How often do you give and receive oral sex?

[analgirl69]

I'm male. Loving getting and receiving. I lick my girlfriend everytime she want's it. So one's a month. The problem is, that she hates giving oral. I waited four years, before she did it the first time. I only can hope for it on Birthday and Chrismas... She blowed me 3 times.
I can understand, that some man dont't like the tast of a pussy. For me, it tasted ugly at the first times, but the more you do it, the more you love it. Now, I can't get enough of giving oral.

(Sorry for my english I read better, than I write.)

Just like cum for me. Tasted horrific. But I swallowed anyway with a smile. Now I love it. (Because I, too, got used to it.)
But even still, I taste 100X milder than his cum. Lol. I taste like barely anything. Although I had to eat out a girl before... she tasted bad. It was a harsh, strong flavour. Nothing like myself. I didn't like doing it.

 

[klippert]

NOT often enough....

 

[Dumdiedum]

Just like cum for me. Tasted horrific. But I swallowed anyway with a smile. Now I love it. (Because I, too, got used to it.)
But even still, I taste 100X milder than his cum. Lol. I taste like barely anything. Although I had to eat out a girl before... she tasted bad. It was a harsh, strong flavour. Nothing like myself. I didn't like doing it.

The problem for her, is not only the taste of my cum. I don't cum in her mouth, she never tasted it. Before she does it, I have to wash my penis verry well. So the taste is not the problem.
She doesn't like giving oral because she felt humilated, if she does it. She doesn't like to have her head between my legs. On the other side, she enjoys giving handjobs. Because then she got the power over me. It's a psychological thing, I think.
Funny is, that she tasted horrific for herself. I'm never allowed to kiss her, after I licked her pussy. For me she tasted different every time. Mostly it is wonderful, but sometimes not. But I never show it. I give her head everytime she want's it, if she tasted god or not. Because it is so wonderful for her and I love it, when she cums. Furthermore, we have a long-distance relationship, so there is no time to wait until she tasted god, when she does not.

 

[69decaf69]

love going down on her

Whether there is a bj in it for me, or not, going down on her is the best part of sex. My wife used to take 2 hours or more to cum, and her favorite way was oral. I find it a way to really be close and intimate. I have only met 1 woman in my life that didn't taste good.

 

[Falion1]

Just like cum for me. Tasted horrific. But I swallowed anyway with a smile. Now I love it. (Because I, too, got used to it.)
But even still, I taste 100X milder than his cum. Lol. I taste like barely anything. Although I had to eat out a girl before... she tasted bad. It was a harsh, strong flavour. Nothing like myself. I didn't like doing it.

As I said earlier, all women taste differently from utterly fantastic, to not so good at all. Best gal I ever had, was when I was in my mid-late 20's...might have helped that I was totally intoxicated by her ( not my wife, this was before my marriage ). She tasted like honey, or sweet cream, no odor, hardly any discernible scent whatsoever, except a slight sweet fragrance...similar to what I was tasting. To be completely honest, I could have stayed between those legs, sampling that wonderful female flesh until I was just too old and grey to move. She was just plain intoxicating ( no other way to describe it ), I wonder what ever happened to her, or why I didn't keep a hold of her...I must have been just plain utterly stupid in my younger years LMAO.

If your husbands cum is that strong flavored, change his diet ( no soda, or other junk food ), and if he smokes...get him off those lousy cigarettes, they are horrendous for making anything and anyone taste and smell bad, men and women both. Pineapple juice should make him taste somewhat sweeter, some swear by it, some say it doesn't work that well at all, yet my wife would tell you that it does really work, at least to some degree. I've sampled myself, and don't think it's bad at all, in fact just the opposite. Totally stinks that her sex drive is now in the basement ( we're both in our mid-late 40's ) and mine is still flying high...sigh...which is why I am here at all I would guess.

 

[subwhore60]

I never give, and almost never receive. Wife and I are actually not into it that much. (Honest to God.)

so what do u do? missionary sex?

 

[cockstarved]

I usual give at least once a week and receive once a month if I'm lucky.

 

[analgirl69]

As I said earlier, all women taste differently from utterly fantastic, to not so good at all. Best gal I ever had, was when I was in my mid-late 20's...might have helped that I was totally intoxicated by her ( not my wife, this was before my marriage ). She tasted like honey, or sweet cream, no odor, hardly any discernible scent whatsoever, except a slight sweet fragrance...similar to what I was tasting. To be completely honest, I could have stayed between those legs, sampling that wonderful female flesh until I was just too old and grey to move. She was just plain intoxicating ( no other way to describe it ), I wonder what ever happened to her, or why I didn't keep a hold of her...I must have been just plain utterly stupid in my younger years LMAO.

