How do you handle rejection??

[freescorfr]

It's a bit like cash flow drying up for me. To be avoided at all costs. Therefore, I have certain accounts which I can turn to if necessary. Looks like you've some wealth in reserve here.

 

[MissTaken]

A new day, jewelz....

The sun is shining here after I finally managed to sleep well in spite of how big that bed feels to lil ole me.

A new day, to start over and make things happen!

Good Luck to you!


I am on my way to stir things up and make it a good one!

 

[rogtom_69]

Wah!?? How could any man REJECT a good woman...(Or a BAD one for that matter )

I do get that feeling (reading all the threads) that there are MANY here who would never reject you...Ah, what do you call them? Yeah, that's right...FRIENDS!!!

Hope things get better for ya...


---- Love is the one thing you cannot buy...
There are some interesting substitutes,
but the REAL thing must be freely given----

(Who said that? ...Dunno, I just made it up!)

 

[MissTaken]

Wah!?? How could any man REJECT a good woman...(Or a BAD one for that matter )

I do get that feeling (reading all the threads) that there are MANY here who would never reject you...Ah, what do you call them? Yeah, that's right...FRIENDS!!!

Hope things get better for ya...


---- Love is the one thing you cannot buy...
There are some interesting substitutes,
but the REAL thing must be freely given----

(Who said that? ...Dunno, I just made it up!)

NOw that is a sweet post! Welcome to the boards!

 

[princess4u]

can i be a charter member of the "i don't deal well with rejection" club? i am far too sensitive for my own good....but i can't help it

 

[Ohiomale]

Im soo in a funk tonight!! LOL.....I wanna play, no one is out there to play with.....and I got rejected by my own hubby tonight cuz he "has no energy for that tonight"......

Sooo tell me, what do you do if you ever get rejected especially by those closest to you?? Do you feel hurt, lonely, pissed? And having a massive masturbation session isnt gonna help me any tonight

Anyone wanna DEFUNK me???

just My random thought... see if he dont have the 'energy' set up a chair next to the bed or do it in the bed... dont be quiet or shy about it...

as he sleeps tease his body... rubbing your hands all over him... over body parts... then... if he isnt up yet... get wild next to him... playing pushing yourself towards the edge... and if he happens to wake up... if he is normal... then he will ask to join in... hehe

well atleast I know I would *laughs*

 

[MissTaken]

can i be a charter member of the "i don't deal well with rejection" club? i am far too sensitive for my own good....but i can't help it

*smiles*

Why, of course!

I can't help it either....silly me.

 

[Jewelz]

Yes. I did Thank you. Warm and fuzzy is a very good feeling.

Ohh it sure is sweetheart!!!!

ps...i cant thank you enough for being here for me last night!

 

[princess4u]

Why, of course!

I can't help it either....silly me.

hehehe - it's what makes "us"..."us"

 

[Jewelz]

Re: Re: Thanks

Anytime you need a shoulder...After reading the rest of your posts I started laughing and wondering if we are with the same partner...Or if mine has a twin out there? lol

Seriously though, I understand that feeling of "what's wrong with me?". After all, we are our own worst critics and it is times like these that it is easy to take the blame or tear ourselves apart trying to find answers. So know that it's not you. You are a beautiful, sensual, loving woman! Please don't forget that!

LOL, god for bid if mine is cloned!! nahh, he isnt THAT bad, but I know there are better.

Aww, *blush*, thank you darling for your kind words!

 

[Cherry Blossom]

I hate rejection too! And I am always so bad at managing it. I do the trembly lip and secretly crying thing sometimes, but sometimes it makes me want to snarl at him and throw things.

The best success I ever had was this one guy who would occasionally say no, and I would be very sweet and understanding and ask if he'd mind if I took care of it myself. Right then. In front of him. Worst case scenario: you end up getting off and feeling better. Best case: he can't resist helping in some way or gets carried away and discoveres he ISN'T too tired after all

 

[MissTaken]

hehehe - it's what makes "us"..."us"

As sweet as sugar and ready to melt with the first tear?


Vulnerable? Geesh! I hate that!


Of course, anyone rejecting you needs a sound spanking or a psychiatric evaluation !

 

[Jewelz]

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Hugs Jewlez,
I'm talking from experience I took many kinds of
rejection from my ex-husband for 18 years, and took way
too much of it PERSONAL , HUGS, DON'T MAKE THE SAME
MISTAKES I DID.... XOXOXO LEXY

The hard thing about it is that he IS truly a good man, wonderful father (for the most part) and cares about me and loves me endlessly. THAT is what makes it harder for me to take cuz if he loves me as much as he says he does, why does he not listen to me when i right out explain what it is i want and need?? *shrugs* I cant imagine life without him.....but there is still that part of me that wants more....the missing part. whatever that is! Hugs hon, and thanks again!

 

[Jewelz]

Re: Drops in to give Jewelz

and all you other ladies who're feeling rejected tonite hugs
*big huge hugs all around*
Any guy who's rejecting all you ladies is an idiot.

Thanks Matt, you are such a sweetheart!!

