For those of you into humiliation what are the most humiliating things that turn you

[graceanne]

Ok, I thought it before but now I know for sure. We have a new troll. All of this is just feeding it, so I say that we should ignore it. Nothing we say is gonna make it back down, cause it's enjoying pissing everyone off. And I'd hate to give a troll what it wants.

 

[h_i_s]

We have a new troll.

Not been here much in the past week .... WHICH are you referring to (meaning which, as in who is the alleged troll) please, graceanne?

 

[cati]

OK if I told you guys that Master and I got into "Roman showers"... I hurled a total day's belly of undigested food... chunks of fetid vomit thrown up over his cock and belly and then he made me eat it all up again and lick him clean.
(Although its not my kink it is another perfect example).

So, whats the first thing that pops into your mind?...eeewww thats gross!!...and don't don't tell me that you don't "think" it' isn't. Don't waste your time telling me not to think for you, as that's not the point im making either.

Now, if someone says ... "hey so and so you are one sick puppy for doing the things you do", that's personal slamming (and at the beginning of this thread "a troll" did just that". Expressing your opinion is what this place is about. I see that many jump on the band wagon (group mentality) when one new individual has a differing point of view and others can't or won't keep their noses out of it.
Sadly, this issue has been brought up time and time again as well.

I'm sure I'm guilty of it (sticking my nose in, when its not my business) and from now on I will do my damnest to change.


Why do I get the feeling I'm being stalked?

 

[graceanne]

Not been here much in the past week .... WHICH are you referring to (meaning which, as in who is the alleged troll) please, graceanne?

that debbie chick with the pink font

 

[cati]

Thankyou Graceanne. I wasn't sure if "I" was the troll or the kettle *s

 

[graceanne]

Thankyou Graceanne. I wasn't sure if "I" was the troll or the kettle *s

Why would I have thought you were a troll?

DO YOU HAVE A GUILTY CONCIOUNSE (sp?)?

 

[fieryjen]

OK if I told you guys that Master and I got into "Roman showers"... I hurled a total day's belly of undigested food... chunks of fetid vomit thrown up over his cock and belly and then he made me eat it all up again and lick him clean.

Although its not my kink it is another perfect example.

So, whats the first thing that pops into your mind?...eeewww thats gross!!...and don't don't tell me that you don't "think" it' isn't.

Why do I get the feeling I'm being stalked?

Although I may think it is, I would never even have mentioned that fact if you hadn't asked. My point was that this forum especially brings up a lot of topics that are preceived as gross or wrong by many people that are not part of the community, and in my opinion people should be able to post about their kinks without others labeling them as "sooo gross". There is a way to say it's not your cup of tea, and to voice health concerns, that sounds respectful and doesn't spark negative feelings.


I'm inclined to agree with graceanne's troll assessment, because that much of a personal attack after my fairly harmless post is just ridiculous. I'm not into arguing pointlessly for pages at a time, so that's all there will be from me.

 

[fieryjen]

I just noticed the above post might be taken the wrong way. The last paragraph is most decidedly not directed at Cati.

 

[h_i_s]

that debbie chick with the pink font

Ahh, ok. i see ... mucho thankies for the clarification, graceanne.

 

[graceanne]

I just noticed the above post might be taken the wrong way. The last paragraph is most decidedly not directed at Cati.

yeah, sure that's what they all say.

I think you have a guilty conscience, too.

EVERYONE HAS GUILTY CONSCIENCE'S! EVERYONE! MUHAHAHA

 

[fieryjen]

yeah, sure that's what they all say.

They do?

Wait, everyone writes second paragraphs that are not directed at Cati?

I hadn't noticed. But then again, what do I know... me and my guilty guilty conscience!

 

[h_i_s]

Thankyou Graceanne. I wasn't sure if "I" was the troll or the kettle *s

cati ..
It was i who used the term 'kettle', not graceanne ... and you know it, so why pretend otherwise, cati?
No idea why you might think that i was referring to you in that post where i'd used the term kettle ... my post DID include a quote taken from debbiev's post. i could have commented on your posts, and as you and i had already exchanged 'not so nice' words in another thread .... i chose not to direct my 2cents toward you.
It appears to me, that you are looking for the opportunity to enter into some type of pissing contest, with yet another opportunity resulting in which you'll feel justified in judging me & calling me a rude bitch ... once again?
If that is the case, since the subject of this thread has turned toward arguing the point of whether people who have nothing nice to say should say nothing at all rather than flame and insult others ..... then yes, you'd be the kettle in that case. Some may frown at my calling you out in that regard, but i can't stand fake offerings of goody two shoe acts ... so go ahead and flame away everyone. i'm a big 'little girl' ... i'll survive.
Appologies offered in advance, if that was NOT your intent, of course ... but i'm quite certain that i have hit the nail on the head, whether anyone else can see it, or not.

P.S. Yeah yeah .... i know the advice will be to put her on ignore. i don't care to put anyone on ignore because once i do ... it makes it difficult to follow any thread in which they choose to post .... Been there done that, and with her specifically.

