How many of you ladies actually like anal sex?

[fatbabe4lyfe]

I really enjoy it when I know it’s coming!

 

[Majorbedhead]

I have been here before;

A room full of guys not speaking to each other, patiently waiting to see what walks through that door.

Eyebrows slicked back check
Gut sucked in check


Oh it's just another dude

 

[Majorbedhead]

I enjoy it on occasion, but my new husband just doesn’t seem that into it. He loved it the one time we did it, which was awhile ago and his only time. I’ve brought it up and he always seems eager when we talk about it but it’s never happened again.

If you are wanting help with solving this occasional dilemma. I'm going to have to see a picture of your ass..

Too soon?

 

[lilmissholliex]

Yep another #TeamAnal here!

 

[JessicaJ8721]

I love it with lots of lube... so slippery and naughty.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I love it with lots of lube... so slippery and naughty.

A woman after my own heart!!!!

 

[fma20fma]

hi

i like it.

 

[luckypiglive]

I am in the middle of writing a series and I hope you guys can help me.

There are stories in Lit where the writers almost suggest there are some ladies out there who prefer anal sex to vaginal sex. While tbh in real life it either has to be my Bday or we are pretty drunk before my wife decides to give me access to her bum hole.

My question is how many of you lovely ladies actually enjoy anal and happily suggest it to your partners as compared to them begging you?

Cheers

well, I am not a lady, and I can guarantee you that is not fiction that some ladies out there prefer it from vaginal sex. anal sex gives much more stronger orgasms if is done correct.

 

[Acktion]

I enjoy it on occasion, but my new husband just doesn’t seem that into it. He loved it the one time we did it, which was awhile ago and his only time. I’ve brought it up and he always seems eager when we talk about it but it’s never happened again.

That really surprises me.

If my wife offered it to me again I would be a blur running to the bedroom.

Actually, it doesn't really surprise me that much.

While I don't mind taking her ass in the slightest, I long ago figured out it's not really something I just have to have if she doesn't want it. Plenty of fun to be had with the two open holes that I don't have to be relegated to begging for something she doesn't really want to give.

Actually, I'm a pretty firmly entrenched D-type from BDSM with, perhaps, strange ideas about just what Dominance means. And it just... rankles to be put in the position of supplicant, asking for something she then has the choice of withholding. It gives her power over me, when I crave... when I need the opposite to be true.

And, yes, I realize I'm strange. I'm just trying to give some insight into a possible underlying reason.

Any road, as I say, while it wasn't bad the one and only time I asked for it, I just didn't see how it was so much greater than her mouth or pussy that I should be reduced to begging and wheedling for something that we were both supposed to enjoy or what the fuck were we doing?

So, I didn't. I didn't ask for it. Nor did I do much other than the odd rimshot while devouring her nectar or "oil check" with my thumb while taking her on her knees.

The first lover that coyly hinted she wanted "more butt stuff," kind of surprised me. A survivor of sexual assault before I even started school, I hadn't really enjoyed my experience that much and my posterior was very much a no-fly zone. And the one lover I'd asked for the experience since I'd never had it from that side hadn't seemed to either. So, I was, perhaps, a little more tentative, although I prefer to think I was cautious and considerate.

When she, quite literally, begged me, "fuck that hole, please?!" I figured she'd just watched too much porn and was trying to be sexy. But, even thinking that, it was sexy. And appealed very much to my inner Dominant that she was begging for something and it was my choice whether to give it to her or not.

Thanks to studies in college where I took classes in this shit, I knew a little more than the average punk with an internet connection and a handful of lotion. I even knew it was theoretically possible to have orgasms that way. But, I also knew that many don't. And I could understand why comparing my own experiences and the grudging response of that one lover I pressed for it from.

I was completely and totally unprepared for the strength of her reactions. And was jaded enough that it took a lot of convincing for me to buy that they were real.

I've had enough lovers all these decades later that I know that orgasms from anal intercourse are not only possible but potentially stronger than any other. And, yet, I am still firmly on the side that I will not push, nor ask, nor even hint that it might be an option with me. Until and unless she does.

