How often do you give and receive oral sex?

See I am not a huge fan of 69...I like to concentrate when I am giving a blow job lol and that distracts me ;)

I completely agree with you. I love giving oral and prefer my full attention to be on my partner. I also like to be able to move, grasp, touch as I see fit during. If you are mid 69 your movements are kinda limited.
 
I completely agree with you. I love giving oral and prefer my full attention to be on my partner. I also like to be able to move, grasp, touch as I see fit during. If you are mid 69 your movements are kinda limited.



I'm a big fan of mutual sucking at the same time
 
And are you male or female. Hard to tell by names. :p
Female

And do you enjoy giving/receiving?
I prefer giving, but have no objection to receiving ;)
 
I love giving oral sex -- so she can enjoy it for a long time. My only problem is finding a willing lady -- so I haven't had any in a long time!
 
Really? Me and the friends I have talked to always thought guys regarded it as a chore. I am shaved and always always clean. I have past experiences that tainted it for me, granted, but the main reason I don't do it with my husband pretty much ever is because even though he says he likes it, it seems like he's just saying that and I feel very uncomfortable receiving. As was it with most my friends as well. Doesn't matter how clean you are it just feels...weird and uncomfortable having something be all about you and also wondering if they mind the taste.. Doesn't matter how good it feels. Those thoughts make it a turn off for me and the few I talked to. He doesn't even try more than a few times a year (hence why I think he sees it as a chore.) and when he does I either just say no, I'd rather do you instead or let him for a little and then ask to 69 or something until he forgets about doing to me and we have reverted into either fellatio or sex without him realizing it. Bad previous partner experiences aside, and my submission fetish, I think I would actually like it if I actually believed he did.

But some guys do actually like it? Not as a chore they feel like they should have to do?

Really? Are you serious? As long as a woman is fresh, and takes care of herself...I'd enjoy that pussy with my mouth and tongue everyday, until my mouth became sore, or my tongue fell right off.

Some pussy is just absolutely FANTASTIC tasting, and it's a HUGE turn-on for me for the taste, and to see the lady I'm pleasuring squirming all over. Some women just taste average, but still good and some woman don't taste very well at all. However, that last is a very SMALL minority in my experience ( before marriage ) and I think that it's either hormone related, bad hygiene or simply a bad diet, overall though, eating pussy is one of life's great things...IMHO :) You should loosen up and let your man just DO you, if he wants to and stop worrying about it...if you don't taste good...he'll be honest and let you know. Then do something to fix the issue, and let him try some other time :)

My only issue now, personally, is my wife has hit menopause, about 6 months back and my sex life has dwindled down considerably, which really kind of sucks...but it is what it is :( Sometimes I have vivid fantasies of finding a FWB, but that's most likely as far as it will go, I couldn't do that to my wife, been a great 19 years and she's great besides the lack of hormone thing, though it's tough with a high sex drive.
 
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All I can give. Love the feeling of power of getting a women to that happy place.
 
Really? Are you serious? As long as a woman is fresh, and takes care of herself...I'd enjoy that pussy with my mouth and tongue everyday, until my mouth became sore, or my tongue fell right off.

Some pussy is just absolutely FANTASTIC tasting, and it's a HUGE turn-on for me for the taste, and to see the lady I'm pleasuring squirming all over. Some women just taste average, but still good and some woman don't taste very well at all. However, that last is a very SMALL minority in my experience ( before marriage ) and I think that it's either hormone related, bad hygiene or simply a bad diet, overall though, eating pussy is one of life's great things...IMHO :) You should loosen up and let your man just DO you, if he wants to and stop worrying about it...if you don't taste good...he'll be honest and let you know. Then do something to fix the issue, and let him try some other time :)

My only issue now, personally, is my wife has hit menopause, about 6 months back and my sex life has dwindled down considerably, which really kind of sucks...but it is what it is :( Sometimes I have vivid fantasies of finding a FWB, but that's most likely as far as it will go, I couldn't do that to my wife, been a great 19 years and she's great besides the lack of hormone thing, though it's tough with a high sex drive.

I don't taste bad. (I've always tasted myself...lol.) I eat extremely healthy and like I said, bath at the very very least once a day. And I won't even let him go near there unless I've had one in the last half hour.. I just usually make sure I have one right after I make him dinner, lol, just in case. The other two people I was with liked to do it to me- I just hated when they did it (long story.) As far as he says, I taste like barely anything anyway (which from my experience seems true.. although I offer flavored lubes nonetheless. He just doesn't really use them.) So pretty sure it's not the way I taste, although if he does have a problem with it, it would be more because he isn't used to the taste. He's never been with any one else and he's barely done it to me. I've given him head more the last month (That's being generous.. maybe the last week? lol.) than I've gotten it the entire 7 years we've been together, which sums up his entire oral experience. But this does not seem unusual for the people I know. I admit, I only usually have a couple girlfriends at a time, but they have always all said the same thing- they don't particularly like it because 1) their guy never does it so, they are also convinced their guys hate it, 2) it's not the greatest because the guys do it so rarely that they never get the hang of it and it often feels uncomfortable, borderline painful and 3)because no matter how clean they are and shaven, like me, they worry that their guy doesn't like the taste of pussy regardless and shy away. I actually don't know any girls personally who say they get it pretty much ever.
Weird.
But at least he says he's going to try now..and he swears he likes it.. so I'll try to believe him. :p
 
