Found out boyfriend is bi-curious

I took this Waverly photo in 1999, note all the pretty colors. Waverly is miles from Southwood. It was a horse farm, Dear, just look at my riding boots. My great-grandfather, Cornholio James Grant, was a bastard child born at Waverly May 1867, and left those boots behind. Most of the Ward children were dead by 1903. Waverly was sold around 1903 when Cornholio James Grant-Johnson moved to Annapolis, MD. But I got his boots.

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Southwood was the seat of George Washington Ward tho he owned the land beneath Bel Air. Southwood passed to George Taliaferro Ward who willed Southwood to son, George Randolph Ward, who died circa 1890. Southwood passed to Nannie Grant Ward then to her uncle William Seymour Ward. John Alexander Henderson bought Southwood after Ward died, and willed it to John Ward Henderson. The original Southwood burned in 1913, the fire started by Cornholio James Grant-Johnson, adopted by Nannie Grant Ward after Nan's parents died unexpectedly.

John Alexander Henderson bought the house an old general named Butler built in 1865, and lived in the house till he died about 1903. The house passed to his son John Ward Henderson, his mother was Martha Chaires Ward. JWH passed the Butler house on to a son. In the late 1930s the state bought the land beneath the Butler house (for a new supreme court building) and the Henderson heir moved the Butler house to Southwood then sold Southwood and Verdura (the Benjamin Chaires seat) to the Saint Joe Paper Company. The Butler house was remodeled to look like the original Southwood house.

I prolly made most of this up except the parts I copied from the internet.



Wow Jimmy.

Let your freak fly.
 
Finally got a toy, but it was one for me.. I am guessing he likes the benefits he is getting from me using it. :)

He seems to be unsure as what to get for him, so I ordered a catalog and he can look through it I suggested he start small to find out if he is going to enjoy it or not..
 
Finally got a toy, but it was one for me.. I am guessing he likes the benefits he is getting from me using it. :)

He seems to be unsure as what to get for him, so I ordered a catalog and he can look through it I suggested he start small to find out if he is going to enjoy it or not..

Depending on your comfort zone, you might look into a small prostate stimulator, (something that would not stretch him or cause anus pain), and learn to milk his prostate. From how you describe him, he might like that. Learning about male sexuality can be exciting for you, if you have an open mind. Sometimes life is all in how you look at it.
 
Turns out that the boyfriend is not bi curious.. he has already moved past being curious and had an encounter.
 
I happened before he got together with me, so I am dealing with it well, so far. We are talking, playing a lot more than we ever did before. I bought a toy for him, with the intention of him using it on himself. I am aware that he talks to others on his day off, and thought he would use it then, but I ended up using it on him myself.I don't think it satisfied him as well as I hoped, so we will look for something better, more to his liking. I am taking things one day at a time to see where it goes... I can handle exploring his desires between the two of us, and I am willing to share him with his "buddies" online, but that is as far as it gets. I think I have made it clear that I am not interested in bringing someone else into our bedroom.
 
I happened before he got together with me, so I am dealing with it well, so far. We are talking, playing a lot more than we ever did before. I bought a toy for him, with the intention of him using it on himself. I am aware that he talks to others on his day off, and thought he would use it then, but I ended up using it on him myself.I don't think it satisfied him as well as I hoped, so we will look for something better, more to his liking. I am taking things one day at a time to see where it goes... I can handle exploring his desires between the two of us, and I am willing to share him with his "buddies" online, but that is as far as it gets. I think I have made it clear that I am not interested in bringing someone else into our bedroom.

I'm glad you are dealing well with this, and it's good that he is honest with you instead of going behind you back.
 
I am still, so to speak, feeling my way around this, but I am trying to make him happy as best as I can. It means doing things that are a little weird to me, but when you love someone, really love them, you compromise and sacrifice to make them happy.
 
I am still, so to speak, feeling my way around this, but I am trying to make him happy as best as I can. It means doing things that are a little weird to me, but when you love someone, really love them, you compromise and sacrifice to make them happy.
that is so awesome of you. I'm speechless. you are truly a wonderful person with a huge heart. I think you are my favorite person in the world tonight.
 
