How should I punish?????
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pandoravampire
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question on what punishment?
What punishment you should use? As you did not get any other ideas better than your own (groan!!!) then your running out of time to come up with some formulation of your masterly plan.
I too see the irony in the word 'free'. Must make things pretty complicated to be misusing english. But hey? each to his own whacked up forms of communications.
Personally, i shall relish coming back here and reading the idea for punishment that was 'better than anyone elses'. Me thinks youve shot yourself in the foot there.
Your enthusiasm for being Her dom is commendable.
you are obviously a consenting Sub/dom relationship, so all is well.
May i say, you do sound mischievious and childlike, wonderful qualities in my book. Just not what i imagine in a Dom/me.
What punishment you should use? As you did not get any other ideas better than your own (groan!!!) then your running out of time to come up with some formulation of your masterly plan.
I too see the irony in the word 'free'. Must make things pretty complicated to be misusing english. But hey? each to his own whacked up forms of communications.
Personally, i shall relish coming back here and reading the idea for punishment that was 'better than anyone elses'. Me thinks youve shot yourself in the foot there.
Your enthusiasm for being Her dom is commendable.
you are obviously a consenting Sub/dom relationship, so all is well.
May i say, you do sound mischievious and childlike, wonderful qualities in my book. Just not what i imagine in a Dom/me.
FreeGal
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Re: question on what punishment?
Hi Pandoravampire,
Please read the rest of the thread. The actual punishment happened weeks ago.
And, no, I don't think I'd have myself a "childish" Dom. I require a strong, assertive and powerful man, and that is exactly what I have in FreeBloke. He just knows how to have a good laugh, another priceless quality, in my book.
As for our screen names, not that it's any of your business really, but perhaps it's taken from our R/L name?
Just a thought.
Anyway, thanks so much for your input, always much appreciated when it is in the spirit of things.
pandoravampire said:
Hi Pandoravampire,
Please read the rest of the thread. The actual punishment happened weeks ago.
And, no, I don't think I'd have myself a "childish" Dom. I require a strong, assertive and powerful man, and that is exactly what I have in FreeBloke. He just knows how to have a good laugh, another priceless quality, in my book.
As for our screen names, not that it's any of your business really, but perhaps it's taken from our R/L name?
Just a thought.
Anyway, thanks so much for your input, always much appreciated when it is in the spirit of things.
pandoravampire
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Oops, the page with punishment was missed, but have now read it.
Freegirl, i look forward to reading your story, and many more too i hope.
Im glad you got what you wanted. I hope that both of you can work on what happened when you lost the plot, and how that can be maximised on.
Personally speaking, there seems a little lack of control that would scare the shit out of me. But you trust him implicitly you'd said, so for you, never were you in boubt that he was in control, and that knowledge is reassuring.
I have found that play that does not go as planned, has many lessons to be gained from this. The trick is to be able to elicit the nuances that turned it and use the insights to both of your futures enjoyment of each other.
And now, i shall just revisit the library and research again what 'light bdsm is' coz this sounds pretty full on to me
Freegirl, i look forward to reading your story, and many more too i hope.
Im glad you got what you wanted. I hope that both of you can work on what happened when you lost the plot, and how that can be maximised on.
Personally speaking, there seems a little lack of control that would scare the shit out of me. But you trust him implicitly you'd said, so for you, never were you in boubt that he was in control, and that knowledge is reassuring.
I have found that play that does not go as planned, has many lessons to be gained from this. The trick is to be able to elicit the nuances that turned it and use the insights to both of your futures enjoyment of each other.
And now, i shall just revisit the library and research again what 'light bdsm is' coz this sounds pretty full on to me
FreeGal
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pandoravampire said:Oops, the page with punishment was missed, but have now read it.
Freegirl, i look forward to reading your story, and many more too i hope.
Im glad you got what you wanted. I hope that both of you can work on what happened when you lost the plot, and how that can be maximised on.
Personally speaking, there seems a little lack of control that would scare the shit out of me. But you trust him implicitly you'd said, so for you, never were you in boubt that he was in control, and that knowledge is reassuring.
I have found that play that does not go as planned, has many lessons to be gained from this. The trick is to be able to elicit the nuances that turned it and use the insights to both of your futures enjoyment of each other.
And now, i shall just revisit the library and research again what 'light bdsm is' coz this sounds pretty full on to me
Thank you so much, Pandorvampire, and I apologise for going off on you like I did. Rest assured, I have been told by FreeBloke that I will be soundly spanked for "gobbing off in the threads".
You are right, it isn't mild BDSM. Our relationship seems to have moved on quite a lot from our early sessions. We have both pushed our boundries and found out how much we love it. New experiences all the time. It is a LOT of fun!
And, yes, at no point does he ever lose control. He is a very controlled person and he knows exactly what he's doing. I do trust him, completely.
Thanks, again.
FreeBloke
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pandoravampire said:Oops, the page with punishment was missed, but have now read it....................................
...........................And now, i shall just revisit the library and research again what 'light bdsm is' coz this sounds pretty full on to me
You may well be right P, we are/were pretty new to the BDSM scene, and are learning about our boundaries all the time.
Neither of us has had any prior experience and alas we are not in such a situation as to learn from anyone but ourselves.
So we take it steadily, call it mild, although we probably are verging on heavy, and have fun doing what we do!
And rest assured, she will indeed receive a sound spanking for letting her mouth run off at you!
That will be fun too!