 

[Jewelz]

It's a bit like cash flow drying up for me. To be avoided at all costs. Therefore, I have certain accounts which I can turn to if necessary. Looks like you've some wealth in reserve here.

Yes, I am very fortunate to be able to come here and have this kind of warm and caring reception and understanding! Ya'll are such awesome people and it helps that I can get turned on by ya too *giggle* Ohh I would love to have a someone special on reserve here.....isnt that naughty of me? LOL

 

[Jewelz]

A new day, jewelz....

The sun is shining here after I finally managed to sleep well in spite of how big that bed feels to lil ole me.

A new day, to start over and make things happen!

Good Luck to you!


I am on my way to stir things up and make it a good one!

Hey sweetheart! Yes, a new day for us......a good one, it has to be better than last night!! It is so warm and sunny already here too! Dittos on the luck!! HUGS girlie!

 

[princess4u]

Of course, anyone rejecting you needs a sound spanking or a psychiatric evaluation

well thank you for that....now where do we sign him up for that psychiatric evaluation?????

 

[Jewelz]

Wah!?? How could any man REJECT a good woman...(Or a BAD one for that matter )

I do get that feeling (reading all the threads) that there are MANY here who would never reject you...Ah, what do you call them? Yeah, that's right...FRIENDS!!!

Hope things get better for ya...


---- Love is the one thing you cannot buy...
There are some interesting substitutes,
but the REAL thing must be freely given----

(Who said that? ...Dunno, I just made it up!)

Aww honey!!!!!! Thanks sooo much, you are so sweet! Welcome to our humble abode here at Lit! So happy to have you!! I cant stress enough how happy I am to have FRIENDS here at LIT!!

 

[Jewelz]

can i be a charter member of the "i don't deal well with rejection" club? i am far too sensitive for my own good....but i can't help it

Hate the circumstances that its under, but we are honored by your presence dear lady!!

 

[Jewelz]

Re: Re: How do you handle rejection??

just My random thought... see if he dont have the 'energy' set up a chair next to the bed or do it in the bed... dont be quiet or shy about it...

as he sleeps tease his body... rubbing your hands all over him... over body parts... then... if he isnt up yet... get wild next to him... playing pushing yourself towards the edge... and if he happens to wake up... if he is normal... then he will ask to join in... hehe

well atleast I know I would *laughs*

LOL i have been there done that and on more than one occasion did wake him UP.....but i gave up last night...i was in a pissy mood during the day (my mother in law pissed me off at lunch) ...and I just wanted to be with him, more so for him to cuddle and HOLD ME....I would have been satisfied with that. But when he gave the big, i dont want it, well...i came here!!!!! LOL

 

[Jewelz]

I hate rejection too! And I am always so bad at managing it. I do the trembly lip and secretly crying thing sometimes, but sometimes it makes me want to snarl at him and throw things.

The best success I ever had was this one guy who would occasionally say no, and I would be very sweet and understanding and ask if he'd mind if I took care of it myself. Right then. In front of him. Worst case scenario: you end up getting off and feeling better. Best case: he can't resist helping in some way or gets carried away and discoveres he ISN'T too tired after all

HUGS! I was so pissed last night that I didnt wanna give him the satisfaction of seeing me pleasure myself! lol And sometimes when this happens, I want anything but to be next to him after the rejection because it feels like he is doing it out of obligation then! Does anyone else ever feel that way?

 

[Ohiomale]

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LOL i have been there done that and on more than one occasion did wake him UP.....but i gave up last night...i was in a pissy mood during the day (my mother in law pissed me off at lunch) ...and I just wanted to be with him, more so for him to cuddle and HOLD ME....I would have been satisfied with that. But when he gave the big, i dont want it, well...i came here!!!!! LOL

sounds like he had a bad day too... it happens... I am sure its not that big of a deal... you seem like a hugable snugable kinda lady *G* one that anybody would love to just hold and caresses...

 

[Jewelz]

As sweet as sugar and ready to melt with the first tear?
Vulnerable? Geesh! I hate that!
Of course, anyone rejecting you needs a sound spanking or a psychiatric evaluation !

That is me to a "T" ! very vulnerable and sometimes naive....I always see the greatness in people and its hard when I come across the flaws cuz I wanna believe that there is more goodness then there really is....silly eh??

And I TOTALLY agree with the comment you made about Princess!!

 

[sexyspank]

Hi Jewelz How you feeling today? Better I hope with all your lovely Lit friends. I did appreciate "huge grins"




Wendy

 

[Jewelz]

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sounds like he had a bad day too... it happens... I am sure its not that big of a deal... you seem like a hugable snugable kinda lady *G* one that anybody would love to just hold and caresses... [/B]

Hindsight is 20/20 they say. He *is* working very hard and many hours and I know he was exhausted....but something is wrong with the picture when he'd rather play an RPG than snuggle with me. Well P on him!!!!!!!!!! LOL

And just for realizing that I *am* a huggable, snuggable lady....you win the boobie prize!!!!! *giggle* and I would love for someone to hold and carress me!!!!