Hyper sexuality and ADHD

[trinething1ns]

I have ADHD and very much have the hypersexuality. Most days I simply can’t get enough and can’t stop thinking about it, it’s actually kind of a problem and can really disrupt my day!

Right?? I really struggle with being able to concentrate at work some days, even if I give myself a release or two before I start my work day. I just can’t think about anything else.

 

[Hypnobitch01]

Right?? I really struggle with being able to concentrate at work some days, even if I give myself a release or two before I start my work day. I just can’t think about anything else.

No I so relate! It’s not about needing to orgasm, it’s just like my brain is set to sex mode and can only be triggered and turned off by some unseen force I don’t entirely understand lmao

 

[MindYaBitness]

Diagnosed "profoundly" ADHD, plus I've got an insane hormone cocktail. It's like nature's Viagra.

Just do your best to understand yourself, and your bodies natural chemistry.

ADHD causes a very low tolerance for boredom, as your brain is constantly chasing dopamine, seaking the next novel, risky, or intriguing thing so you get that Dopamine hit you're looking for. Regular, bland, 30 second pump & snore sex loses its luster immediately. There is nothing more abhorrent than routine intimacy to most ADHD folks.

As a person chained to neuro-typical partner, whom I love but am very bored by, I'm grateful for this place. It's been a nice outlet.

 

[SavannaT]

Accurate, I was diagnosed with this and have spent waaay too much time hitting the slo-mo button on movies to see actors cocks while most of my friends were watching rom-coms.

 

[trinething1ns]

Some days I will be working and then all the sudden it hits me and I NEED to get on here or watch some porn or just masturbate, but it’s usually a temporary distraction.

It feels like a train and someone else is randomly switching the train to the side rails. My brain is like “work work work SEX SEX work work SEX SEX SEX OMG SEX SEX SEX”

 

[Justfantasies]

I have ADHD and very much have the hypersexuality. Most days I simply can’t get enough and can’t stop thinking about it, it’s actually kind of a problem and can really disrupt my day!

I am a highly functional ADHD sufferer Actually sufferer is the wrong word because it has been the secret of my success in some ways but I am perpetually lost in a world of sex and sexual fantasy

 

[Justfantasies]

Exactly. The “unseen force” is a perfect description. Im insatiable for weeks on end, no matter how many times I cum. It’s interesting for me too because I feel like my ADHD sex drive is acutely focused on masturbation. Any one else find that when you’re in an ADHD driven hyper sexual haze you just crave feeling your hands on your body and masturbating with other people?

Yes I masturbate four or five times a day, but thinking of fantasies

 

[subbyclarajane]

Am both. And am also hyper creative. I’m also a sub-switch, meaning I’ll domme as an act of service and I take it very seriously. It’s been a challenge, because I’m too adventurous for my partners and too insatiable. Until I found a hyper creative ADHD nymphomaniac of my very own.

10/10, would recommend.

 

[subbyclarajane]

Oooo say more about your equally insatiable nympho! That sounds perfect.

Heh, yeeeeeah she’s my fucking soulmate. It’s LDR, because we both have local responsibilities, but we meet every so often and fuck from the moment the door opens until we have to leave. Then we both WFH, so all day long we masturbate and send each other photos and videos and teases and we are incapable of having a conversation that doesn’t turn dirty, and if you think that’s not romantic, you are soooo wrong. We both take turns producing content to get the other off, and we’ve gotten… reeeeeaaaaal creative about it. My tits and asshole have never been so abused, my body so bruised, as they are for a person that’s not even in the room 99% of the time.

 

[SapitoHipo]

I'm extremely hypersexual.. Mine got intense when i became a widow. Using my body for pleasure was and is an escape from the grief.

I think about sex acts, men, women.. All day..

I'm a 50 year old menopausal woman.. But i still feel 35!!!

I believe i have ADD also.

Do you live anywhere near PDX?