If your husbands cum is that strong flavored, change his diet ( no soda, or other junk food ), and if he smokes...get him off those lousy cigarettes, they are horrendous for making anything and anyone taste and smell bad, men and women both. Pineapple juice should make him taste somewhat sweeter, some swear by it, some say it doesn't work that well at all, yet my wife would tell you that it does really work, at least to some degree. I've sampled myself, and don't think it's bad at all, in fact just the opposite. Totally stinks that her sex drive is now in the basement ( we're both in our mid-late 40's ) and mine is still flying high...sigh...which is why I am here at all I would guess.

I can't change his diet. I make 2 different meals for every time we eat because I can't eat what he does or would gain weight. Lol. He only eats meat and junk food and anything heavy calorie and fat... and refuses veggies. But he is thin and muscly because of his job.. and his ridiculous metabolism. I try to tell him it's not all about how you look- it's about what's going on inside, but meh. Deaf ears. I eat fruit and veggies...and drink water. Everything opposite of him. But as I said, I got used to the taste of his cum. And now I like it. It's his future health I am worried about. He may look good on the outside..but..

 

[analgirl69]

The problem for her, is not only the taste of my cum. I don't cum in her mouth, she never tasted it. Before she does it, I have to wash my penis verry well. So the taste is not the problem.
She doesn't like giving oral because she felt humilated, if she does it. She doesn't like to have her head between my legs. On the other side, she enjoys giving handjobs. Because then she got the power over me. It's a psychological thing, I think.
Funny is, that she tasted horrific for herself. I'm never allowed to kiss her, after I licked her pussy. For me she tasted different every time. Mostly it is wonderful, but sometimes not. But I never show it. I give her head everytime she want's it, if she tasted god or not. Because it is so wonderful for her and I love it, when she cums. Furthermore, we have a long-distance relationship, so there is no time to wait until she tasted god, when she does not.

I don't get the humiliating part. I've never understood why it is humiliating to please your partner, but ok. Yea, he rarely washes his penis before I do. It also used to bother me because he isn't circumcised (also irritated me a little that I was so meticulous and he can't be bothered.. I spend hours a day trying to look my prettiest or sexiest and smell as nice as can be all over.. but meh. Such is life for most girls..doesn't really bother me any more.) so sometimes it would be a little icky.. but as gross as it sounds, it's all gone after a few minutes anyway and it's worth it not to hurt his feeling and get over it. Now it doesn't really bug me unless it's particularly bad.. but I still won't say anything. Would just kill the mood.

 

[Leviticus59]

Didn't read the whole thread so I don't know what's been said above me.

Between my wife and I~ I get it every single time, and give it maybe half the time. It just happens to be the dynamic that has developed between us.

We were married at age 40, both after long first marriages. She told me she'd previously only given head a handful of times in her life. Welll, she was a willing student, so I taught her how to do it. She's grown to love giving head, so much so that she reports her mouth actually starts watering when the foreplay starts, anticipating her usual lengthy, enthusiastic suck job.

 

[RaynieJ]

Male, always give (every time we have sex, I think I've made her bored), never get to receive :-(

Mike

I think I have the opposite problem, Mike.

I never give, and almost never receive. Wife and I are actually not into it that much. (Honest to God.)

 

[subwhore60]

Didn't read the whole thread so I don't know what's been said above me.

Between my wife and I~ I get it every single time, and give it maybe half the time. It just happens to be the dynamic that has developed between us.

We were married at age 40, both after long first marriages. She told me she'd previously only given head a handful of times in her life. Welll, she was a willing student, so I taught her how to do it. She's grown to love giving head, so much so that she reports her mouth actually starts watering when the foreplay starts, anticipating her usual lengthy, enthusiastic suck job.

but i don't understand why you (men) wouldn't give more often especially if she's giving it all the time - what's the dynamic of it?!

 

[Falion1]

but i don't understand why you (men) wouldn't give more often especially if she's giving it all the time - what's the dynamic of it?!

Oh, I happen to agree with you 100%, I as I've posted in this thread earlier, I have a very cunning ling us problem, just no one atm to really put my focus on, in dealing with my problem LOL. Ah well...

