Discovering your wife or girlfriend having an affair

[pace_purr]

My wife had a couple of affairs but due to the fact we were in the swinging lifestyle and I knew about it I wasn’t bothered just as long as she was enjoying herself and not hurting anyone.

 

[drobert44]

If I were married, I wouldnt care what she did, as long as she was safe.

 

[Nellie60]

If I were married, I wouldnt care what she did, as long as she was safe.

Open marriage?

 

[Nellie60]

My wife had a couple of affairs but due to the fact we were in the swinging lifestyle and I knew about it I wasn’t bothered just as long as she was enjoying herself and not hurting anyone.

Understood

 

[Islander55]

Women get horny too and I suspect that a lot of women have had hookups that the husband has no clue about. Sometime we just need something a little different or just to know that other men still desire us.

 

[drobert44]

Women get horny too and I suspect that a lot of women have had hookups that the husband has no clue about. Sometime we just need something a little different or just to know that other men still desire us.

Sounds perfectly normal; its just sex.

 

[peter49parker]

Women get horny too and I suspect that a lot of women have had hookups that the husband has no clue about. Sometime we just need something a little different or just to know that other men still desire us.

I'm pretty sure that the "still desirable" aspect has a lot to do with it. Absolutely agree with getting something different too.

 

[Islander55]

Sounds perfectly normal; its just sex.

Amen to that. Don't make it complicated. Just enjoy the pleasure. I am sure there are many men that have no idea their wife steps out a couple of times a year just to scratch that itch.

 

[Islander55]

I'm pretty sure that the "still desirable" aspect has a lot to do with it. Absolutely agree with getting something different too.

If you have been married awhile, couples tend to get into a rut. So a strange body and cock can do a lot for their self esteem.

 

[drobert44]

If you have been married awhile, couples tend to get into a rut. So a strange body and cock can do a lot for their self esteem.

Exactly.......I fuck a hot granny who hasnt been fucked in 30 years, I gave her her first orgasm, still looking for her G spot.

 

[Islander55]

Exactly.......I fuck a hot granny who hasnt been fucked in 30 years, I gave her her first orgasm, still looking for her G spot.

I can not even imagine going without for 30 years. I wonder how many vibrators she went through.

 

[drobert44]

I can not even imagine going without for 30 years. I wonder how many vibrators she went through.

NONE; she didnt know what orgasm was, had never sucked cock, etc. We fucked like rabbits for 3 days.

 

[Islander55]

NONE; she didnt know what orgasm was, had never sucked cock, etc. We fucked like rabbits for 3 days.

She has a lot of catching up to do. I hope you are taking your vitamins.

 

[drobert44]

She has a lot of catching up to do. I hope you are taking your vitamins.

I do my best.......bike an hour/day, lift in the gym. After a fuck, she is playing with my cock in 3 minutes.

 

[LeeKee]

Amen to that. Don't make it complicated. Just enjoy the pleasure. I am sure there are many men that have no idea their wife steps out a couple of times a year just to scratch that itch.

I didn't want to accept it but let's be real. You are correct and saying what alot of people (like me, but im over it) don't want to admit. I'm a guy, yeah we all know guys and horny, but, gotta learn women are the same if not more horny at times. Gotta grasp that.

All I need to do is make sure I'm secure enough to make our marriage function, and be understanding. Love is one thing, "just sex" is another.

I'm getting there.

 

[Tom_Brown]

Been married many years now and I’ve had several sexual affairs..
My wife never know or if she did she looked the other way.
A couple years back I got the feeling something might be up with her.
Trips shopping and returning with nothing purchased.
I got the notion to follow her.. and I did.. to a motel off the freeway.
I saw her car parked in the lot.. nothing else really around the place.
And no bar in the motel so had to be in a room..
I was so mad but turned on too.. I sat in the parking lot staring at the building.
I left and felt so aroused at what’s going on inside that motel room.
Picturing my wife in bed with who? Did I know him? Was it one of her old flings?
I went home and jerked off with those thoughts.
A short time later she comes in the house saying I’m beat..
I need a warm bath and early bedtime..

Did you ever confront her or did she ever admit to fucking another man?

 

[drobert44]

Turn about is fair play.

 

[Islander55]

I didn't want to accept it but let's be real. You are correct and saying what alot of people (like me, but im over it) don't want to admit. I'm a guy, yeah we all know guys and horny, but, gotta learn women are the same if not more horny at times. Gotta grasp that.

All I need to do is make sure I'm secure enough to make our marriage function, and be understanding. Love is one thing, "just sex" is another.

I'm getting there.

Actually her stepping out makes the sex better for both of you in my experience.

 

[Cuck_veronica]

I am a lesbian and I walked in on my girlfriend(well now ex girlfriend) fucking a man. The whole time together she never once hinted that she was into men. I mean when she was drunk she'd get flirty with pretty much everyone. But after I caught her she just told me to go and she kept fucking him. Honestly for a few hours I was upset. But then it actually started to really turn me on. But she dumped me. I honestly am not over her and don't want to be with anyone but her. So in a way I feel like I am kind of being cucked. But I love it. My ex was always kind of a bitch. So I am not surprised she blocked my phone number but kept me as a friend on Facebook and Instagram just so I can see pictures of them together to get me jealous and maybe even try to arouse me. Since I told her it was okay to be with him if we stayed together. But she only wanted him. She knows I am obsessed with her.

 

[Matt3427]

My wife sees a young lad regularly and has met a few over the years. Hard to explain to people who haven't experienced it. We actually started out with this in our 20s when I found out she had cheated a few times. Became a big turn on for us.

 

[artgorden]

If he's bi I'm lovin it.

 

[Jcam1980s]

I've posted before, My ex cheated on me and had me pick her up! (Thought it was a girlfriends house). We got home and as soon as i slid into her my cock was coated in warm cum. It made me go harder and after she held my head to eat her, i came so hard again without her even touching me. It was hot.

 

[LeeKee]

Actually her stepping out makes the sex better for both of you in my experience.

I've noticed, in increments, things she never would have done, she is initiating. So, yeah, you've got a point.

 

[Islander55]

I've noticed, in increments, things she never would have done, she is initiating. So, yeah, you've got a point.

Perhaps a bit of guilt and she feels she needs to make it up to you.

 

[partsecond]

Women get horny too and I suspect that a lot of women have had hookups that the husband has no clue about. Sometime we just need something a little different or just to know that other men still desire us.

I believe this is important to most realationships, but people in the relationships don't want to admit it to eachother.