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Discovering your wife or girlfriend having an affair

FantasySharer1 said:
As long as my wife was sleeping with her brother, but no other extra guys, I'd be completely supportive. I'd be happy to cup his balls while he unloads into her pussy.
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Uhhhhhhhh… your wife sleeps with her brother? I think cuckolding is actually losing on the “kink” scale on this one. Well done.
 
PeteyPP said:
How about discovering your wife is having an affair with your girlfriend 😂
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I saw a porno once where the guy goes to work, and the girl soon after has her lover come in they start getting it on, it was another girl, and that was hot. The dude comes back thinking she's with a guy, he goes off at her with another girl, and then start fucking her while the girlfriend of course says no please don't. The thing that sticks out to this day, is he's basically fucking the lovers mouth when he shoots his cum, but it was so forceful it shot back out of her mouth back on to him...man it was great.
 
Yarglenurp said:
Uhhhhhhhh… your wife sleeps with her brother? I think cuckolding is actually losing on the “kink” scale on this one. Well done.
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She doesn't sleep with her brother....but my biggest, deep down, wish-it-was-real fantasy is that she did. Every day.
 
write_or_wrong said:
I know Nelli60's OP was about our feelings/actions AFTER discovering our SO had an affair, but if it's not too much off topic, I wonder HOW people have discovered their partner was screwing someone else. I know Van Delay (come on, George Costanza, we all know it's really you) found a video that confirmed it. I thought I had found the smoking gun when I noticed a used (very full) condom in the trash, but it turned out to be her son's who used her bedroom for a quicky with his GF. I once found a pair of my now-ex-wife's panties with a dollop of semen in the crotch panel and thought she had strayed, but it turned out to be my cum.

So how do people feel/act about finding the "evidence" of their SO cheating?
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Thanks for your input. I got suspicious not cause of physical evidence but sexually she acted or felt different. Seem something on her mind..sexual techniques different for some weeks before breakup but same other times. It was intuition?
 
Oddly I did question her and of course she denied everything. But I remember my mind wondering about her with another man and it got me hard but jealous at the same time especially when she was touching me.
 
Women -- at least most women -- like a bit of variety, just like men. One thing's for certain you can't force her to be a good girl. If it turns you on -- so much the better.
 
Justfantasies said:
Women -- at least most women -- like a bit of variety, just like men. One thing's for certain you can't force her to be a good girl. If it turns you on -- so much the better.
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The other odd thing is despite the fact with some women are like that as you say and despite its a turn on thinking about it, I do like the girl to be solely mine and not shared unless we consent to it and I am there to observe.
 
Nellie60 said:
The other odd thing is despite the fact with some women are like that as you say and despite its a turn on thinking about it, I do like the girl to be solely mine and not shared unless we consent to it and I am there to observe.
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It isn't "odd" at all -- people vary for a host of reasons. The important thing is that it is easier to adjust yourself than insist that she is a one guy gal. I suspect most wives and girlfriends have little side things, but don't talk about it or admit it.
 
Then I am happy to have an affair with another man's girl cause I relish the idea that she is committed in some relationship and that arouses me. Strange that there is a jealous husband or boyfriend out there if they find out and thats excites me cause he wants her back. Its double standard I know so I probably deserved my pain:)
 
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Nellie60 said:
Then I am happy to have an affair with another man's girl cause I relish the idea that she is committed in some relationship and that arouses me. Strange that there is a jealous husband or boyfriend out there if they find out and thats excites me cause he wants her back. Its double standard I know so I probably deserved my pain:)
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He may not be jealous -- he may be excited
 
Nellie60 said:
This is really a spin off of an early thread about " How would you feel if your close friend starting seeing your ex"

Well this particular girl was the love of my life.
A beautiful Korean girl that appeared to start a new relationship with my mate straight after we broke up.

Obviously there must have goings on behind my back and I think about it pretty much every day.

It's both a fantasy now but still gets to me how this happened yet I get hard imagining her with him cause I know what she was like sexually.

How does everyone else deal with this?
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I got suspicious about a beautiful ex years ago decided to follow her to a park. She told me she was out with a female friend for the day but I caught her and even filmed her playing with another man lying against a large tree. The slut was giving this guy a handjob. I was devastated but couldn't stop watching. I was upset and full of jealous thoughts for weeks and she couldn't understand why I just wanted to fuck her..
 
Before we were married but had been together for years I found out my wife had been regularly dating another guy (we were living in different cities for a couple years). Turned out it was the best thing that happened to us. We opened up on our experiences, desires to be with others, together and apart. And I love the idea of please given and received by my wife
 
Fantasier said:
I got suspicious about a beautiful ex years ago decided to follow her to a park. She told me she was out with a female friend for the day but I caught her and even filmed her playing with another man lying against a large tree. The slut was giving this guy a handjob. I was devastated but couldn't stop watching. I was upset and full of jealous thoughts for weeks and she couldn't understand why I just wanted to fuck her..
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Many men appear to get turned on when they discover their wife, SO,is having an affair. It becomes all about the sex. Do women ever have a similar reaction.
 
cuckoldbill said:
Many men appear to get turned on when they discover their wife, SO,is having an affair. It becomes all about the sex. Do women ever have a similar reaction.
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I am not sure women are different creatures. Every time after that when we made out I would say nasty things to her cause I could only think about her touching this other guy. But it got me so worked up. She still doesn't know I saw her and I still have a video of her affair.
 
CuriousJInLA said:
Before we were married but had been together for years I found out my wife had been regularly dating another guy (we were living in different cities for a couple years). Turned out it was the best thing that happened to us. We opened up on our experiences, desires to be with others, together and apart. And I love the idea of please given and received by my wife
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Ok? Did she tell you much details or did you bother to ask?
 
CuriousJInLA said:
Before we were married but had been together for years I found out my wife had been regularly dating another guy (we were living in different cities for a couple years). Turned out it was the best thing that happened to us. We opened up on our experiences, desires to be with others, together and apart. And I love the idea of please given and received by my wife
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Opening up about the past can be a very erotic experience -- my first wife opened up after five years and it was most exciting
 
Not long after we got together, I had friends tell me that they saw another guy in the vehicle with my wife. I never saw it myself. Over the next several years, other events happened that raised my suspicions. Never found proof. One year, it seemed odd that her company Christmas party was employees only. She came home drunk, very late and passed out. I had this terrible feeling in my gut. I took her cell phone and scooped. Not only messages and emails but a saved voicemail from that same night. I had my proof. I was pissed, woke her up and after first denying it, she admitted it. I never have gotten the whole story, I'm sure I never will. The only reason I let her stay is because at the very same time, I had my first affair.
 
Justfantasies said:
The actual truth may not matter as much as her fantasies about him and what he did to her and for her
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I think you are right. You already know she cheated and she's embarrassed or guilty but she's still thinking about the other person what stuff they did together
 
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