Flogged Into Conversion

[rida]

In my very limited experience with impact play implements, I have to say that floggers are delicious (maybe not the whiplash of the tails tips ...) and that leather belts are fucking ouch.

 

[madetotakeit]

Leather belts just take me back to childhood punishment (and if did something to deserve the belt, I had a pretty pissed off-heavy handed mother swinging.) I'm not sure how I would react. As far as pain factor goes...if I could handle it as a 12 year old, I think I could handle it now.

 

[greeneyed_Lady]

Evil Geoff... I am mightily impressed with the collection. And a smidge envious. I do not own any floggers myself, but have a small collection of whips and a couple of loaner canes from my bestest friend who's hung up her Domme self for a new love interest. I have felt the bat and quirt first hand to a small extent, and while enjoyable, it's not for me. I have an interesting way of playing with my partners... it's all instinct and reading of their reactions. Playing on subtle fears they have. I work hard to find out what gets them going, then work harder to learn more about that on my own. By the time we are ever in position to play I am more then prepared.

I had a lovely subbie last year who was a heavy masochist and we spent hours and hours in conversation about likes, dislikes, fears, wants, must haves and don't ever want to do those things... and then we played. There was a natural progression thru the toys and I was able to read his reactions and responses and go lighter when he needed that, and heavier when he needed that... and of course do what I wanted when I needed that. He used his safe word once... and rightfully so given the situation. Was nice to be able to take him to the place he wanted and needed. I was worried that I wouldn't be able to give him that. But I did, and more. I miss him.

 

[TeachMeSir]

OK, MadeTo. I am now also converted!

I don't know where to start. Two were used one me (Thank-you very much to the wielder as well as the person that loaned them).

I found the heavier deer skin (?) one very relaxing. And could certainly see myself falling asleep! Unfortunately he's a sadist & every time I started to doze of he would change it out for the leater with thinner straps which packed more of a sting & certainly got my attention!

Has anybody got any experience with the "rose flogger"? The braiding looks mean (and I am yet to decide if that is a good or bad thing), but the suede looks like it would pack a nice "thump", massaging out all my tension. And it looks pretty. I'm not sure that "pretty" is a big attraction for the male Dom's though!

 

[rida]

In my very limited experience with impact play implements, I have to say that floggers are delicious (maybe not the whiplash of the tails tips ...) and that leather belts are fucking ouch.

quoting myself here as I think I need to edit the above comment:

Suede floggers hitting your pussy and ass crack are not delicious. Nor the tail ends hitting the inside of your legs. Ouch. But the feeling it left behind is just ... yummi

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Has anybody got any experience with the "rose flogger"? The braiding looks mean (and I am yet to decide if that is a good or bad thing), but the suede looks like it would pack a nice "thump", massaging out all my tension. And it looks pretty. I'm not sure that "pretty" is a big attraction for the male Dom's though!

It looks so wickedly pretty

But yeah ... pretty might not rate high on a Dom scale of must-have

(TMS: it seems that congrats are in order )

 

[WickedEve]

Last night I discovered the joys of being flogged and paddled. I had always been drawn to flogging, paddling I wasn't so sure of. Never really knowing how much I was into pain I wasn't sure how I would react to it when I finally felt it (I need to get some input on how much I was able to handle). I don't know where I fall on the pain tolerance scale, but it was enough for me to still be feeling the warmth as I'm sitting here typing.

I loved the sting and the feeling of the suede traveling across my sensitive skin as the burn spread. The feeling of it on my upper back beat the hell out of just about every massage I've ever had. I could definitely see slipping into sub space through flogging. Paddling is another thing altogether. While I enjoyed it, it was much more a sense of making me feel submissive. And I can say with certainty that wooden paddles should be left for punishment when it comes to me. Too many licks from one of those and I would be in tears fast. Overall it was very centering.

I have definitely been converted. Floggers are way up there on my favorite toys list now. Now there are crops and canes to try ...but I'll put those a little farther down the road. My skin needs to cool down first.

