How many partners total?

Well I earned the reputation as Bonnie Does quite early on and I can remember around 8 or 9 of the guys I had full on sex with up to this point. A few more that I sucked off!! Currently spending a lot of time with one of those men and his wife. Long time close friends! 💗
 
Well, first, I'm in my late 50's, so this covers a lot of time...

I would estimate 20 different women; most all back when I was in college. I had a lot of energy to share then! :)

Gents? If you count only anal intercourse, then 1, once. If you count blowjobs, maybe 20 scattered over my many years of adulting.
 
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Does a paid massage with a happy ending count as a sex partner? I am tempted to say no but I am not sure why.
 
Over 100.

But I have been sexually active for 35 years and the only period during which I was monogamous was the first 8 years or so of my marriage. Plus we (mainly me) went through a period of sampling various types of adult clubs where it was fairly common for me to be with multiple people in one night.

Aside from those club experiences, very few were one-night stands or anonymous type sex. It is more just a steady desire for exploration and embracing friends with benefits over a lifetime of sex.

Sounds a bit like my wife. People assume a high number means she is indiscriminate, but that isn't the case at all. She has just been very open and friendly for a long time.

Three or four dudes a year leaves more than enough opportunity to get to know them and pick the ones best suited to be with an experienced woman.

I think a lot of it comes down to her demeanour. She doesn't present as promiscuous. But she does naturally encourage closeness, a non-judgmental warmth and sexual maturity.
 
I believe, at the age of 54, my count is 23, all women, but I hope to add at least a couple notches with guys before I leave this mortal coil. I remember every single one of my partners, as I've only had a single one-night-stand. Everyone else I either dated or hoped to.
 
Don't keep track. Never see the point. Just have fun. If one night stands count as partners then more then 10. Active partner that I count as FWB 5-6.
 
Genghis Khan got nothing on me! That is, if my online encounters and people who have read my stories count.

;)

Actually I’ve had less than five sex partners I’ve met with outside the Net. And only two with whom I’ve achieved orgasm. Hope to change that before I die, but I’m almost 45 and things keep looking bleaker. [sigh]
 
Over 100.

Plus we (mainly me) went through a period of sampling various types of adult clubs where it was fairly common for me to be with multiple people in one night.
This is me both in terms of number (which I know is well over 100) and also because I spent quite a bit of time attending sex parties and sex clubs and it wasn't uncommon for me to be with several different women in one evening. Add that to a good amount of girlfriends, FWBs, threesomes, swaps, one night stands, etc., and it results in a rather high BC.
 
Lying down for a nap and tried to go back through distant memories…
I’m somewhere in the neighborhood of 28…What did Springsteen say, “Tramps like us, baby, we were born to run…”
 
This is why I feel so at home on Lit. People dropping CRAZY body counts here and nobody doubts...but say you're a virgin and nobody believes you 🤣🤣🤣

I HAVE FOUND MY PEOPLE 🥰🤗💋
Wish I could find you in my area!!! ; }>
 
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