And then, the inner Sadist in my soul needs to see her blush and squirm and beg for this act that is viewed as debauched and perhaps depraved by many. The harder she blushes and squirms, the harder I will become.

***shrug*** I don't know you from Eve, Sugartitties. Nor do I know a damn thing about your hubby beyond what you wrote.

But, if it's something you desire, and it's something he did with you and seemed to enjoy, but he's not taking coy hints, then try being more direct. Beg him for it as I need my lover to beg me. Use coarser language that you laugh about when pornstars say it.

Try this:

Sneak off to the other room and fit yourself with a plug.

Put on your sexiest outfit, do up your makeup and hair.

Come to where he is and without a word, drop to your knees between his legs and pull out his cock.

Start sucking.

When he is as hard as he ever is, crawl up his body while continuing to stroke, look directly in his eyes, and say;

"I love sucking on you. I love the way you fill and stretch my little pussy so good. But, tonight, baby, I want you to do all those things you do and more. Tonight, I want to feel this monster stretching my tiny little ass."

Stand up and start moving toward the bedroom, arranging to give him a peek of the plug winking between your asscheeks.

If he doesn't come running, you've got bigger issues.

Alternatively, while you are riding him in the best cowgirl style, pause the motion, lean down and bit his bottom lip, and say; "honey, I really need you to fuck my little asshole tonight." And see where that gets you.

Something I think it might be good to keep in mind is that in this day and age, the males of the species are being positively hammered to be more respectful of women, to be more considerate, to not push or just take, take, take. The problem is that the true monsters don't give a shit. It's the good ones that already were that are taking it to heart and overanalyzing any of their urges beneath a microscope. If coy hints don't get the point across, he may be thinking, "oh, but she doesn't really. She's just doing something special for me. And I'd be an asshole to take advantage of it." Override it by being direct.

Or, if you are much too shy to actually say it... a handwritten note works pretty well in my experiences too. Particularly scribbled across a picture. Or maybe a picture of the note scribbled on the part of the body...

 

[CitrineSunshine]

Have a nice day!

 

[roc23]

I love it. I can’t say I prefer it to vaginal.. but there’s times I just want fucked up the ass. It feels more primal..

Oh yeah!

Primal is good.

 

[lilmissholliex]

I love it. I can’t say I prefer it to vaginal.. but there’s times I just want fucked up the ass. It feels more primal..

Agreed.

 

[hulmule]

Being my wife is in menopause and dry. Wish somehow i could work on her to give me anal. Hates for me to touch her ass or use my tongue over the years. I can i slowly get her to like the feeling ? open up to giving me anal so i can have the great feeling of being deep inside again? Drop me a PM if you like

 

[Wonderer67]

I think the only good thing about my ex-wife was that she enjoyed anal. She did like it occasionally every few months and she had very powerful orgasms from it too.

My current wife hates anal, but is amazing in so many other ways sexually. In fact, she’s the one who’s giving me anal on occasion. And I like it.

 

[Diann_Mom]

Like but not love it!

I have had my back door entered on occasion for my hubby and even though it's not my most favorite, I do enjoy it, but don't love it. Anal sex plays the more primal part of our marriage which at times is quite thrilling. Once while walking in the woods behind our house he bent me down on a fallen tree, pulled down my shorts and force fucked my tight behind. It hurt for a minute but two minutes was all it took for him to get off so it wasn't so bad!

 

[JenniferSimms]

It can be quite pleasurable if you prepare for it. There are a lot of nerve ending in your ass! It certainly doesn't beat vaginal sex for pleasure, at least for me, but I think guys often enjoy it better, and of course half the pleasure of sex is pleasuring your partner. I can orgasm from anal sex with a lot of simultaneous stimulation of the pussy and clit.

 

[LadyJS]

My question is how many of you lovely ladies actually enjoy anal and happily suggest it to your partners as compared to them begging you?

I've had more than my fair share of anal sex in my life and I can sum it up in two words: never again.

I seem to be in the minority looking at the recent responses, but that's okay. Different strokes you know.

