How should I punish?????

[FreeBloke]

The problem there, is that, in most cases, to deny her something, is to deny me!

I need to find something, not done before, that is erotic but along the lines of what we have done and do!

 

[fallon2]

After reading . .

After reading your posts I have come to several conclusions:

1) A true Master does what he does and truly does not care what others think or suggest extending to the sub.

2) His particular sub is very intelligent and if he is not aware then perhaps he should read her posts.

3) Punishment is meant often times as a learning tool and if something was done in "play" then the punishment should be appropriate to the "play" that was involved.

4) Let us know what punishment was decided.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

The problem there, is that, in most cases, to deny her something, is to deny me!

True, but it gets the point across.

Ask any submissive here

• that knows they've fucked up and
• received that punishment

their opinion of isolation.

Then again, if you're looking to public humiliate her here, have at it.

 

[Guest]

 

[rosco rathbone]

Re: Re: Re: Re: How should I punish?????

Yes, you are right, my love. You make the rules and I obey them.

I told you how very sorry I was and I will prove it you. I will grovel and take whatever punishment you see fit.

I made a mistake. I didn't know I was crossing a line, I merely said it in jest, after you said it to me. BUT, that is no excuse. If I did wrong, I did wrong, I accept that.

I am your slut and I will just accept whatever you give me, willingly, because it is what you want that matters. I am to please you, always.

Yours.

This is the grovelling that has etoile all wound up, right?

Ah, internet love.

 

[Netzach]

When someone exhorts me with the word "fuck" punishment often involves fucking, but in a way that minimizes the pleasure for the person.

In this case I'd strap one onto the girl and make her fuck some inanimate object for your entertainment.

 

[shy slave]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: How should I punish?????

This is the grovelling that has etoile all wound up, right?

Ah, internet love.

Where is etoile this is a wonderful example. Thank God free bloke is not my Master. There are times I misbehave because He enjoys a reason to cane me, but true punishment He would take AA's advice and I would know it was punshment not play. Interesting names though ~freebloke/frreegal when they are not free at all. Can I joined Cutie in being coloured 'confused?

 

[FreeBloke]

I thank you all for your input and remarks.

As someone said, the joy of BDSM and indeed most things sexual, is that you can apply the rules as you see fit.

Freegal has given herself to me in play, to do with as I wish.

And as I wish, I do her.

All input was good, but none was better than my own idea and I haven't changed my mind since I started the thread.

Punishment has been decided upon and will be administered between 12.00 and 15.00 UK time tomorrow.

Watch this space.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Count me as one who won't be watching this silliness.

This thread belongs elsewhere.

 

[FreeBloke]

Where is etoile this is a wonderful example. Thank God free bloke is not my Master. There are times I misbehave because He enjoys a reason to cane me, but true punishment He would take AA's advice and I would know it was punshment not play. Interesting names though ~freebloke/frreegal when they are not free at all. Can I joined Cutie in being coloured 'confused?

Ah you see, if I were your master, then the relationship would be different. It would be how WE want it to be.

As it is between my slut and I!

Count me as one who won't be watching this silliness.

This thread belongs elsewhere.

That's your choice.

Where's does this thread belong then???

I bet you do check back though!!!!!

 

[Kajira Callista]

it should be in the cafe. the talk section is for serious discussion. I think you can ask a moderator to move it *shrug*

 

[rosco rathbone]

it should be in the cafe. the talk section is for serious discussion. I think you can ask a moderator to move it *shrug*

^^^^^^^butt cheeks

 

[Kajira Callista]

^^^^^^^butt cheeks

where???????

 

[rosco rathbone]

where???????

Holey moley there they go again!!!


Butt cheeeeeeks!^^^^^^^^^^

 

[Kajira Callista]

Holey moley there they go again!!!


Butt cheeeeeeks!^^^^^^^^^^

*looks around* where damnit!

 

[keikotied]

I don't mean to sound rude (but I probably will). Why would you come to a forum of people you barely know to ask advice about how to punish someone you know better than any of us possibly could?

It would be one thing if you were letting the people here decide on a punishment or chose among them, but it is impossible for us to tell you how to punish your sub/slave/girl, what have you.

Part of being a Dom is knowing how to discipline your slave in ways that push her buttons (or don't if it is really punishment).

I would find being ignored very difficult, yet strangely erotic. I would definately consider it punishment (in a bad way), while I might find some of the other things mentioned here a whole lot of fun!

There are other things a Dom could do to me that would really upset me, make me evaluate my behavior, etc. A good Dom will know what they are, when to use them, and how intensely to apply them. A very good Dom will know those things, even when I don't.

Anyway, I've gone on too long. I'm off to write, "I will not make rude comments to Doms" a hundre times

Keiko

 

[FreeBloke]

I don't mean to sound rude (but I probably will). Why would you come to a forum of people you barely know to ask advice about how to punish someone you know better than any of us possibly could? ......................



Keiko

How is a Dom to learn?

How is he to become a better Dom if he doesn't milk information from every corner?

I see this area, the chat and the Cafe, as a resource of information.