I don't taste bad. (I've always tasted myself...lol.) I eat extremely healthy and like I said, bath at the very very least once a day. And I won't even let him go near there unless I've had one in the last half hour.. I just usually make sure I have one right after I make him dinner, lol, just in case. The other two people I was with liked to do it to me- I just hated when they did it (long story.) As far as he says, I taste like barely anything anyway (which from my experience seems true.. although I offer flavored lubes nonetheless. He just doesn't really use them.) So pretty sure it's not the way I taste, although if he does have a problem with it, it would be more because he isn't used to the taste. He's never been with any one else and he's barely done it to me. I've given him head more the last month (That's being generous.. maybe the last week? lol.) than I've gotten it the entire 7 years we've been together, which sums up his entire oral experience. But this does not seem unusual for the people I know. I admit, I only usually have a couple girlfriends at a time, but they have always all said the same thing- they don't particularly like it because 1) their guy never does it so, they are also convinced their guys hate it, 2) it's not the greatest because the guys do it so rarely that they never get the hang of it and it often feels uncomfortable, borderline painful and 3)because no matter how clean they are and shaven, like me, they worry that their guy doesn't like the taste of pussy regardless and shy away. I actually don't know any girls personally who say they get it pretty much ever.
Weird.
But at least he says he's going to try now..and he swears he likes it.. so I'll try to believe him. :p

So give me a taste
 
I 1) their guy never does it so, they are also convinced their guys hate it, 2) it's not the greatest because the guys do it so rarely that they never get the hang of it and it often feels uncomfortable, borderline painful and 3)because no matter how clean they are and shaven, like me, they worry that their guy doesn't like the taste of pussy regardless and shy away. I actually don't know any girls personally who say they get it pretty much ever.
Weird.
But at least he says he's going to try now..and he swears he likes it.. so I'll try to believe him. :p

Wow, your friends need new guys rofl, trust me there are plenty of men who feel exactly like me and love pussy and not just for screwing :) Though, that would come later :) If I we're single, I'd give you ( if you we're single ) and all of your girlfriends ( or who ever of them wanted it ) a good "heads up" awakening. But, since I'm married, such won't ever happen, but it's fun to think about lol. Hope you can relax a little more now, and let your husband have some fun down there and you as well of course! :)
 
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on average i blow him at least 3 times a week & a couple weeks ago I think he got 7 in a weekend....him on me, once every 6 to 8 weeks (approx)
 
Wow, your friends need new guys rofl, trust me there are plenty of men who feel exactly like me and love pussy and not just for screwing :) Though, that would come later :) If I we're single, I'd give you ( if you we're single ) and all of your girlfriends ( or who ever of them wanted it ) a good "heads up" awakening. But, since I'm married, such won't ever happen, but it's fun to think about lol. Hope you can relax a little more now, and let your husband have some fun down there and you as well of course! :)

Lol. :)

Maybe it's the age group? Most of the girls I know are young like me and have had virtually no other partners, same goes for their guys. Maybe it changes. Dunno. :/

I am not the kind of person to easily relax, but I will try. :p
 
I'm male. Loving getting and receiving. I lick my girlfriend everytime she want's it. So one's a month. The problem is, that she hates giving oral. I waited four years, before she did it the first time. I only can hope for it on Birthday and Chrismas... She blowed me 3 times.
I can understand, that some man dont't like the tast of a pussy. For me, it tasted ugly at the first times, but the more you do it, the more you love it. Now, I can't get enough of giving oral.

(Sorry for my english I read better, than I write.)
 
I don't taste bad. (I've always tasted myself...lol.) I eat extremely healthy and like I said, bath at the very very least once a day. And I won't even let him go near there unless I've had one in the last half hour.. I just usually make sure I have one right after I make him dinner, lol, just in case. The other two people I was with liked to do it to me- I just hated when they did it (long story.) As far as he says, I taste like barely anything anyway (which from my experience seems true.. although I offer flavored lubes nonetheless. He just doesn't really use them.) So pretty sure it's not the way I taste, although if he does have a problem with it, it would be more because he isn't used to the taste. He's never been with any one else and he's barely done it to me. I've given him head more the last month (That's being generous.. maybe the last week? lol.) than I've gotten it the entire 7 years we've been together, which sums up his entire oral experience. But this does not seem unusual for the people I know. I admit, I only usually have a couple girlfriends at a time, but they have always all said the same thing- they don't particularly like it because 1) their guy never does it so, they are also convinced their guys hate it, 2) it's not the greatest because the guys do it so rarely that they never get the hang of it and it often feels uncomfortable, borderline painful and 3)because no matter how clean they are and shaven, like me, they worry that their guy doesn't like the taste of pussy regardless and shy away. I actually don't know any girls personally who say they get it pretty much ever.
Weird.
But at least he says he's going to try now..and he swears he likes it.. so I'll try to believe him. :p


i love giving and receiving oral...i love to get my face completely wet
 
I never give, and almost never receive. Wife and I are actually not into it that much. (Honest to God.)
 
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