You get one life, wasting a few months and even years to figure out if you can handle his wanting to mess around with other guys isn't worth it.

Decide what you want? If you want him all to yourself and he can't do that, time to part. Some relationships are meant to end, some aren't, but you both should be on the same page if mutual happiness is to occur.
 
Everyday Man, I am not wasting anything..

Tom, thank you.. I am simply doing what one does when they love another.
 
Everyday Man, I am not wasting anything..

Tom, thank you.. I am simply doing what one does when they love another.
yea, I know. I'm the same way, and it warms my heart when someone else expresses like ideals.I'm sure you will make the right choice or the choice that's best for you, which will probably be the same choice.
 
I think so.. Tonight we bought another toy, one that is more realistic, so we will see how much he enjoys it. This change has been good for our relationship, it got me out of the mundane, trying and doing new things.. As they say, variety is the spice of life..
 
I think so.. Tonight we bought another toy, one that is more realistic, so we will see how much he enjoys it. This change has been good for our relationship, it got me out of the mundane, trying and doing new things.. As they say, variety is the spice of life..

If it got you out of the mundane, that in its self is a positive step.
 
we are definitely not mundane any more :devil:

Found out though that the "jelly" toys are not made for certain places... so back we go to the toy store to buy something different.. It was hysterical there though.. the sales girl kept coming over to us and making suggestions, having no idea what exactly we were looking for. She kept handing things to me saying "In my experience this, in my experience that...." I damn near asked her if she had any experience fucking a guy up the ass.. ;) I didn't though cause I didn't want to embarrass my guy
 
we are definitely not mundane any more :devil:

Found out though that the "jelly" toys are not made for certain places... so back we go to the toy store to buy something different.. It was hysterical there though.. the sales girl kept coming over to us and making suggestions, having no idea what exactly we were looking for. She kept handing things to me saying "In my experience this, in my experience that...." I damn near asked her if she had any experience fucking a guy up the ass.. ;) I didn't though cause I didn't want to embarrass my guy
He wouldn't have been embarrassed.
 
we are definitely not mundane any more :devil:

Found out though that the "jelly" toys are not made for certain places... so back we go to the toy store to buy something different.. It was hysterical there though.. the sales girl kept coming over to us and making suggestions, having no idea what exactly we were looking for. She kept handing things to me saying "In my experience this, in my experience that...." I damn near asked her if she had any experience fucking a guy up the ass.. ;) I didn't though cause I didn't want to embarrass my guy

Actually, she probably did have experience fucking a guy in the ass, and she probably could have helped you.

Since your guy is bi-sexual, what do you think about cuckolding him?
 
Actually, she probably did have experience fucking a guy in the ass, and she probably could have helped you.

Since your guy is bi-sexual, what do you think about cuckolding him?

NO. As long as we are together, we will be faithful to each other.. I am willing to play, I don't mind him playing online, but I have no interest in anyone else.. There are a lot of things we can add to our play that will keep things spicy and exciting that don't involve anyone else..
 
buying online is also an option...or at least looking up the various toys. You can see ratings and also blurbs on the best uses, etc... Most online stores will come in discreet packaging as well as have nondescript business name on your credit card statement. Just look at their shipping policies, it's usually listed there.
 
NO. As long as we are together, we will be faithful to each other.. I am willing to play, I don't mind him playing online, but I have no interest in anyone else.. There are a lot of things we can add to our play that will keep things spicy and exciting that don't involve anyone else..

Never say never. Five years ago, you would never have dreamed your life would be as it is now. The only thing that is certain in life is change, and being so, never write in stone that which you may one day have to change. :rose:
 
Never say never. Five years ago, you would never have dreamed your life would be as it is now. The only thing that is certain in life is change, and being so, never write in stone that which you may one day have to change. :rose:

No, I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that I will not participate in anything that brings someone else into our lives. He knows and understands why I feel that way and will never try to push that on me.
 
buying online is also an option...or at least looking up the various toys. You can see ratings and also blurbs on the best uses, etc... Most online stores will come in discreet packaging as well as have nondescript business name on your credit card statement. Just look at their shipping policies, it's usually listed there.

I suggested that, I have several places that sell toys sending emails to me, he is the one who wants to go physically look at the toy before we buy it.
 
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