 

[DCO_65]

The sixties showed up late in my neck of the woods. My friends and I wanted to live like Jesus and his followers did out in the desert. (FWIW: There are contraceptive instructions in the 'Book of the Essene.') We were basically hippies, we started a commune which morphed into a successful commercial organic farm.

The idea of not getting pregnant by tricking your body into thinking that it's already pregnant-- as with hormonal birth control methods-- is pretty fucked-up if you stop and think about it. We did what we called "14s" back then. You can only get pregnant for about 24 hours after an egg releases and sperm can only live six days or so.

So the risk of pregnancy exists for only six or seven days a month. We added days because while we could reasonably guess when the egg released, no guess is perfect. So "14s" meant two weeks of vaginal sex when it was safe and two weeks of anal sex when it wasn't.

And anal sex if you weren't sure. The guys-- we are polyamorous-- have never once complained. It was less stressful and the amount of my flesh that their stimulation has to travel through for me to reach orgasm is much greater. Which means that it builds up slower, takes longer to reach critical mass, and when it finally explodes... It does so with greater intensity.

My second orgasm always comes more slowly than my first one. So, my personal preference is to be brought off quickly the first time during foreplay-- usually by fingers or oral sex-- and then to enjoy a good long intense fucking to get to number two. I enjoy vaginal sex, but I enjoy anal a little bit more because my lovers know how to really stretch it our (in time) to make it really, really good.

 

[peter49parker]

It can be quite pleasurable if you prepare for it. There are a lot of nerve ending in your ass! It certainly doesn't beat vaginal sex for pleasure, at least for me, but I think guys often enjoy it better, and of course half the pleasure of sex is pleasuring your partner. I can orgasm from anal sex with a lot of simultaneous stimulation of the pussy and clit.

My wife surprised me one night with a frank discussion about sex and what each one of us would like, or like more of. When she told me that she would like 'more' anal sex, I almost fell off the sofa. I never did find out if it was for her, self pleasure, my pleasure or mutual pleasure. Not wanting to disappoint, I quickly granted her request. P.S. Underneath the red dye and blonde streaks, she is a natural brunette.

 

[Mb0754mm]

My wife likes it. Been married now 37 years.
We don’t do it often but when we do it’s so hot and exciting.
Think the foreplay to prepare for it is her favorite part.
We did it just last night and it was just great. Hot, tight wow

 

[rescatooor]

I personally don't like the way it feels. It's like shitting in reverse. Still it makes me feel naughty, so I still have it from time to time. Usually when alcohol is involved.

I have met women who tell me that they love it, that it's their favourite. Very often it seems to have been one of the first things they ever did, sexually. I don't know if that has some psychological affect on it or if they were always more curious and comfortable about their buttholes. Maybe it's a physiological thing. Who knows; not I.

 

[jehoram]

I personally don't like the way it feels. It's like shitting in reverse. Still it makes me feel naughty, so I still have it from time to time. Usually when alcohol is involved.

I have met women who tell me that they love it, that it's their favourite. Very often it seems to have been one of the first things they ever did, sexually. I don't know if that has some psychological affect on it or if they were always more curious and comfortable about their buttholes. Maybe it's a physiological thing. Who knows; not I.

And if you're not protected, it's probably the closest thing you can get to vaginal penetration. So a virgin girl's curiosity can be somewhat satisfied without her risking pregnancy.

 

[ericalauren]

My friend recently told me that most AFAB sex workers who receive anal sex are faking their enjoyment of the act. Of course, I have no idea if that's true or not.

 

[ADevilishAngel]

My wife likes it. Been married now 37 years.
We don’t do it often but when we do it’s so hot and exciting.
Think the foreplay to prepare for it is her favorite part.
We did it just last night and it was just great. Hot, tight wow

I think the foreplay has a lot to do with the enjoyment of the act. It creates a deeper connection and for me it allows me to open up, let go and just enjoy the moment.

 

[LongDraw]

Yeah, I wrecked my wife's back door, so now it's off limits. No amount of lube could have prevented it