how do you like it?

[s'lara]

Breaking it down

Stinging pain = Wake up sister, it is time to go to work.

Dull pain = you had better gather some self resolve and dip down below the thudding ... the kernel of sweetness is yet to come.

Sharp, dagger-like pain = We have gotten to the wall and He/She will break it down just for the ragged sob and offerance of anything to make it stop ... oh yes, the begging.

Same spot, hitting it over and over, burning in the bone pain = i have gotten my ticket and NASA has cleared me for launch to that airless little space.

i love them all, but that initial sting is like the first stroke of a .... well, please fill in your own blanks.

 

[le_kinklet]

It came to me as my boyfriend was spanking me with a piece of bamboo... i liked the sharp pains... but after a while of hitting the same area the pain became a dull blunt pain.... I realized i didn't like blunt pain. I had always shied away from paddles in preference for a crop or snappy / pokey type thing....

What pain tickles your fancy...?
sharp
blunt
pressure
zapping
poking
Etc....

And for the Dominant... What kind of pain do you like to give? anything just fun to use?
(i have a bull whip i like to play with, it's not proper for use on humans but i still like to snap it around at stuff)
(i'd make a poll but i'm sure there's answers i would never think of that you all could come up with..)

Good question!!! Hmmm, what pains do i like?
biting,
scratching
pussy whipping
a good solid leather whip across my arse is always a winner,
I thinks i have to agree with you though, it is the sharpness of the pain that gets me the most, once it becomes a dull and blunt, i am hinting towards something different, hehhehe!!

For my Dominant it is seing the pleasure in my face , watching me squirm, and seeing the thrill i get out of it, he is a newcomer to the lifestyle and is still under instruction, so i have alot of input into this lifestyle, but i must admit as he learns, he is slowly but surely putting me back in my sub role!!
~WaVeS~

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Oh, what a smile this one brought.

To answer the question to dominants, i'm sure we've walked the aisles/walls of an adult store and thought, "Wow, wouldn't this be fun?"

Here's the real fun.

Find an everyday use object in the house and raise its status.

she or he will never pass that object without some sense of dread/thrill again.

 

[s'lara]

Oh, what a smile this one brought.

To answer the question to dominants, i'm sure we've walked the aisles/walls of an adult store and thought, "Wow, wouldn't this be fun?"

Here's the real fun.

Find an everyday use object in the house and raise its status.

she or he will never pass that object without some sense of dread/thrill again.

Raising the status of the ordinary object is thrilling for the Dominant, but completely scintillating for the submissive/slave.
Surprise coupled with arousal because the innocent item just transformed into a device for torture/pleasure ... oh my.

lara

 

[deezire1900]

I like the sharp, kind. Like from a open palm, not from a tazer.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Raising the status of the ordinary object is thrilling for the Dominant, but completely scintillating for the submissive/slave.
Surprise coupled with arousal because the innocent item just transformed into a device for torture/pleasure ... oh my.

lara

Liked that thought did we?

And what object would produce the largest thrill? The greatest dread?

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Double Post Glitch

 

[s'lara]

Liked that thought did we?

And what object would produce the largest thrill? The greatest dread?

Good question. i will give it some thought and return.


lara

 

[Snoozebutton2]

I loved rereading this thread so much had to bring back into light. As it truly is wonderful to see the different reactions the various wicked instruments evoke. And yes using simple household items can be ever so much fun.

 

[DreamSensualist]

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[rida]

Thank you Snoozebutton2 for bringing the thread back up!

Somebody mentioned not liking ice ... I actually love it. I hate a freezing room or a cold surface, but put a piece of ice on my pinky bits and I just love it

But when it comes to pain, I do not like any per se. I only enjoy it because the one inflicting it is enjoying himself, and there is nothing that pleases me more than pleasing my PYL.

The pain I am most familiar with is the one from pegs and clamps. It starts out dull and just grows and grows and when you cannot stand it anymore, you know that the action of releasing them will be accompanied by a screaming pain.

