not physically articulate his feelings or present situation/circumstances to you face-to-face or verbally, ie actual phone call, then this dude is not worth your time. My reasoning would simply be if he is unable to find time to articulate it with words than he simply will not find time to physically manifest the emotions you seek beyond the momentarily fleeting physical interactions. Dude can say he needs space and all that, but simply put, if he's playing that card he's either seeing someone else or dragging you along while seeking someone 'better'.
I really do not get dating in this day and age...people feel the need to be in relationships almost in the sense that the believe the relationships define who they are as individuals, rather than the other way around. What is wrong with being single and seeking a compliment rather than facing solitude. If one is comfortable with themselves, solitude offers growth and development and when the right person comes, will allow a growth that benefits both partners rather than hindering the other.
Eh, but what do I know...I've been reading too much Sun Tzu today.
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I must address this, I DO know people who always need someone in their lives, anyone (yuck). I also think there is nothing wrong with being single, however....
I have been single, a single parent (since day one) a single homeowner (it actually says "a single woman" on there, lol) a single lover (lol) and frankly I want someone to lean on once in a while, then I want them to go home. Haha
That's why I'm putting up with the BS that is Internet dating. Soooo much BS
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I've found internet dating is hard for a guy.
I get the whole wanting someone around occasionally, if you spend all of your spare time with someone too early in a relationship it screws things up(in my experience). I am trying to enjoy being single but it still feels a bit lonely sometimes....it's not as much fun without someone to share things with.
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I agree, def helps to have someone to lean on from time to time. My respect to you for all of your individual efforts from the home to work to child development (the latter I really do have utmost respect esp if child is being raised well as it takes A LOT of work).
Just always disappointing to hear about internet dating, as virtual prescence rarely seems to corrspond to the physical. Guys and gals alike, it seems it is easier to hide behind a computer and wait for an email telling you that someone is 'the one' than to actually go out and live your life, eventually encountering (even if it is just fleeting) that person who will compliment you. Def takes a lot of perseverance and a solid mental state, not to mention work.
I seriously do hope you find someone to click and get through the dreck of the internet offerings. There is usually a good one in the bunch, just have to really sort through a plethora of bad apples.
Again, just my $.02
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God, why can't this wonderful woman find someone? It is so confusing.
Loverskitten
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Ok, so today I signed up for yet another dating site, I kind of hate myself for it.
I also realized something, I am a dating bipolar (if you will)
Some days I feel flirty and frisky and don't mind sexy messages, other days it's the biggest turn off ever. Today is the latter. Don't know if it's the extra stress I've been under or these kind of guys are just getting old to me. It's all I've gotten today and it's really frustrating. For example: (note: these are vanilla sites, I'd expect it from collar me)
Him "you seem like you have a wild side"
Me "I can. It depends"
Him "I'd like to explore that wild side, so what things do you enjoy"
Me "I bet but I'm looking for more than a hook up. Thanks though, darling"
Annnnnnd that's the whole convo. It'd be nice if someone tried to get to know someone. I'm slightly more than a vagina.... Grrrrr
I also realized something, I am a dating bipolar (if you will)
Some days I feel flirty and frisky and don't mind sexy messages, other days it's the biggest turn off ever. Today is the latter. Don't know if it's the extra stress I've been under or these kind of guys are just getting old to me. It's all I've gotten today and it's really frustrating. For example: (note: these are vanilla sites, I'd expect it from collar me)
Him "you seem like you have a wild side"
Me "I can. It depends"
Him "I'd like to explore that wild side, so what things do you enjoy"
Me "I bet but I'm looking for more than a hook up. Thanks though, darling"
Annnnnnd that's the whole convo. It'd be nice if someone tried to get to know someone. I'm slightly more than a vagina.... Grrrrr
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Sebastian_Plz
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Out of curiosity, what type of pic are you posting on these sites? Is it one like your avatar? Or is it more poised and professional? Just been my experience, if you wear certain things like heels and a form fitting dress in your pics, the dudes will most certainly look at you and have less than sincere intentions. Everyone wants to look good, and everyone wants attention or rather to be desirable by the opposite sex, but if you're posting in clothing other than the kind you wear to church or work, well, dudes with cocks will always see you as just a hole to violate.
Again, my two cents...and nothing against you. Plus, well I juts know that a lot of sites guys use em mainly b/c they have no game in real life and its easier to use off putting lines like that en masse than to engage in a real conversation.
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man i haven't been single in like four years and now i am
how does i do this??!?! what is "date"
how does i do this??!?! what is "date"
Loverskitten
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Annnnnd just this second another guy "R u up to fun with no attachments ?"
Me "no thanks"
Ok I'll stop bitching now, sorry
Me "no thanks"
Ok I'll stop bitching now, sorry
Loverskitten
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Mostly face shots, one whole body, in a dress, but I'm only showing leg (NO bikini shots, duck face, kiss face, almost nudes... you should see what some girls post)
Maybe I should break out the cardigan and pearls and pose as something I'm not????? I'm sure I have pearls here somewhere, lemme check my ass. (kidding don't PM me guys)
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Loverskitten
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When you find out, please let me know. I'm doing it wrong.
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i think its when you meet someone and hold their hand and then you're married??! god i'm rusty at this.
