Do men watch lesbian porn because they are insecure?

[sunandshadow]

That's why I started this thread in the first place. I HATE women. I hate seeing them naked, I hate reading about them, I hate writing about them. In my opinion, the female body is distasteful. Yet, I know that all of this is probably because I feel so shitty about my own body. I was commiserating, not insulting.

I'm sorry if I didn't make that clear.

I don't find the female body distasteful but I do feel a mix of jealousy and disdain towards female characters in erotica and romance. In general I can't identify with them, they don't seem like me at all, so I can't put myself in their place. On top of that they often get gorgeous men and nice lives that I will never have. And some primordial territorial part of my brain thinks that women who aren't similar to me are threatening rivals. So I'm usually more comfortable reading male/male erotica or romance than straight.

I've gotten a lot more relaxed about it over the past ten years though; I can read and enjoy straight romance novels now, and I can find images of fantasy females such as mermaids, succubi, etc entertaining. The ones that still bug me are the ones where a realistic image of a woman is being presented in a way that makes it obvious the image was created specifically to look gorgeously fuckable to men. I hate the idea that not even with significant amounts of work could I approach being what men subconsciously and instinctively want in a woman.

 

[RjThoughts]

Queer.

[Sarcasm]

<raises finger and points>

LABELER!!!!!

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[rickydickdicky]

No, I watch cause it turns me on to se two women together. A female body is so much sexier and sensual than a male body.

 

[Jagged]

Yes I've seen the commercially popular lesbian porn...and I've seen porn made by real lesbians.

I've enjoyed both....nice to see women having sex it is very beautiful to me anyway.

 

[partsecond]

I like all porn because I'm always horny. What ever I'm in the mood for works for me. It's not complicated because it's not rocket science.

I think this pegs it.

 

[KarlMartinK]

I think this pegs it.

Yeah, that about sums it up.

 

[Sex_On_My_Mind]

I watch lesbian porn just because it's sooo damned hot!

 

[mmarfox]

just wondering,

Do guys watch lesbian porn because they don't like seeing men with bigger cocks then them?

Or because they are too insecure to see a naked guy at all?

Or any other reasons?

Just to be nice, here is a hot site I found

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PS. I am not a man

I can't tell you exactly what it is since I'm not even sure. It's just hot. Is it cause I'm insecure? I don't think so. I feel completely comfortable with my penis size and my sexual ability. Sometimes, it's just nice to see two hot women going at it.

 

[Rembrandt500]

I don't watch it out of "insecurity", I watch it because I love everything about women and seeing two (or preferably more) women pleasing each other by licking/sucking feet, tits, ass and tribbing hard against each other is just incredibly hot. I can't really explain it.

 

[mmarfox]

I disagree that women are physically sexier. The male body is amazing. I prefer women, but they are not better looking than men.

At the risk of being called gay or whatever, I agree with this statement. The fit male body is very beautiful, just like a firm female body. I enjoy straight porn since it fulfills a fantasy: a hot girl being railed. It's exactly what I want to be doing all the time haha. I can get into both straight and lesbian porn. It just depends on my mood.

Just to throw it out there for reference, I also like lesbian strap-on porn. I even started a thread here to discuss it (although not much discussion is going on). This satisfies both my interest in lesbians and penetration.

 

[aniowachick]

My husband loves watching me with other women.. He doesnt get insecure, he gets horny... then gets to fuck us both lol

just wondering,

Do guys watch lesbian porn because they don't like seeing men with bigger cocks then them?

Or because they are too insecure to see a naked guy at all?

Or any other reasons?

Just to be nice, here is a hot site I found

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PS. I am not a man

 

[dumbgirl]

I'm a girl, and I don't really like watching straight porn unless it's kind of messed up, like humiliating, public sex, gang bangs, massive creampie orgies, and what not. Other then that, I can only really watch lesbian porn.
I'm pansexual, but girls are just way more sexier than guys are. My boyfriend is really one of the few guys I actually find attractive [thank god].

 

[erigeron]

.....

 

[forplayer__]

just wondering,

Do guys watch lesbian porn because they don't like seeing men with bigger cocks then them?

Or because they are too insecure to see a naked guy at all?

Or any other reasons?