 

[Leviticus59]

but i don't understand why you (men) wouldn't give more often especially if she's giving it all the time - what's the dynamic of it?!

Well, between the two of us that's just the way it works. I'd lick her every time if she wanted it, but she gets so worked up that as I start to slide down she'll say, "Just fuck me!" Who am I to argue?

We are close, dear friends with another couple with whom we play pretty regularly. Regarding me and the other wife, just the opposite dynamic exists. I lick her every single time, but she only sucks me less than half the time. But it all works...we have a great time together.

 

[LovelLady4Ever]

I give a hell of a lot more then I receive but today I got it and gace it...

 

[Quantified]

I am male.

Nothing gets me going more than going down on my wife. Absolutely nothing. The feel of her legs on my ears and her hips thrusting and my hands on those hips, feeling the shake. I'd say I go down on her during nine out of 10 encounters.

As for receiving, I'd rather not unless the woman knows what she's doing.

My wife? Big fan. She definitely knows what she's doing.

I've been with other gals who were just awful. Done improperly, a blowjob can be the ultimate rally-killer.

Overall advice: More lick, more kiss, less suck.

Have a nice day.

 

[Beck31]

well said.

 

[Holley]

I try to wake hubby every morning with my mouth on his cock, I rarely get him off in the early mornings, but he seems to love it

 

[LibraStud]

I want to give it a lot every day -- no regular partner though -- so I do it in my dreams and fantasies -- I want to get it too -- but that too is a fantasy now, although I know a wonderful lady who I would love to give me some long pleasure.

 

[UAlbanyGirl]

my first sexual experience with a boy was giving him a blow job. i was shocked a little when he came in my mouth and gagged on it, but with practice i learned how to swallow and enjoy it. i don't have a steady partner, but I'm pretty sure I've sucked cock at least once during every sexual interlude I've had. sucking my guy after being fucked is how i got introduced to the intoxicating taste of pussy!

 

[Tomahawk26]

but i don't understand why you (men) wouldn't give more often especially if she's giving it all the time - what's the dynamic of it?!

I think it's an error to assume, as seems to be implied, that this dynamic is owing to selfishness. . . some women just don't really care that much about oral attention for themselves. I'm one of them. I don't dislike it at all or feel uncomfortable about it; my husband loves to eat my pussy, and it's certainly nice and I'm happy to give him the opportunity, but I don't cum that way, and I hardly ever find myself sitting around thinking "Boy, I really want to be eaten out today. . . " The other night he was seriously devouring it and burying his face in it (right when I came home from roller derby practice, no less), and I loved the intensity with which he did it, but it was more about that than the sensation itself.

He on the other hand loves oral stimulation, and I am happy to oblige him with frequent blow jobs. That works for us, based on our own particular desires and interests.

 

[amofiga]

I went back and read some of the posts and am amazed that blowjobs and pussy eating aren a regular part of everyone's sexual activity. For me, sex without oral sex as foreplay and sometimes as the only event isn't hardly worth the time. I have always been a devoted lover of both giving and receiving oral sex. Having a woman cum on your face and then cumming in her mouth are truly wonderful. I could never have a long term relationship with a woman that wasn't a devout cocksucker and didn't love the taste of her own pussy on my face after I've eaten her. Don't get me wrong, fucking is great. However, for me at least, oral sex is even more intimate. When you fuck, all the action is two feet away and it's mostly just using the sense of "touch". With oral sex, you stimulate the senses of sight, sound, touch, taste, and smell all at the same time. It's totally intimate.

 

[hockeystick74]

Wife and I have sex probably 5-8 times a month and we always give each other head for foreplay.

I'm lucky enough to get another couple BJs a month too. She'll blow me as a "thank you" for doing something or a "please."

 

[Goey]

It's always part of our foreplay normally (recently we've been having sex about once or twice a day) but for just oral I probably give him a BJ every other day.

 

[bicurious19]

Everytime when the moment gets heated. Don't think I've ever passed up the chance to give oral. I do enjoy receiving, a blowjob is always nice, but if I had to choose, I'd be on my knees every time. Not a fan of 69 purely for the fact, that I cum too soon with a dick in my throat and getting sucked (male obviously, with tgirl fetish), plus it's distracting, hands on the back of your head a nice hard dick in your throat takes a bit of concentration.