Dom/me "Thought of the Day" calendar

[AngelicAssassin]

July 1

I think perhaps I've got a different take on creativity than some. I'm not so much concerned with an endless supply of different activities to acheive certain ends as I am attracted to a flexibility of mind. Not just the capacity but the compulsion to look at things from multiple angles --- even those things which one generally takes for granted.

I suppose that's more curiosity than creativity but in my perfect world they walk hand in glove. Curiosity to explore, creativity to divine the tactics which get answers.

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[AngelicAssassin]

July 2

From the "Any thoughts on DPs?" thread.

Batter up ...

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[AngelicAssassin]

July 3

I love role playing and that as others have said is one thing. *smile* But to punish for no reason is wrong as it sends mixed signals. I will punish (strongly) a sub/slut for exactly that reason and possibly others. But I have never punished (nor will I) someone for "the hell of it" nor when I am mad.

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[AngelicAssassin]

July 4

I don't do anything to punish my subs. I've never had to vindicate, only correct.

I register my displeasure, and expect there to be changes.

If there aren't any changes or attempts at changes, then there's the door.

All the people I've had the distinct pleasure of working with in the capacity of being served, male and female, are adults who want to serve me and spend time with me, and even want to impress me. Their desires are secondary to my desires, their needs are not going to determine the direction of the relationship at every given turn.

If I wanted a 10 year old I'd simply get pregnant. Jesus.

Maybe TPE is predicated on dependence over service, but my D/s relationships have service as the cornerstone. Control furthers service, it's about being useful to me, not helpless without me.

There's nothing infantile or bait and switch about that. I'm very clear with prospectives that I'm not there to make them into submissives, they need to decide that they are before they play that card. I don't exist to be in slavery to someone else's dysfunctional existence, maybe that's cool for some people, but not me.

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[AngelicAssassin]

July 5

How do you know you forgot it? Someone might have actually stolen it! It could be a deep, dire and dastardly plot.

Fortunately, I think you can buy replacements -- have you tried e-bay?

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[AngelicAssassin]

July 6

Two discussing one.

Boy, you're not easily impressed Netzach.

She's the best.

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[AngelicAssassin]

July 7

stop explaining english to people.
our peculiar indecipherable language, is what make us quintissentially english.

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[AngelicAssassin]

July 8

I think of all the time I've spent convincing young maidens to allow me into their most private of parts, and it makes me want to cry to hear that there are boys who won't even do it when asked. In fact, it makes me want to cry to hear that there are girls out there offering their sweet asses to their boyfriends period.

What I wouldn't do for such an anally inclined girl.

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[AngelicAssassin]

July 9

Nasty Boots quoting Berice

"Yo you been seein' all them chinese bitches around here with the big asses? Them bitches used to be skinny as shit. You think they're fuckin' with the brothers??'

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[AngelicAssassin]

July 10

I get like that, at least 4 or 5 times a year. It's like a feeling of bleakness which can only be consumed by a thorough beating.
(either giving one or receiving it).

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[AngelicAssassin]

July 11

I doubt I could slap him hard enough to leave a mark.

However, there is something exhilerating about focussing all of your energy on skin to skin contact.

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[AngelicAssassin]

July 12

I think that My biggest overall fear is simple. I play sports and am very active all the way across the board. My worst darkest fear has to do with being involved in an accident or getting a disabilitating disease that renders Me unable to type, or rather to move.

Basically to be a invalid. Unable to move without assistance. A parapallegic, sorry if I misspelled that. I would still have My mind but imagine if a stroke had made Me incapable of speech as well. That would be truly horrible, to be isolated inside My own head without the ability to touch, speek, or feel, or communicate. I'd be one of those people that learn to send morse code through blinking.

I don't have the will to surrender to anything, so I imagine even incapacitated as I mentioned above I would find a way to stave off just giving in. I mean hopefully a pretty nurse would come in and submit to My needs lol.

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[Mr Blonde]

This is gonna take a miracle!

