ctarrantella
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My wife and I can't sync up in this department.
I am a night time guy, right before we go to sleep. I like it to be a little romantic and not feel rushed.
She on the other hand is always tired at night. She tends to like the afternoon, lunchtime sessions between my conference calls.
Honestly, I hate our sex life and lack of it right now. When we do, it's always on the clock. Between calls, when the kids are in the shower or tied up studying and we know they won't be looking for either of us (they are older, mid to late teens), or when they are out.
We can have sex maybe twice a week, then will go 10-14 days with nothing. The long stretches are so frustrating for me. Nothing is spontaneous and it's always asked for (usually by me, because if I don't she won't ever bring it up).
I am a night time guy, right before we go to sleep. I like it to be a little romantic and not feel rushed.
She on the other hand is always tired at night. She tends to like the afternoon, lunchtime sessions between my conference calls.
Honestly, I hate our sex life and lack of it right now. When we do, it's always on the clock. Between calls, when the kids are in the shower or tied up studying and we know they won't be looking for either of us (they are older, mid to late teens), or when they are out.
We can have sex maybe twice a week, then will go 10-14 days with nothing. The long stretches are so frustrating for me. Nothing is spontaneous and it's always asked for (usually by me, because if I don't she won't ever bring it up).