Why do women like anal sex?

Obviously the first time a girl is going to be apprehensive.

But when it is "successful" (I'm sorry if that is crude), what elements led to it? Flirting? Watching anal porn? Intoxicants? (Boo. I want a girl to want me and that with all her faculties.)

Ladies who have, share, please.
 
I know a girl and a woman who prefer anal over vaginal sex and I've wondered what it is that they find so appealing about it. So, those ladies out there who like a little butt action now and then....questions for ya...
Do you like it because it fills you up better than in your vagina?
Do you like it just as an alternative now and then?
Do you like the guy initiating it, or do you like to?
What's your favorite position?
Can you come with a cock in your butt?
Do you like a guy to eat your ass first (or at all?)
Highly pleasurable when done right, social taboo makes it more exciting, anal plus clitoral orgasm is intense, and of course, no pregnancy risk.
 
I know a girl and a woman who prefer anal over vaginal sex and I've wondered what it is that they find so appealing about it. So, those ladies out there who like a little butt action now and then....questions for ya...
Do you like it because it fills you up better than in your vagina?
Do you like it just as an alternative now and then?
Do you like the guy initiating it, or do you like to?
What's your favorite position?
Can you come with a cock in your butt?
Do you like a guy to eat your ass first (or at all?)
Do you like it because it fills you up better than in your vagina? - No, it just feels good
Do you like it just as an alternative now and then? - Yes, sometimes I am just in the mood for it
Do you like the guy initiating it, or do you like to? - Most of the time it has been me telling him it is an option
What's your favorite position? - Doggo
Can you come with a cock in your butt? - Not always but I have several times
Do you like a guy to eat your ass first (or at all?) - Not a make it or break it deal but it does feel great
 
When a man asks me if I like anal sex, my reply is "I dont like it, I love it, now bend over and show me that ass!" Their tone suddenly changes!

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That's awesome, I love it.
 
Any man who tries to stick a cock in my wife's ass will risk a broken cock. She was forced to take it anally in college, and it hurt like hell. Nothing bigger than a thumb goes in there now.
I get that. My first time I was too young, and the guy lied and said he'd done it loads of times blah blah.

There was no lube. it hurt like hell. He wasnt gentle at all. There was blood. it took me 3 years before I trusted a man enough to let him try. Now I enjoy it (sometimes I fucking love it) but I'm apprehensive beforehand with a new guy and make sure I'm in charge of the lube. Thankfully older guys generally are more sensitive about it.
 
I get that. My first time I was too young, and the guy lied and said he'd done it loads of times blah blah.

There was no lube. it hurt like hell. He wasnt gentle at all. There was blood. it took me 3 years before I trusted a man enough to let him try. Now I enjoy it (sometimes I fucking love it) but I'm apprehensive beforehand with a new guy and make sure I'm in charge of the lube. Thankfully older guys generally are more sensitive about it.
I'm glad you found a way to enjoy it.
 
I know a girl and a woman who prefer anal over vaginal sex and I've wondered what it is that they find so appealing about it. So, those ladies out there who like a little butt action now and then....questions for ya...
Do you like it because it fills you up better than in your vagina?
Do you like it just as an alternative now and then?
Do you like the guy initiating it, or do you like to?
What's your favorite position?
Can you come with a cock in your butt?
Do you like a guy to eat your ass first (or at all?)
Because it’s fucking amazing. It’s primal. It’s taboo. I live feeling “taken” and that he is in so much control when he fucks my ass

I don’t do it all the time but I learned that it is an absolute necessity in my relationships. I could never be with a man who doesn’t like anal.
 
I dated a woman years ago who was bi and she was also in an ongoing relationship with a woman. She told me that the woman asked her not to have vaginal intercourse to save it for her instead. I respected that as she asked me to have my way with her ass. She would allow me to finger her and eat her pussy but nothing more. I enjoyed my time with her and then eventually moved on.
 
I get that. My first time I was too young, and the guy lied and said he'd done it loads of times blah blah.