I asked, to see if someone suggested a punishment that I hadn't yet thought of, that would be more suitable for my slut.

As it happened, none did, so I'm going with my own plan.

Netzach's idea was very interesting though! Unfortunately we don't have a strap-on!

It is now 06.40 here.

5 Hours and 20 minutes approx, until punishment begins.

 

[keikotied]

How is a Dom to learn?

Well, I know that if I had the choice between playing with a person or posting on a message forum, I'd find it a pretty easy choice.

Why don't you try a bunch of different things and then sit down with your sub and talk about what she was feeling.

Nothing kinkier than good ol' fashion communication.

I'm betting she can tell you more about what you want to know that the whole group of us put togther.

Everything you need to know is sitting right in front of you.

I agree, you can learn things here. But if you try to learn by asking other people how to punish your girl, I am afraid the best you're going to get is wishy-washy confused replies that are all over the map.

I learn more by reading and thinking about what people say.

Keiko

 

[heckle]

My sub, last night told me to "fuck off"!

It was meant in jest, but I had set it, in my mind, as something she should say, to her cost!

We are into mild BDSM, with obedience, ties, spankings and discipline involved. Nothing too extreme.

I already have an idea what higher level of punishment I will impose, but I am interested in any ideas others may have!

The Bloke

I have read through this thread and keep going back to the original post. If you are into "mild bdsm" and "nothing too extreme", then any punishment should be light. Too often, everyone runs acorss people with the "I am Dom, hear me rora" syndrome. If waht was said was in jest, then treat it as such. How can we (others online) even try to give advice on a proper punishment without knowing the dynamics involved and the specifics of the incident. I know that if my slave had said that to me, then I would have smacked that ass on the spot! I know others who would have slapped or washed out the offending mouth with soap. If whatever punishment you choose ends up being sexual in nature, what will be learned from it?

Just my 2 cents...

 

[keikotied]

Re: Re: How should I punish?????

I know that if my slave had said that to me, then I would have smacked that ass on the spot! I know others who would have slapped or washed out the offending mouth with soap.

Oh, soap in the mouth is nasty! But, you know, it is much better to do i immediately after the fact, subbies are bad that way. You know, kinda like puppies.

Nothing erotic about a mouthful of icky soap suds.

Spits and smacks her lips at that sense memory.

Keiko

 

[Kajira Callista]

Re: Re: Re: How should I punish?????

Oh, soap in the mouth is nasty! But, you know, it is much better to do i immediately after the fact, subbies are bad that way. You know, kinda like puppies.

Nothing erotic about a mouthful of icky soap suds.

Spits and smacks her lips at that sense memory.

Keiko

dawn dishwashing liquid BLECHHHHHHHHHHHH!

 

[Valcorie]

The problem there, is that, in most cases, to deny her something, is to deny me!

I need to find something, not done before, that is erotic but along the lines of what we have done and do!

If i may make a suggestion? Perhaps since she told you to F off then perhaps you should do just that. Masterbate in front of her, don't let her help, only watch, she can't touch herself or gain pleasure in anyway. Maybe restrain her??? It would serve to frusterate her, you would still get some satisfaction, but she won't even have the pleasure of helping you.

thank you,

val

 

[FreeBloke]

Well, I know that if I had the choice between playing with a person or posting on a message forum, I'd find it a pretty easy choice.

Why don't you try a bunch of different things and then sit down with your sub and talk about what she was feeling.

Nothing kinkier than good ol' fashion communication.

I'm betting she can tell you more about what you want to know that the whole group of us put togther.

Everything you need to know is sitting right in front of you.

I agree, you can learn things here. But if you try to learn by asking other people how to punish your girl, I am afraid the best you're going to get is wishy-washy confused replies that are all over the map.

I learn more by reading and thinking about what people say.

Keiko

D'uh!!!???

And you thought I would do WHAT, with the answers given???

 

[FreeBloke]

If i may make a suggestion? Perhaps since she told you to F off then perhaps you should do just that. Masterbate in front of her, don't let her help, only watch, she can't touch herself or gain pleasure in anyway. Maybe restrain her??? It would serve to frusterate her, you would still get some satisfaction, but she won't even have the pleasure of helping you.

thank you,

val

Thanks Val, I like that Idea.

Unfortunately, due to circumstances.........etc, the punishment didn't occur.

Sadly, the whole session didn't occur.

Postponed for another time.

 

[bridgeburner]

Far more entertaining to think about how punishment might be meted out than to ponder the intricacies of the Frees' relationship and the sincerity of their participation here.


- It's her potty mouth that got her in trouble, right? Well, what's a potty for, after all? It's also far less fun and more humilitating to drink it cold from a glass or lick it up off the floor than to take it direct from the source.

- Clothespins, bobby pins or rubber bands on the tongue and/or lips either of which can also be spanked.

- Soap or other foul tasting agents are useful -- a pile of salt on the tongue (not to be swallowed, it's ill-making) Vinegar, hot peppers, olive juice. Even a mouthful of cornstarch is rather unpleasant.



And that's all the evil-making I have in me at the moment.


-B