I love floggers. Occasionally, I can just drift away during a good flogging. The last time, I was in subspace (or sleeping -- hope I didn't snore) and I felt like I was leaping from buildings and flying over the city. Then I suddenly came out of it with a big "Ouch!" After being flogged for awhile, I was numb to the pain and enjoying myself. But then it all came rushing back and ouch. At least his arms were tired and aching.

I actually like the riding crop. I hated it at first and I would even hide it from him. Now, usually, I get off on the sharp pain of the crop.

The cane? Nooo... don't like it.




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[Homburg]

OK, MadeTo. I am now also converted!

I don't know where to start. Two were used one me (Thank-you very much to the wielder as well as the person that loaned them).

I found the heavier deer skin (?) one very relaxing. And could certainly see myself falling asleep! Unfortunately he's a sadist & every time I started to doze of he would change it out for the leater with thinner straps which packed more of a sting & certainly got my attention!

Has anybody got any experience with the "rose flogger"? The braiding looks mean (and I am yet to decide if that is a good or bad thing), but the suede looks like it would pack a nice "thump", massaging out all my tension. And it looks pretty. I'm not sure that "pretty" is a big attraction for the male Dom's though!

No experience with them, but have used heavy-ass floggers like that. From the handle end, they're a LOT of work. The heavier they are, the more they will fall on the thuddy side.

 

[WickedEve]

No experience with them, but have used heavy-ass floggers like that. From the handle end, they're a LOT of work. The heavier they are, the more they will fall on the thuddy side.

Have you tried a paddle that has a sandpaper type of texture? We have one that's like that one side. We've tried it once. I can't remember if it was awful or not. I've avoided it since that first time. There's something unsettling about the rough texture. I guess it's all in my head, same way it was with the riding crop for a long time.

 

[Homburg]

Have you tried a paddle that has a sandpaper type of texture? We have one that's like that one side. We've tried it once. I can't remember if it was awful or not. I've avoided it since that first time. There's something unsettling about the rough texture. I guess it's all in my head, same way it was with the riding crop for a long time.

I've not really done much abrasion play, so I've never had the urge to buy textured paddles. I'm actually not much into paddles. I can imagine that a sandpaper paddle would feel odd.

 

[intothewoods]

In my very limited experience with impact play implements, I have to say that floggers are delicious (maybe not the whiplash of the tails tips ...) and that leather belts are fucking ouch.

Mine uses a belt and it doesn't ouch. It may depend on the PYL.

 

[madetotakeit]

OK, MadeTo. I am now also converted!

I don't know where to start. Two were used one me (Thank-you very much to the wielder as well as the person that loaned them).

I found the heavier deer skin (?) one very relaxing. And could certainly see myself falling asleep! Unfortunately he's a sadist & every time I started to doze of he would change it out for the leater with thinner straps which packed more of a sting & certainly got my attention!

Has anybody got any experience with the "rose flogger"? The braiding looks mean (and I am yet to decide if that is a good or bad thing), but the suede looks like it would pack a nice "thump", massaging out all my tension. And it looks pretty. I'm not sure that "pretty" is a big attraction for the male Dom's though!

Welcome to the flogger side. I agree that the softer ones are almost lulling, more of a caress on the skin after the initial sting. The buffalo flogger that was used on me felt probably similar to the deerskin. I preferred the other one that was used, but then as I recently found out I seem to have a pretty good masochistic streak in me. I wish I had been given some harder blows to be honest. A sadist can be a good thing to know.

I posted the rose flogger in another thread in the cafe awhile back. My thought when I looked at it...that just might beat the hell out of a sports massage for getting rid of that nasty tension!

I actually like the riding crop. I hated it at first and I would even hide it from him. Now, usually, I get off on the sharp pain of the crop.

The cane? Nooo... don't like it.~

I haven't had the pleasure of trying a crop yet, but I will certainly take advantage to try one out. I'll try a cane too. I won't let it intimidate me (even though both do a little bit.) How will I know if I like it or not until I try it? I have a feeling I will though.

 

[Snoozebutton2]

OK, MadeTo. I am now also converted!

I don't know where to start. Two were used one me (Thank-you very much to the wielder as well as the person that loaned them).

I found the heavier deer skin (?) one very relaxing. And could certainly see myself falling asleep! Unfortunately he's a sadist & every time I started to doze of he would change it out for the leater with thinner straps which packed more of a sting & certainly got my attention!