There was no lube. it hurt like hell. He wasnt gentle at all. There was blood. it took me 3 years before I trusted a man enough to let him try. Now I enjoy it (sometimes I fucking love it) but I'm apprehensive beforehand with a new guy and make sure I'm in charge of the lube. Thankfully older guys generally are more sensitive about it.
Impressive you were able to trust at all. Good for you.
 
The first time I ever had anal was on my wedding night when I gave it up to my husband. It was something we had actually talked about, that I wanted to try it and it would sort of be the final seal on me being his so to speak. He was gentle, took his time with a tremendous amount of oral, rimming and pleasuring me back there before we moved to the actual act. Even then he was patient with me. His cock is 8 inches and a bit thick, so we took our time but soon I had him in me and found myself wanting more. After a bit he was fucking my ass at a moderate pace , the initial pain given away to a kink I had often wondered about. I found myself urging him to give it to me harder at which point the excitement of it all was more than he could take, blowing his cum inside my ass, marking his territory. We were horny as fuck kids then and he fucked my ass six times that weekend.

While we have been in the swinging lifestyle, for a long time, no man has ever been in my ass other than him. Personally, I love it, but it is not an everyday thing with us of course. But when I need it..I need it. More often than not I am the one who initiates it, though he does on occasion. It can be an ultimate in submission with me, especially if I am being DP'd.

As far as position, on my hands and knees is my preference, though I have surprised him by taking his cock in my ass riding him cowgirl.

One things for sure. He knows what I want and what he's going to get if I walk out naked, holding a bottle of lube. And I don't think there are many things we have not used to lube me up back there:heart:
 
The first time I ever had anal was on my wedding night when I gave it up to my husband. It was something we had actually talked about, that I wanted to try it and it would sort of be the final seal on me being his so to speak. He was gentle, took his time with a tremendous amount of oral, rimming and pleasuring me back there before we moved to the actual act. Even then he was patient with me. His cock is 8 inches and a bit thick, so we took our time but soon I had him in me and found myself wanting more. After a bit he was fucking my ass at a moderate pace , the initial pain given away to a kink I had often wondered about. I found myself urging him to give it to me harder at which point the excitement of it all was more than he could take, blowing his cum inside my ass, marking his territory. We were horny as fuck kids then and he fucked my ass six times that weekend.

While we have been in the swinging lifestyle, for a long time, no man has ever been in my ass other than him. Personally, I love it, but it is not an everyday thing with us of course. But when I need it..I need it. More often than not I am the one who initiates it, though he does on occasion. It can be an ultimate in submission with me, especially if I am being DP'd.

As far as position, on my hands and knees is my preference, though I have surprised him by taking his cock in my ass riding him cowgirl.

One things for sure. He knows what I want and what he's going to get if I walk out naked, holding a bottle of lube. And I don't think there are many things we have not used to lube me up back there:heart:
That's really sweet/romantic that you reserve something special for him.

And it's really sexy/hot that sometimes you ask for it!
 
I know a girl and a woman who prefer anal over vaginal sex and I've wondered what it is that they find so appealing about it. So, those ladies out there who like a little butt action now and then....questions for ya...
Do you like it because it fills you up better than in your vagina?
Do you like it just as an alternative now and then?
Do you like the guy initiating it, or do you like to?
What's your favorite position?
Can you come with a cock in your butt?
Do you like a guy to eat your ass first (or at all?)
It is so naughty and thee best orgasm everrr
 
I get that. My first time I was too young, and the guy lied and said he'd done it loads of times blah blah.

There was no lube. it hurt like hell. He wasnt gentle at all. There was blood. it took me 3 years before I trusted a man enough to let him try. Now I enjoy it (sometimes I fucking love it) but I'm apprehensive beforehand with a new guy and make sure I'm in charge of the lube. Thankfully older guys generally are more sensitive about it.
How did you get over it? I've had two horrific experiences with anal (blood/shit everywhere) and it makes me never want to do anything back there.
 