Now my problem, as a very inexpert sub is that i am not sure which pain is which (honestly ... they all just hurt!). So, if anybody would be so kind to associate a type of pain with the causing instrument, it would be very helpful.

thank you

 

[FurryFury]

I love hot and cold. I love trying new things. I love both stinging and thudding. However, I don't consider any of those things painful. If they register as pain on my radar, I probably won't like them. Done at the right time, they register as sensation instead. That's what I adore.

So far the only things I've found that I don't like are clothespins on my nipples, real pain, and non consent anything.

 

[Snoozebutton2]

Thank you Snoozebutton2 for bringing the thread back up!

Somebody mentioned not liking ice ... I actually love it. I hate a freezing room or a cold surface, but put a piece of ice on my pinky bits and I just love it

But when it comes to pain, I do not like any per se. I only enjoy it because the one inflicting it is enjoying himself, and there is nothing that pleases me more than pleasing my PYL.

The pain I am most familiar with is the one from pegs and clamps. It starts out dull and just grows and grows and when you cannot stand it anymore, you know that the action of releasing them will be accompanied by a screaming pain.

Now my problem, as a very inexpert sub is that i am not sure which pain is which (honestly ... they all just hurt!). So, if anybody would be so kind to associate a type of pain with the causing instrument, it would be very helpful.

thank you

You're most welcome, being a giver not a taker will let those more experienced feeling answer that qustion. Though I do test all toys on myself to have a sense of what they feel like. I don't have the added emotion of wanting to please me to morph any of what I am feeling.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

I get my biggest kicks when he uses his hands. Implements seem to cause a degree of detachment in me that allows me to tolerate more pain but if we're talking about what gives me the biggest thrill, it's feeling his hands on me. Forehand, backhand, face slaps, pinches, flicks, twists... there are so many options. Oh and bites too, to feel his teeth sinking into my flesh and claiming it.

I have really delicate skin so we don't really do scratches or abrasion of any kind unless he's feeling more than usually vindictive.

As far as implements go, I prefer thuddy pain to stingy pain. I can tolerate having my ass paddled black and blue but canes and the like have me squirming and protesting in a most unsubby fashion in no time.

 

[Jades]

well, an overdose of stingy can be much. i love slapping. crushing can be good, like having my fist squished in a larger hand. pinching in moderation is good. prickly - like the bristle side of a hairbrush - is very good.

I agree. I love open handed slaps, and the bristles on a brush as well.

I have a riding crop that I got YEARS ago that really needs to be used. *sigh*

 

[myinnerslut]

i prefer thuddy..... deep hard thuds that resonate inside of me. more like being hit by something heavy and solid then something thin or sharp or whippy.

then again, ive had the lesson drummed into me, no pun intended, that i have a love hate relationship with the sharp pain as well.

and i very recently discovered that the sharp searing pain that makes me wish i still had a safeword will make me cum so hard i literally pass out.

so i guess i do like it all. huh. go figure.

 

[SubKekiLee]

I love anything that My Sir gives me.. he prefers Skin on Skin.. I like my rope flogger..... but as long as he is pleased I am pleased.... My service is to him....

 

[twysted73]

I have been told I am greedy.... perhaps I am, I want to experiance it all. Couple this with a dose of extreme emotional pain every now & then & I'm in heaven.

Greed would imply an undeserving element.
No babydoll, you have it coming alright.

Playful intentions asside, you earn what I give you through your devotion and service to me.
It's a part of my acceptance of your gift as well as yours of mine.

Be a good girl, do as you're told (with energy, ghusto and attention to detail) and I will reward accordingly.
Something of a process you already seem to grasp rather efficiently.

 

[kinkyknickers]

Not as keen on stingy things, as things that can leave bruises such as larger bats and paddles.
Same as I don't necessarily like to be tied up put in restraints, but I like my hands to be held behind my back and fucked hard or scratched, I also like to be grabbed around the throat. I like to know that the man I'm with can handle me with his own strength.
It's the only way I'll submit, I don't natural do as I'm told.