How should I punish?????
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An idea
Given what has been said I will be direct withmy suggestion.
Keeping in the realm of being light BDSM, I would tie her down and masturbate into a glass(see through) and place the glass just out of tounge range. You may attach a small peice of paper on the edge of the glass so she can read it that simply says, "Fuck off".
As to teach her the difference between proper jesting and improper jesting, I would make her submit to you a humorious joke every day for a month. Everyday keep track of the ones you think are funny and the ones you don't letting her know. At the end of the month giver her one good swat for each joke you didn't like.
This would be kind of a fun thing to do, and would help her to learn more about your sense of humor.
hope that is a creative suggestion.
Good luck
Given what has been said I will be direct withmy suggestion.
Keeping in the realm of being light BDSM, I would tie her down and masturbate into a glass(see through) and place the glass just out of tounge range. You may attach a small peice of paper on the edge of the glass so she can read it that simply says, "Fuck off".
As to teach her the difference between proper jesting and improper jesting, I would make her submit to you a humorious joke every day for a month. Everyday keep track of the ones you think are funny and the ones you don't letting her know. At the end of the month giver her one good swat for each joke you didn't like.
This would be kind of a fun thing to do, and would help her to learn more about your sense of humor.
hope that is a creative suggestion.
Good luck
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FreeBloke said:
You know I'm counting down the days, with a great amount of trepidation and excitement. I can't wait to find out what you have in store for me!
To all those who have slated and/or questioned our relationship and our participation here, what's that all about? I can assure you, when it comes to the scene we are very, very serious and we know how to play hard. So what if we choose to correspond on the internet? We have had many R/T (is that the correct phrase?) experiences together, with many more to come.
If there is such a thing as a perfect match in a BDSM relationship, we have found it in each other. Isn't that what most search for and hope to find? To me, that's what it's all about.
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You'll all be glad to know, (and if you're not, I don't really care) that at last, punishment was applied, today.
As further humiliation for my slut, I have instructed her to describe it here in all it's glory, once she has recovered.
The overall session was quite exhausting for her. It lasted five and a half hours and she came heavily, many times.
Heh heh heh!!!!!
(For her!) 
As further humiliation for my slut, I have instructed her to describe it here in all it's glory, once she has recovered.
The overall session was quite exhausting for her. It lasted five and a half hours and she came heavily, many times.
Heh heh heh!!!!!
(For her!) 
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FreeBloke said:It lasted five and a half hours and she came heavily, many times.
Heh heh heh!!!!!
Please don't throw me into the briar patch Brer Dominate.
FreeGal
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FreeBloke said:You'll all be glad to know, (and if you're not, I don't really care) that at last, punishment was applied, today.
As further humiliation for my slut, I have instructed her to describe it here in all it's glory, once she has recovered.
The overall session was quite exhausting for her. It lasted five and a half hours and she came heavily, many times.
Heh heh heh!!!!!
Fuck, did I ever? Oops, that word again.
And, yes, humiliation is the word, but hey, I always do as I'm told.
Well, I will attempt to put it into words, but conveying the intensity of the whole session and the build up to the massive climax of the punishment ain't gonna be easy!
Ok, first a little background about myself. I am quite a new sub, not in the respect that I have only recently realised that I am submissive, but in that, with FreeBloke, over the past year or so I have only begun to learn about myself and my boundaries and so on. Nobody else has made me want to submit to them and serve them as I do him.
Why some feel the need to either rip shreds out of me or make fun of me, I don't know. But, I do have a wonderful Dom and that's all that matters to me.
When I first told him to "fuck off" I was doing it in complete jest, as a reply to him, who had just said the exact same thing to me. I thought he'd laugh it off. Little did I know. I live and learn.
The way he reacted did shock me, but then I thought about it some more and realised he was playing. By playing I don't mean winding me up and messing about, I mean in role, as my Dom. He was buidling up to an amazing session. This particular session was due to happen some four weeks ago, but because of circumstances it didn't happen. The wait was agony and I think that really added to my nerves and fear yesterday.
I completely trust FreeBloke, so it wasn't fear of anything bad, but more what he'd put me through mentally more than physically.
I learnt a lot and grew a lot yesterday. I learnt to have faith in myself, as well as him, and to not have any kind of expectations about anything.
The actual punishment was not what I was expecting and during the day the build up to it had been very intense, humiliating and exhausting.
Before I go on I must just add that our definition of mild BDSM might not be what others consider mild. It does involve me wearing a collar during our sessions and completely submitting him. During such sessions it could be said that we are Master and slave. In fact, if labels must be attached to us, that is what we are to each other. For five and a half hours yesterday I served him in any way he saw fit. He was in complete control the whole time and I followed his every instruction, from the humiliation of being ordered to bathe in front of him, while he stood in the bathroom, fully clothed, telling me where I had to wash - he had instructed me not to bathe that morning, then proceeded to call me a filthy slut for not bathing. Incredibly humiliating, but in hindsight a hell of a rush.
Before things had even got started he asked me to make him a cup of tea. I made the big mistake of also making one for myself, which he promptly ordered me to tip down the sink. I did so, then went back into the living room to find him sitting in a chair. He ordered me over his knee, then gave me a very sound spanking for not following his instructions to the letter.