The first time I ever had anal was on my wedding night when I gave it up to my husband. It was something we had actually talked about, that I wanted to try it and it would sort of be the final seal on me being his so to speak. He was gentle, took his time with a tremendous amount of oral, rimming and pleasuring me back there before we moved to the actual act. Even then he was patient with me. His cock is 8 inches and a bit thick, so we took our time but soon I had him in me and found myself wanting more. After a bit he was fucking my ass at a moderate pace , the initial pain given away to a kink I had often wondered about. I found myself urging him to give it to me harder at which point the excitement of it all was more than he could take, blowing his cum inside my ass, marking his territory. We were horny as fuck kids then and he fucked my ass six times that weekend.

While we have been in the swinging lifestyle, for a long time, no man has ever been in my ass other than him. Personally, I love it, but it is not an everyday thing with us of course. But when I need it..I need it. More often than not I am the one who initiates it, though he does on occasion. It can be an ultimate in submission with me, especially if I am being DP'd.

As far as position, on my hands and knees is my preference, though I have surprised him by taking his cock in my ass riding him cowgirl.

One things for sure. He knows what I want and what he's going to get if I walk out naked, holding a bottle of lube. And I don't think there are many things we have not used to lube me up back there:heart:
You would love my bi wife
 
Most don't. It's a myth that most do. Although I would suggest that most men would like to think most women do.
So not true. I don’t have enough fingers and toes to count for all the woman I personally know love it up their ass. Hell my fiancé one of the least sexual person I fucked likes it in her ass. In short speak for yourself.
 
'So, those ladies out there who like a little butt action now and then....questions for ya...'

'Do you like it because it fills you up better than in your vagina?'
*Not really "better," it just feels very different. It also has a nice naughty factor! 😈

'Do you like it just as an alternative now and then?'
*I wouldn't want to trade vaginal sex for anal, but anal makes a great complement to our sex life.

'Do you like the guy initiating it, or do you like to?'
*BOTH!!

'What's your favorite position?'
*Prone or doggystyle, but I like lots of positions.

'Can you come with a cock in your butt?'
*Yes, I can cum with a cock up my butt, but I don't cum FROM a cock up my butt, lol. Even with vaginal sex I usually need some additional stimulation to orgasm.

'Do you like a guy to eat your ass first (or at all?)'
*I do, yes!
 
Do you like it because it fills you up better than in your vagina?
Not because it fills better. It feels different, naughty and nice. I like the taboo feel and the reaction from Mr
Do you like it just as an alternative now and then?
Yes, when the mood takes its great
Do you like the guy initiating it, or do you like to?
I normally initiate. However. Tied down with Mr being forceful is Devine
What's your favorite position?
Doggy or on my side. Also my legs held high
Can you come with a cock in your butt?
I can orgasm yes. I will sometime play with my clit whilst he is in me. Orgasm feels different with a cock in my arse
Do you like a guy to eat your ass first (or at all?)
Again when the mood is right. Count me In
 
Curious to know if any women find it easier to accommodate a girthy dick anally than vaginally?

I'm quite girthy and after menopause my wife began finding vaginal sex uncomfortable. Thankfully, using Estrogen cream has helped considerably - at least thus far. ...As we explored solutions I had read on some (ostensibly) credible websites that after menopause SOME women might find anal sex - with lots of pre-stretching involving the use of butt plugs of increasing size - to be easier than vaginal because the tissues and muscles of the anus don't loose their elasticity. My wife takes me anally occasionally (with lot's of lube, and slowwwwww) but has thus far NOT found it easier than vaginal. ..Not even close.

Can any women attest to this? And please mention whether your'e post-menopausal.
 
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This is a great thread. I love hearing from and abt women who love anal.

My ex wife enjoyed anal. Not all the time, but she liked it and could cum really hard from it. Really amazing orgasms that would push me over the top and cum too.

My current wife and I had anal a bit early on in our marriage, but she has shut that door permanently. She has never liked it much. She likes vaginal sex plenty tho, so there’s that….
 
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