And yeah, sometimes i AM rude & a bitch (and i've been called worse too ... so what) ... i refuse to offer any common respect once another has clearly gone out of their way to insult and/or provoke or point the finger at me while attempting to shine their own halo

Disclaimer: NONE of my posts on this thread were intentionally or otherwise directed at cati ..... except for this one, of course.

 

[cati]

laffs...pokes graceanne.... Quilty conscious..moi?..muamua right back at ya.
Yeah I can get a little passive aggressive at times. If I hurt someones feelings tho' I'm usually the first to suffer.

 

[cati]

Sinnocent1

Ok now this is getting really weird........... so folks I'm going to get out while the gettin's good. Nice talkin' with you other people.

 

[Never]

graceanne:
" Just like I object to your [insert part of my previous post] to be extremely objectionable."

So you think they should be able to collect 200 dollars? Like it will do them any good. Everyone knows Hell works on a barter system.

"No one here goes into your house and tells you what is appropriate or not"
Technically false but you had no way of knowing it.

" I guarantee that most of the world would tell you that you belong on the 'fifth level' just for coming to this site."
No, while Judism, Islam, and Christianity combined make ~54% of the world's religion, the majority of these adherents don't conceive of hell as having levels.


cati:
"Chuckling, you're kidding right?... somehere has a one track mind. I meant "doing" dirty laundry as in washing it... not fucking the damn stuff.!
...and I need to explain this???"

The lady doth protest too much.

So, which is better? Silk or velvet? There's no need to hide your wicked and decadent perversions - no one's going to judge you here.

" It's when you slam the person "personally" for having those kinks and not their opinions, when the trouble begins."

True. However, I've noticed that the majority of 'trouble' on Literotica has nothing to do with kinks or opinions but personalities. If we just got rid of personalities, this place would be much more peaceful.

" Why is it mostly women that seem to be the most vicious?"
Women are a significant majority on Lit and, lacking enough men to keep them in line, anarchy ensues. That or people are just more vicious to their own gender and it appears as though women are the most vicious because there are so many of them.

 

[chris9]

I am wondering why it is inappropriate to say that things are gross (that's an opinion, not a fact, or at least only a personal fact as opposed to a general fact, i.e. 'gross for me') on a thread about humiliation. It should have been pretty clear that many of the stated ideas are humiliating BECAUSE they are gross. (Ok, I do see that there are two ways of finding them gross, one gross and exciting, another gross and off-limit.)
I won't say that I find dirty toilet paper or vomiting on someone (or any of the other things that I don't remember anymore) gross, because apparently that's considered impolite. I don't really get why , but I don't want to insult anyone.
I do see that slamming someone because of their kink is wrong, I don't see saying that a certain kink is not your kink and giving a reason is wrong, because that would maybe include a point that's important knowledge for others who consider doing it (like safety, health hazards, prohibited by law).

I don't think the pink font debbie started out as a troll. She sure is becoming one...

 

[Joe Schmoe]

I am wondering why it is inappropriate to say that things are gross (that's an opinion, not a fact, or at least only a personal fact as opposed to a general fact, i.e. 'gross for me') on a thread about humiliation. It should have been pretty clear that many of the stated ideas are humiliating BECAUSE they are gross. (Ok, I do see that there are two ways of finding them gross, one gross and exciting, another gross and off-limit.)
I won't say that I find dirty toilet paper or vomiting on someone (or any of the other things that I don't remember anymore) gross, because apparently that's considered impolite. I don't really get why , but I don't want to insult anyone.

Saying something is gross is not inappropriate. Some of the things some of us do in this lifestyle is gross. No if, ands or buts about it. That is what trips the trigger for some. If somone wishes to indulge in the extreme and they understand the possible consequences, that is their choice and who am I or anyone else to say differently.

I do see that slamming someone because of their kink is wrong, I don't see saying that a certain kink is not your kink and giving a reason is wrong, because that would maybe include a point that's important knowledge for others who consider doing it (like safety, health hazards, prohibited by law).

Precisely. That is the reason for discussion. To have views from every angle. To share insights, experiences, ideas, facts and yes, opinions.

 

[Netzach]

Gross is essentially objective.

Personally those near and dear to me think the things I do are disgusting and it doesn't drive a wedge in our relationship, it just makes us laugh.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

If we just got rid of personalities, this place would be much more peaceful.

Perhaps, but how fucking boring, and everyone knows bored while fucking deserves a lobotomy.

... lacking enough men to keep them in line, anarchy ensues.

oh Hell no you didn't ...

BOT, after yanking Never's chain, it doesn't really matter what trigger the person possesses. Twisting that trigger in an unforeseen way (making it all the more loathsome) while flipping the individual's on switch into overdrive makes all the difference between a bowl of vanilla ice cream and Dulce de leche.

Can i get an amen for jam frenzy?

 

[Kajira Callista]

this whole thread is freakin GROSS!