How you became bisexual

I was recently divorced. My crossdressing had been put away for several years and it came back with the empty house, initially with all the stuff my ex had left in the house and then I bought more of course. She had also left a vibrator and a realistic dildo and I had never played with or explored those things up to that point, but I somehow went down that rabbit hole too. My stories share some of my experiences, but the summary is that I was discovered by an older gentleman rather innocently. He got a glimpse of my thong one day. He was rather forward about it and I, for some reason, shared openly. Over time, he gave me a safe space to explore my feminine side and he became my lover for a couple of amazing years. Before that, even when dressed and playing with toys, clearly fantasizing, I would have said that I wasn't bi or anything but straight. But he helped me clarify that I was at least bi.
I suspect there are many here that would love to hear some, ok all, of your stories in detail. The summary just leaves us wanting more!
 
Would love to hear from others on how they became bisexual. I was straight (or thought I was) until my early sixties. I always had difficulty in maintaining an erection and ejaculating during intercourse and had to assist with my hand. When computer porn became widespread I was extremely excited watching trans porn, especially trans fucking guys. Maybe this was a tell tale sign.
I started visiting adult bookstores with gloryholes and progressed from voyeur, to having my dick sucked, to sucking cock myself, to swallowing cum, then to intercouse through the gloryhole and eventually at my home.
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i love watching my husband being fucked
 
I started to think about what it would be like to have sex with another guy who n my 20’s.
I finally had my first sex with a male escort in my 30’s.
It wasn’t until I was in my 40’s that a first confided with a friend of mine that I was bi.
He was gay and one evening while we were having a beer I told him I was bi and that I had been thinking about what I would be like if we were to have sex.
This would be very different to any of my previous experiences as this would be like making love to someone I knew and liked.
My confession got him very excited and we went back to his flat after we’d finished our drinks.
As soon as the door to his flat closed behind us he turned to me and we started kissing.
He led me to the bedroom as we were rapidly discarding our clothes. When I saw his cock for the first time I got on my knees and took it in my mouth and began to suck him.
His cock was about the same length as mine but with much more girth.
After a while of kissing sucking and rimming each other I asked him if he would fuck me.
He said he was normally a bottom but as I’d come out to him he would be happy to oblige.
I lay on my back and he started to prepare my arse. First with hi tongue and the he applied some lube and started penetrating me with his fingers.
By the time I was able to take 3 of his fingers he asked me if I was ready.
He positioned himself on to of me with my legs resting on his biceps and my arse upwards. He positioned his cockhead at my entrance and leaned forward to kiss me has the pressure of his cock slowly pushed into me.
As I mentioned his cock was very wide and as he penetrated me it started to sting as he stretched my hole. He was very considerate and went very slowly with a rhythm that each time he pushed a little more of his cock entered me. Until eventually he was all the way is up to his balls.
We lay there for a while and kissed while I got used to having him inside me.
Once he started to fuck me properly I was in heaven. The sensation was out of this world and he was soon fucking me with fury.
I came without touching my cock from the stimulation my prostate was getting and when he came in my arse and pulled out of me I loved the feeling as his cum dribbled out of me. This also being the first time bareback.
We cleaned up and showered and I made my was home back to my wife with a big smile on my face.
This was the first of many sessions with him. With me mostly fucking him.
 
I started experimenting with one of my best friends before our Freshman year of college. It was new for both of us. He was interested, I was interested. A little liquid courage was involved, and we enjoyed some porn together and messed around. Almost 20 years later and we still have fun together on occasion.
 
Where I grew up, at that time was very rural... my neighborhood friend and I used to do a lot of hiking and fishing during the summer...with older siblings we eventually found their playboys and penthouse. these became our excuse to hike and find very secluded spots. this brought on; looking at the images and rubbing our cock, to pulling them out, eventually being naked from the waist down looking at the magazines.
we would stand next to each other an look flip through... eventually peeing and crossing the streams.. to the point of sword fighting... our cocks touching.
When it all changed.. is when his much older sister graduated college and moved a bunch of her stuff home.. What's a kid to do...snoop. he found a cpl of porn mags that weren't he usual suspects. One was folded in half and didn't have a cover. As we flipped through the images were of sexy women. Its when we reached the center... the models were two men and a woman.. cpl pages then the world flipped upside down. the sex went from MFM to MM and the woman watching... oral, rimming, balls sucking. The she was back in the middle, eventually one guy was fucking her as he was getting fuck... we flipped back in forth...eventually he asked..."Do you want to try it"
As the summer went on ... we played as much as we could... you have to understand... it was bikini season too... and I couldn't take my eyes off of that eye candy either. Theirs more to this, but, this is how it all began for me... One friend and one Bi sex magazine
 
I’ve described my bisexual waking on other threads but I contribute a condensed version here. I became sexually active early, very early and quickly evolved into a heterosexual adventurous. Although I married a wonderful girl I have never practiced monogamy. Through pure coincidence I maneuvered myself into a threesome with an older couple. She was a nympho orgasm goddess. I was on the bottom side of a 69 position with her while her husband was behind her on his knees railing her cunt with all his energy. She exploded in a massive squirting orgasm and fell forward onto my legs. His cock was hanging above me dripping with her nectar. It looked real tasty so I took it in my mouth and began to suck it. He yelled ‘Suck it you faggot Suck it!” So naturally I complied, and took a huge load that I promptly swallowed. She moaned, “I thought you said you didn’t do gay.” All I could reply was I guess I do now. That opened the floodgates for me. I found that I have an equal affinity for both cock and cunt. I don’t desire to kiss, and cuddle a man as much as I enjoy doing it with ladies. But I enjoy all forms of cock and ass play. I don’t overthink the hetero/homo/bi orientation issue. I let others get themselves twisted in that brain warp. I just relish being a happy and committed hedonist.
 
She had also left a vibrator and a realistic dildo and I had never played with or explored those things up to that point, but I somehow went down that rabbit hole too.
Or up the rabbit hole, as the case may be...
... even when dressed and playing with toys, clearly fantasizing, I would have said that I wasn't bi or anything but straight.
I lived in this world of cognitive dissonance for decades. The tension between my exterior ”reality” and my inner one did much damage, not only to my psyche, but to everyone around me. In glad you met someone who helped you get in touch with yourself.
 
I think I always have been. I remember reading smutty stories when I was much younger and loved imagining how sex would be for both male and femal characters in the stories. As I got older I dated girls because it was expected of me, but I also admired the guys in the changing rooms. I never acted on things then for fear of being beaten to a pulp, but curiosity grew.

I primarily dated girls as I beceme independent, but occasionaly hooked up with the odd guy here and there, it was like there was something missing, but I couldnt realy put my finger on it. I knew that wasn't totally gay as I loved being with girls, but I also liked guys too. Then I discovered that you could be both. :heart:
 
I have been as long as I have been interested in anything sexual. There was lots of experimenting, but I have always preferred sex with women. That said, cocks and gay sex make me cum very hard. Gay/bi/trans is my preferred porn.
 
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