Has anybody got any experience with the "rose flogger"? The braiding looks mean (and I am yet to decide if that is a good or bad thing), but the suede looks like it would pack a nice "thump", massaging out all my tension. And it looks pretty. I'm not sure that "pretty" is a big attraction for the male Dom's though!

Was glad could help, as wonderful to have them used. As they are better when out of bag instead of in it. lol

 

[intothewoods]

I heart the crop. Thin canes are really a bitch though.

 

[rida]

Mine uses a belt and it doesn't ouch. It may depend on the PYL.

I think that and where the belt hits (pinky bits hurt more than hips that hurt more than breasts).

There is a lot written about building up to the intensity of the strikes. Well, I don't really know what is the max strength for the Sadist, but if we call 10 the max I've experienced so far,　his warm up goes something like: 9,10. Ouch.

 

[TeachMeSir]

(TMS: it seems that congrats are in order )

Thanks Rida. I am so happy.

I actually like the riding crop. I hated it at first and I would even hide it from him. Now, usually, I get off on the sharp pain of the crop.


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I would have to say, that the crop is my favourite so far! The length of it hurts like a mother though so I think I'll stay away from a cane.

No experience with them, but have used heavy-ass floggers like that. From the handle end, they're a LOT of work. The heavier they are, the more they will fall on the thuddy side.

Here I was thinking about sumbitting with pleasure to a long flogging with the rose flogger without realizing the effort required at the handle end. I'm a greedy little thing like that!

 

[Harlet_Minx]

I heart the crop. Thin canes are really a bitch though.

mmmmmhmmmm, especially the bamboo or rattan canes (just a note, rattan is SUCH a better choice, the reason being that it wont splinter or shatter on impact, instead it just slowly turns to mush over use). I'm more of a fan of thud toys but normally only get them used as a warm up for something like a cane.

Me after some light play and a weeks worth of healing. Brought to you by the power of the hairbrush.

 

[WickedEve]

mmmmmhmmmm, especially the bamboo or rattan canes (just a note, rattan is SUCH a better choice, the reason being that it wont splinter or shatter on impact, instead it just slowly turns to mush over use). I'm more of a fan of thud toys but normally only get them used as a warm up for something like a cane.

Me after some light play and a weeks worth of healing. Brought to you by the power of the hairbrush.

I guess I should try the hairbrush. My butt rarely bruises or shows any signs of being whipped, flogged, cropped, paddled, etc. Other parts of me bruise, but not my ass. I have a lean, mean ass and it upsets my dom, which I find funny.




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[TeachMeSir]

mmmmmhmmmm, especially the bamboo or rattan canes (just a note, rattan is SUCH a better choice, the reason being that it wont splinter or shatter on impact, instead it just slowly turns to mush over use). I'm more of a fan of thud toys but normally only get them used as a warm up for something like a cane.

Me after some light play and a weeks worth of healing. Brought to you by the power of the hairbrush.

I am jealous of yoru bruises!!!! Mine have all but faded!!!

 

[intothewoods]

Damn, those are some bruises!

I don't even feel sore the next day anymore.

 

[Snoozebutton2]

mmmmmhmmmm, especially the bamboo or rattan canes (just a note, rattan is SUCH a better choice, the reason being that it wont splinter or shatter on impact, instead it just slowly turns to mush over use). I'm more of a fan of thud toys but normally only get them used as a warm up for something like a cane.

Me after some light play and a weeks worth of healing. Brought to you by the power of the hairbrush.

Wow a gorgeous ass and pic.

 

[Harlet_Minx]

Wow a gorgeous ass and pic.

thank you, it and I have a lot of fun together.

Damn, those are some bruises!

I don't even feel sore the next day anymore.

Sigh, I know, this was from a rather long session, but even so the sting was gone in about 2-3 hours. Actually would have liked to play with the cane some more, after the first 30-40 smacks with the paddle and brush I really stopped feeling it. It bothers me but I numb to pain very quickly, it's not even that the pain becomes a good pain it just disappears completely. Same thing with pleasure really, just don't feel it.