Thanks to AngelicAssassin for making some progress. But oh my, I have such a long way to go. Especially since I might be away during November....

Gotta fit about 175 days into two months (October and December).

 

[Mr Blonde]

July 13

I think the depth of the human heart, mind and spirit is infinite, hence the depth in which a person can submit is infinite, so when you speak of total submission, I do not see it as something that can be measured in depth, but more about a specific moment of obedience in which total submission has been reached.

--RJMasters link

 

[Mr Blonde]

July 14

I think the hottest kiss I have ever had was with our submissive last year -- pulling her hard to me, by her hair, and basically taking her mouth with my own. She would end up cumming from it, and my hand in her hair at the back of her neck would be supporting her body weight and holding her tight to me. I miss those kisses.

--FungiUg link

 

[Mr Blonde]

July 15

I do not believe a Dominant no matter how Powerful in persona or aptitude can take a submissive to sub space if that submissive is not drawn forcefully to that particular Dominant through some deep personal need and fantasy.

--Shadowsdream link

 

[Mr Blonde]

July 16

The journey starts with the mind, and is conveyed with the eyes and the voice. I have never and would never raise my voice to a sub. For me, that would be a sign of my total failure as a Dom. If I can't command and control a sub with a look or a calmly voiced command, then I don't have control over her.

--zipman7 link

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Re: This is gonna take a miracle!

Thanks to AngelicAssassin for making some progress ...

ROFLMAO!!!

Dude ... i got you to within a month and you ghosted on me.

 

[Esclava]

<----Popping in for a visit....

May I offer my assistance, please?

Working on the STOTD Calendar (for Catalina in her absence) taught me many things - #1 of which was - this is NOT an easy job!

If you will accept my help, may I use quotes from Switches (as they pertain to Dom/me-ly things)? Let me know if I may assist.

Esclava

 

[Mr Blonde]

AngelicAssassin: I think you did a good job.

Esclava: Sure, feel free. I don't think it is so bad once I get in a groove, but my biggest liability is that I am a part-time poster and it is hard to keep up with all the different personalities. As for switches, this thread already has several of their comments so it is fine. The important thing is that the comment is being made from a dominant's perspective (or at least a part-time dominant).

 

[Esclava]

July 17th

<snip>
As a parting comment to this thread....I don't know how much of this is in jest or in absolute sincerity, however, the more it leans towards genuine sincerity of treating all women-kind like animals, the more a husband and a father of two girls, like myself, is willing to shoot down a wild beast where they stand with the only regret of having to wasted 25 cents on the bullet used.

Human-kind have intellect, a will, and a spirit which in my mind seperates us all from being mere animals. Every person should be afforded dignity.

If the spirit of this thread is more about describing how sometimes the animal instincs seem powerful at times when engaged in sexual activity with a willing/consenting partner, then let the savage beast in me drink and eat his fill.

Oh man, oh man - watch out you wild animals...

Esclava

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[FungiUg]

Cheers and applause for Esclava

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Burning bright ...

Oh man, oh man - watch out you wild animals ...

Oh, we will ...

 

[Esclava]

July 18th

rosco rathbone -

I will reveal one of my secrets gratis, to the youth:

There's something I call the submissive smile . It's a pure knuckling-under thing. Stare hard into her eyes and say something a bit aggressive, but with a small smile to give her an out. Then watch the play between her eyes and mouth. In many cases you will see her eyes stay wide and focused on yours, not "smiling eyes" at all...but her mouth will do this rapid smile, unsmile, smile flickering thing.

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A secret pearl of wisdom from MRosco....

Esclava

 

[Esclava]

July 19th

Netzach -

Potentially so. I do this with the boys and the ones I want tend to look away first. My mouth tends not to know what shape to make when I'm feeling the adrenaline tell me flee or duke it out.

That can also mean "you freak, you're freaking me out and I don't want to be rude, so I'll stare at your forehead and smile."

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Different take on the "secret wisdom" from above...

Esclava