The final big humiliation of yesterday was being ordered to stand in the hallway, near the front door, with my skirt up, my knickers around my knees and my basque down, revealing my tits (I was wearing all black - a g-string, very short skirt, a basque with a silver chain from the front to the back, black knee high boots and my red collar). The front door is half glazed with patterned glass. It isn't easy to see through, but it is possible to make out what is in the hallway from the outside, with the right light and so on. He'd timed it just right. No sooner had he got me in position than the postman came into my road on his bike. My house is always the last to be delivered to, so I stood there for a few minutes, quite petrified that I'd be seen. The whole time FreeBloke was relishing in my discomfort. I was quite surprised at my own disappointment when I didn't have any post yesterday! I know I have got an exhibistionist streak in me, but I didn't realise how turned on I'd be by that kind of experience.
The next thing was me being on my knees before FreeBloke and giving him a blow job, bringing him to orgasm, when he came all over my face. Some of it went onto the chair he'd pushed the side of my face into - I was then ordered to lick up every drop. I loved doing that!
Bear with me, I'll get to the major punishment soon! The next 4 hours consisted of me being dragged around the house by my collar and ferociously fucked anywhere and everywhere and also being told to suck him in almost every place, too. I have a red line across the top of my thighs from being pounded into the dining table, bruises across my stomach from being fucked over the washing machine and also a slightly swollen and tender forhead forehead from being banged into the kitchen worktop. I don't think he meant me to have quite so many after effects, but he certainly did mean to leave some marks on me. I'm not complaining! I really don't know how many times I came yesterday, but on several ocassions he fucked me until I collapsed onto the floor. I almost passed out a couple of times.
After fucking me on the stairs, the bathroom and toilet he finally led me into the bedroom. He'd already instructed me to have my butt plug and lube out ready for him. They were on the side, next to my bed. I must say here that he remained fully clothed all day. I had wondered why, but just presumed that it was another way of him asserting his dominance over me. I found out the main reason towards the end of the session.
He ordered me onto the bed on my hands and knees. He spanked me a little, before feeling me and inserting fingers into my pussy, then, after getting me to wet one finger from his other hand with my mouth he pushed that into my ass. He fucked me this way for a while, with two fingers in my pussy and one in my ass, until I was thrashing in ecstasy again. Then he lubed up the butt plug and used that on me, which did feel incredible. After a while I sensed him stand up straight. He removed the butt plug, then I heard the jingle of his belt buckle. I turned slightly, so that I could see a little of what he was doing.
He quickly removed his belt, pulling it aggressively from the loops in his jeans, asking me if I thought he’d really forgotten about the punishment? I shook my head – I knew he wouldn’t have forgotten. He then doubled the belt over in one hand and proceeded to beat my ass with it. This is where things went a bit weird for me. I have to admit that I lost the plot.
I was not expecting that as the punishment, at all. I’d imagined him making me stand in a corner or something similar – being ignored. He’d never taken his belt to me before, but has spanked me many times, with his open hand. It wasn’t the pain that got to me, or even what he was saying to me as he hit me (thinks like, “This is for being an insolent bitch.”), I’m not even sure why I ended up in the state I did. I really did feel as if I was being quite sternly reprimanded and didn’t see the bigger picture, at the time. It was all part of the play, but unfortunately, because of the way I reacted to the belt, he wasn’t able to see it all through.
I was crying uncontrollably – I’d even forgotten about the safe word, which, had I used, things might have turned out differently. I don’t know. This is the thing, I do like it when he makes me cry and he knows that, which is probably why he didn’t think much of the way I was initially. He then stopped hitting me with the belt and fucked me in the pussy for a while. I was still crying and not enjoying it at all. He then proceeded to try and fuck me up the ass – which was to be the big finish to the whole session, but I had completely tensed up by that time and he realised something was very wrong with me. He stopped and came around and sat on the bed next to me and stroked my face, asking if I was ok. I just got up from the bed and rushed out of the room, telling him I needed to clean up. I wanted to wash my face and try and calm myself down – I was pretty embarrassed about the way I was.
When I went back into the room he was great. We laid down on the bed the together and he held me, while we talked a little. I feel very stupid now and have been beating myself up about it quite a bit. I realise now that I should just go with it and trust him and, more importantly, myself. There have been a few times in the past where he has done things to me, or made me do things, which I have not enjoyed at all, at the time, but upon later reflection my memory of the incidents is quite amazing and a huge rush for me. It is the same for me now, thinking about yesterday. I just wish that I’d allowed him to carry it through in its entirety. That, in itself, is an even bigger punishment for me, as I did myself out of a major ass fucking – something which I love. Yes, I am a daft cow!!!
Anyway, as I said, I learnt a lot yesterday and I also have to learn to accept that things don’t always go smoothly. We have talked a lot since yesterday and he has been great and very understanding about it all. It was an awesome day, despite how I reacted at the end.
He has definitely dealt out his punishment now, in a big way, and we are going to move on from this. I must just add that he is a wonderful man and I love him deeply. That isn’t meant as grovelling, I am being sincere, as always.
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Maximumtest
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Hi FreeGal, that was most enlightening to read, do you wish the Postie had showed up?
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bridgeburner said:
<shuddering> you're evil......
<sorry; really needed to say that>
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Maximumtest said:
Hi Max!
Yes, I do wish the postie had shown up. My heart was pounding at the time, but then I was disappointed that he just went past my house. I know FreeBloke was also disappointed, but we have had a laugh about the fact that every day since I have had post. Typical.
Thanks for your comment, btw.
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FreeBloke said:Many thanks all for your comments and replies. She has indeed written it well, hasn't she??
It was indeed an awesome session, one of the best, even though it didn't end as we'd anticipated.
Thank you, my love!
Yes, it was one of the best, for a variety of reasons.
Yours,
