How many of you ladies actually like anal sex?

Yes, anal is an acquired taste. I tried it a few years ago with a lover who was on the small side. Lots of lubrication and lots of foreplay. It's a very different sensation and you have to be clean back there before trying it. I enjoyed it and have experienced it many times since. Hubby and I sometimes invite a friend to play and that's the main time that hubby will fuck me in the rear, as I do like double penetration.
 
I am in the middle of writing a series and I hope you guys can help me.

There are stories in Lit where the writers almost suggest there are some ladies out there who prefer anal sex to vaginal sex. While tbh in real life it either has to be my Bday or we are pretty drunk before my wife decides to give me access to her bum hole.

My question is how many of you lovely ladies actually enjoy anal and happily suggest it to your partners as compared to them begging you?

Cheers
I do not enjoy it. Have tried it enough times that I know I never will enjoy it. I have one or two friends who don’t mind it and do it fairly often for their husbands, but they don’t get real enjoyment out of it. The rest of my friends all don’t care for it or refuse to try it.
 
I do.
I can always tell when I want it, I can actually feel my ass longing for a dickin'. yeah, kinda weird, but I feel it like loosen and picture a guy behind me fucking it.
the last time was last august. I'm due for another :)
yep, I had the urge then. I was w 4 guys. I was in the bathroom undressing and showering, and the urge kept on. one of the new guys could kind of see me from where he was sitting, just my backside, glimpses of my ass.
anyway, I'm getting too wordy here. but him watching me made me so hot - the ass was tugging at me to get it there.
I had a volunteer. actually two, one would have been just fine.
lotsa lube. lotsa n lotsa.

the question I have for you guys, is what's in it for you?
 
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I do.
I can always tell when I want it, I can actually feel my ass longing for a dickin'. yeah, kinda weird, but I feel it like loosen and picture a guy behind me fucking it.
the last time was last august. I'm due for another :)
yep, I had the urge then. I was w 4 guys. I was in the bathroom undressing and showering, and the urge kept on. one of the new guys could kind of see me from where he was sitting, just my backside, glimpses of my ass.
anyway, I'm getting too wordy here. but him watching me made me so hot - the ass was tugging at me to get it there.
I had a volunteer. actually two, one would have been just fine.
lotsa lube. lotsa n lotsa.

the question I have for you guys, is what's in it for you?
So incredibly tight ... the squeeze in and feeling her muscles grip it Amazing
 
I am in the middle of writing a series and I hope you guys can help me.

There are stories in Lit where the writers almost suggest there are some ladies out there who prefer anal sex to vaginal sex. While tbh in real life it either has to be my Bday or we are pretty drunk before my wife decides to give me access to her bum hole.

My question is how many of you lovely ladies actually enjoy anal and happily suggest it to your partners as compared to them begging you?

Cheers
I quite like it 🤷🏼‍♀️ can't speak for others though I'm afraid
 
Posted this a year ago and noticed this thread was getting some replies so thought I would repost and see if it generates any comments.
(Note: have edited the original post to add some remarks from the ladies.)

Another long post . . .

I am not a woman but I see that other guys have chimed in so I will too. Have only had anal sex with three women but do have some anecdotes about the experiences.
One thing in common is that they all seemed to enjoy it and they were all vocal while it was happening, some more than others.

First wife was only a handful of times, doggy or missionary style. She liked to talk about how tight it must be for me as she rolled her nipples and stroked her clit. She would cum easily.

Second wife was a bit of an anal fiend, we did it regularly for years. Her fave position was squatting (feet flat on the bed) on my cock, cowgirl fashion, with a vibrator in her cunt. Her mouth would run away with her . . . OOOHHHH! I’ve got a big cock up my ass . . . my ass is full of cock . . . I’m so naughty with a cock in there . . .
Her orgasm was usually quick. If I hadn’t cum she would get on her back at the edge of the bed and I would hold her legs up by her ankles so I could see myself going in and out. As I approached orgasm she would say things to get me going . . . Oh, you’re getting bigger . . . you must like fucking my ass . . . blow your cum up my ass . . .

FWB was also a bit of an anal fiend, liked it doggy, on the floor, me using plaits of her long black hair as reins and was also into dirty talk more than the others . . . fuck my asshole with that big cock . . . let me feel your cum in my ass . . . fuck my ass, fuck my ass!
She was not shy about requesting it either. Once when we were talking on the phone she mentioned that our last anal session had been kinky and enjoyable for her and her period had arrived a couple days prior. I said something like “no problem, I’ll come over and slip it in your ass”. Within 20 minutes we were on the floor at her place, her mouth spouting more talk about getting fucked in the ass.

They were all good experiences! Loved the dirty talk!
 
The orgasm is RARE. And I stress on rare because it is very difficult to tick all of the right conditions at a given time.

Also, you really sound like someone who wants to make his wife enjoy it, but can't. Some women don't like anal at all. It does nothing for them. Zip. Nada. Zilch. Nothing at all. So, I think you should get used to that fact.

The best you can do is improvise your techniques and make it more comfortable for her.

I am a man, so my opinion is one sided.

My wife and I have anal sex sometimes. I never push the issue or ever ask her for it. I love it myself just because it feels so different from vaginal. I only do it if she ask/tells me to. As the husband you can talk to your S.O. about trying it but let me tell you, if she doesn't ask for it then she will not enjoy it.

I do things like "explore" with my tounge while I am going down on her or rest my thumb on her back door while she is bent over. Sometimes it open up and let my thumb slide in, other times not. NEVER do it with out reading her signs first.

I can say I have never seen my wife have an orgasm from only anal penetration. It usually has to be accompanied with something stimulating her clit at the same time or something penetrating her vagina at the same time.

I am not sure if this helps but if you want to enjoy it then she will need to enjoy it. I know that much.
 
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