Not forgetting that I used to attend swinger parties at least once a month for nearly two and a half years x Don't like to admit the number here but a 3 figure amount x x x x
Just keep in mind that it is quality over quantity. Of course you need to sample someone to be sure of the quality so I guess we should look for a good balance.
More worldy wise sex experience than most women twice that age.....
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I don't tell my current wife either.When I am married I am monogamous, actually not entirely true I guess I was still technically married to my ex wife when I slept with a couple of ladies but the divorce was in progress. Given that my first marriage lasted twenty years and I've had a couple of other long relationships it's no wonder that my numbers are lower than many.
Only counting sexual intercourse, not mutual masturbation or playing around.
Both my ex-wife and current wife state their number is 3, and I think they're both being honest. Mine is 10, though when I thought my wife might think that too high I told her 6 (just need to remember that if she asks again
Like you, I dated a few between marriages plus had a couple of close friends with whom I had FWB relationships. I didn't go in for one night stands and actually turned down a couple of women because I knew that it wouldn't be long term (or even more than one night) - it was a bit of a surprise the number of women I met who just wanted fun without any sort of relationship. So I could have upped my number by quite a few, sometimes I think I should but I don't regret many of the decisions.I don't tell my current wife either.
Sometimes I slip through and she might say, "but I thought you and Misty just dated and never had sex", to which I grimace and have to remember to add her to the overall number.
I really wish it had only been one, but between marriages I dated in trying to find a solid relationship and was just astonished on the amount of women who just wanted one night stands. Its not my thing, and sadly admit that I was played a lot.
Now? I enjoy just being a trophy-husband!
I lost count how many woman I hooked up with on first dates. Hell most we didn’t even make it to the actual date because we went right into the sex. And most of these woman had in their dating profile they are not looking for a one night stand. They want a long term relationship. Yeah right!
Like you I lost count of the number whom said they were only looking for long term and not casual sex, but when we chatted were obviously looking for sex first and foremost.
behind dumpsters too ?
it has happened