Just to be nice, here is a hot site I found

[spam/advertising prohibited per our forum guidelines]

PS. I am not a man

I, for one, am infatuated with a woman's body and I prefer watching man/woman porn but also enjoy women/woman porn and enjoy what they do to and with their bodies...it's damn hot...even the french kissing...as I love kissing and it seems to be a lost art in man/woman porn

 

[Bisexguy]

Queer.

You got me figured out Stella.

I like to watch lesbian porn with a lot of kissing, touching, more romantic pacing. If I am watching gay porn I just want some good cocksucking and hard fucking. I have no interest in seeing men try to be romantic.

I also love shemale porn

 

[GigaPanda]

For me it's definitely just to see the fake porn aspect and get my rocks off. I know actual lesbians sure don't act like pornstars. It's purely just to see twice thee curves and double the tits.

 

[Stella_Omega]

yeah you're right.
Lesbians obviously don't ever ever have sex in their entire life. Not even once.
Two girls having sex with each other is clearly impossible and never ever happens.

well, they hardly ever have sex while staying a foot apart from each other (so the cameraman can see their tits) with three-inch-long nails and an inch of pancaked on makeup, making "O" mouths at the camera.

 

[Guest]

i watch lesbian porn for pleasure

 

[mmarfox]

I can't speak for everyone on here, but I don't like the fake shit either. It is infinity times better when the girls are genuinely into it. I feel like that is true for anything; straight sex, real life, etc...

 

[SevenSquared]

I prefer straight porn to lesbian porn. I guess lesbian porn never seems that realistic and realism is important to me in porn (which I guess is the reason I like amateur and voyeur porn).

However, I would be quite interested in seeing some 'real' lesbian porn (made by lesbians, for lesbians, containing real lesbians) if anybody has any good links.

 

[SallyIsHere]

From my professor

My college sexuality professor suggested that one reason men like lesbian porn (one of many) is that we have a tradition of men initiating sex and women being rather passive or even reluctant. In lesbian porn women are being sexual without men to run the show and that is arousing to men because they are seeing women actually being very sexual voluntarily in a man-less world.

But, really, who knows. I like watching two guys sometimes too.

 

[Cruel2BKind]

Your professor had a point...

One thing I really like about male/male porn is the top/bottom seme/uke element of it. It's most prevalent in the bdsm and bondage porn, but my absolute favorite part of gay porn is when I see some young cute guy being very submissive. Maybe guys love woman/woman porn for the dominant females, and we like gay porn because of the cute little submissive guys! *blush, fans herself*

*ahem* Goodbye, I have some videos to watch.

 

[Harber]

Sapphism's a boo-tiful thing. No, really!
Who on earth watches two women because they're insecure? I think you'd have to be some kind of insane alpha to feel put upon by the presence of another guy.

Personally, I'm fascinated by femaleness, femininity (various socially conditioned kinds), and the unique dynamic between two women. Blonde girls with implants, dressed as schoolgirls doing that weird flappy tongue porn-kiss thing? Doesn't interest me (or they'd have to be dynamite models). Most porn is rubbish, and that counts for f/f.


Does anyone know IfeelMyself and Abby Winters (not sure about the rules re mentioning sites)? I think they're both Australian, and those sites represent what I find sexy about porn in general, but especially f/f with the latter; natural women having fun, with the emphasis being on the individuals enjoyment in the vid.

If the girls aren't getting a kick out of it, neither can I.

So no, I don't watch it because I'm insecure. I watch it 'cause women and female sexuality is fucking awesome.

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Cruel2BKind - nope, dom women isn't the why, at least not for me. But dom/sub f/f porn can be a big turn on.

 

[KarlMartinK]

Sometimes, it's a turn-on to know the actress is only acting, too. I see this a lot in straight porn where a girl pretends that she really wants the guy to blow a load in her face or her mouth, but you can tell she obviously doesn't want him to do that. I don't just mean the ones who blink or turn their heads a little so they don't get it in their eyes, but the ones who you can really tell are just acting.

 

[erikku31]

I started watching straight and girl on girl porn out of curiosity. I started watched preg porn for the sexual aspect of it. That requires at least one woman. Womens bodies to are more pleasing to look at and feel in almost every aspect, I imagine.