How often do you give and receive oral sex?

my first sexual experience with a boy was giving him a blow job. i was shocked a little when he came in my mouth and gagged on it, but with practice i learned how to swallow and enjoy it. i don't have a steady partner, but I'm pretty sure I've sucked cock at least once during every sexual interlude I've had. sucking my guy after being fucked is how i got introduced to the intoxicating taste of pussy! ;)
Very well put , the taste of Pussy is really intoxicating! Each one a bit different, but always intoxicating
 
Really? Me and the friends I have talked to always thought guys regarded it as a chore. I am shaved and always always clean. I have past experiences that tainted it for me, granted, but the main reason I don't do it with my husband pretty much ever is because even though he says he likes it, it seems like he's just saying that and I feel very uncomfortable receiving. As was it with most my friends as well. Doesn't matter how clean you are it just feels...weird and uncomfortable having something be all about you and also wondering if they mind the taste.. Doesn't matter how good it feels. Those thoughts make it a turn off for me and the few I talked to. He doesn't even try more than a few times a year (hence why I think he sees it as a chore.) and when he does I either just say no, I'd rather do you instead or let him for a little and then ask to 69 or something until he forgets about doing to me and we have reverted into either fellatio or sex without him realizing it. Bad previous partner experiences aside, and my submission fetish, I think I would actually like it if I actually believed he did.

But some guys do actually like it? Not as a chore they feel like they should have to do?

Chore....NO WAY! I love going down on my wife and would stay down there for an hour if didn't get to senstive. AnalGilr if hubby says he likes it...get ot of your own head and believe him. Go with it ...no thinking about smell or taste it's all good. :devil:
 
Chore....NO WAY! I love going down on my wife and would stay down there for an hour if didn't get to senstive. AnalGilr if hubby says he likes it...get ot of your own head and believe him. Go with it ...no thinking about smell or taste it's all good. :devil:

He's given me reason in the past to believe he didn't, but ah well. It is what it is. Trying to forget now anyway.
 
He's given me reason in the past to believe he didn't, but ah well. It is what it is. Trying to forget now anyway.

I think sometimes people don't realize how enduring their words or actions can be, and that it takes a long time to overshadow a negative word, even with many positive ones! And that applies in many areas of life, I think!
 
I think sometimes people don't realize how enduring their words or actions can be, and that it takes a long time to overshadow a negative word, even with many positive ones! And that applies in many areas of life, I think!

Absolutely. Especially someone with ocd, like me. :p I do a good job of hiding it from most people unless they know me super well, but I can't stop the things I think in my head. I never forget something negative. It just festers in my head and eats at me. :/
But I try to forget the things like this. It's so hard, but sometimes you have to try harder and find a way to let go and forget. :)
 
we are a couple that loves to give/receive oral

Guy - gets a bj at least once a week to completion not counting the other bj's he gets as I get him ready to fuck me.

Girl - sometimes I like quick licks, other times I want him licking until I cum, at least that once every week or so. just depends on mood and what we are doing.

:kiss:
 
35/f - give and receive maybe 6-12 times a year, max. wish it were more but that's my life at the moment.

Last time gave or recieved was at least 5 years ago... if it was up to me.. I would give twice day and wouldnt care how much I recieved.. Love to give oral...:cool:
 
I receive blow jobs often but they aren’t always to completion, it’s a part of foreplay or it’s because she wants to suck on my penis for a minute. I will perform oral 2-3 times a week, always to orgasm. But she can have more than on orgasm and different types of orgasms. So it too is a part of forplay.
 
Given: not as much as I'd like.

Received: more than I've given but I've met women who insist they enjoy it.

Also, impressive resurrecting a 13 year old thread lol.
 
Married male here.
My wife has an open invitation for me to give her oral upon request. Its an automatic prior to sex but she only requests it if she hasn't orgasmed during sex and after I have.

Have given the occassional BJ over the years, no reciprocation.
 
my wife got this crazy idea around new years.

She said she was going to blow me every day for seven straight days. And she did (with a break for a family illness give me really nice blowjobs each day.

She hasn’t blown me since and I have no idea why she even started this, but also not complaining.

Aside from this “spurt” she goes down on me maybe 1-2x times a month.

EDIT - she almost never blows me to completion. Just edges me)

As for me going down on her, any time I can. Last was this morning, after we fucked. She was sopping wet and I cleaned her up after our session. Probably 4-5x a month.
 
I was going down on girls even before I started fucking them. Wife and I have very seldom had sex without giving and getting. I love going down on her and she was born with a cock in her mouth. Fair is fair that's why a nice 69 as a warmup is fun
 
I was going down on girls even before I started fucking them. Wife and I have very seldom had sex without giving and getting. I love going down on her and she was born with a cock in her mouth. Fair is fair that's why a nice 69 as a warmup is fun
i miss a good 69 and sucking that clit as i feel her warm mouth take me deep... Been 20 years of more sadly
 
I give more than I receive... maybe once a week? I like giving head and I like to think I'm pretty good at it, too.

But he is a little lacking in the reciprocation. I'd say I only get it once or twice a month.
 
Lots of oral happens here. Giving and receiving. But rarely to completion, as it’s usually fore play to the main event 😉
 
I am male, and I give oral sex to my wife every time we have sex. My wife sucks my cock about once a month, which is fine.
 
And are you male or female. Hard to tell by names. :p

And do you enjoy giving/receiving?

I've had this conversation with many female friends before, so I am curious what others are doing. Lol.

(Plus there has been very little action in this room today and I am bored and in need or a distraction. :) )
Male, and I enjoy both giving and receiving. Oral sex is part of nearly every encounter, although sometimes just a minute or two before I ease my cock in. Sometimes it's much more than that, which is also amazingly hot.
 
Sadly getting either of them .Sexless marriage and wife thinks its dirty now to go down on her. Then she says my cock is to big and hurts her jaw... Guess im SOL
 
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