 

[CuriousTxGuy]

Heh, yeeeeeah she’s my fucking soulmate. It’s LDR, because we both have local responsibilities, but we meet every so often and fuck from the moment the door opens until we have to leave. Then we both WFH, so all day long we masturbate and send each other photos and videos and teases and we are incapable of having a conversation that doesn’t turn dirty, and if you think that’s not romantic, you are soooo wrong. We both take turns producing content to get the other off, and we’ve gotten… reeeeeaaaaal creative about it. My tits and asshole have never been so abused, my body so bruised, as they are for a person that’s not even in the room 99% of the time.

I also admit I am fucking nuts, and I absolutely love fucking nuts.

 

[subbyclarajane]

I also admit I am fucking nuts, and I absolutely love fucking nuts.

Heh heh, cute.

 

[scribe66]

Hypersexuality, ADHD and sexual addiction. There seem to be a number of parallels.
The all consuming need for sexual stimulation with little to no regard for consequences.

I can analyze it, understand the why’s and reasons I succumb to those needs.
Yet….
I still fall prey to them more often than not.

 

[Edgeallday78]

I definitely have it my hyper sexual tendencies keep me edging all day. I was learned young that it felt real good cum and it consumed me when I needed that dopamine hit. As I got older my taste widened and the more taboo the better for making my brain focus.

 

[Edgeallday78]

Mainly I just accept my needs! I guess the best way I can explain it as it’s more than masturbation and or for me, it’s the entire process of knowing what I desire etc., acting on my wants and knowing I am in my own skin and trying to find other and like minded people to take this journey with.

Finding like minded individuals has always been my struggle

 

[Wanking_Frank]

I'm getting tested for ADHD and autism in January.

I probably was hypersexual at one time but my wife was far from that, and after our first child she turned pretty much asexual. I should not have married this person. Before we were married she was at least somewhat promiscuous but it just kept getting worse and worse. I finally split from her 5 years ago.

I masturbated probably every single day, maybe multiple times a day and I think it ruined much chance of ever having a normal sex life again. Now I still masturbate a lot but that is exclusively solo and any sex acts with others is mostly just me sucking cock.

I don't think many women want to be with someone with such a lack of sexual experience. I haven't had much luck dating, there are reasons for that. I relate well to women but not in a very seductive way and I think when I get diagnosed with autism that may explain a lot. I'm trying to date neurodivergent women but it's been hard finding matches.

 

[CuriousTxGuy]

Heh heh, cute.

There are two options: Analyze the whole matter, or suck and fuck your brains out with others on the same wavelength.

 

[CuriousTxGuy]

Accurate, I was diagnosed with this and have spent waaay too much time hitting the slo-mo button on movies to see actors cocks while most of my friends were watching rom-coms.

Just thought you'd be interesting in knowing - there are these types of movies that have cocks everywhere, all the time, so you don't have to try to get to that tenth second cock flash. Yes this really exists. Nonstop cocks, cunts, asses, and tits. It's called PORN. I know it seems this is pretty much unbelievable, and couldn't possibly be true.

 

[subbyclarajane]

There are two options: Analyze the whole matter, or suck and fuck your brains out.

Why not both?

 

[Diosax]

Hmm i am actually diagnosed and i wouldn't say im hypersexual. Not in the true definition

I do have a high libido but i rarely spend too much time doing solo stuff. W partners my adhd makes it hard to focus therefore its hard to cum

I do enjoy masturbating and i may do it every day but i have a busy life so it doesn't interfere w my life at all

 

[CuriousTxGuy]

Why not both?

Okay, but only one at a time, and that one must totally focused on, you must be totally submerged and riding the waves of the feelings or thoughts of the moments.

 

[subbyclarajane]

Okay, but only one at a time, and that one must totally focused on, you must be totally submerged and riding the waves of the feelings or thoughts of the moments.

Hang on, do you not draft dissertations when you're balls deep in a hot hole? This is an ADHD thread, right?

 

[CuriousTxGuy]

Silly - of course one of the totally focused options is being totally focused on several things at the same time. This is essential practice in case one has to deal with several cocks or several sets of tits and pussies at the same time. How else could one get by?

 

[JustDave478]

This is a very interesting thread.

I've never been diagnosed with ADHD, but as it gets talked about more openly, I recognize all the telltale signs. It also 100% feeds into an insatiable sexual appetite. Definitely lots of good food for thought in this thread.

 

[HornyUK90]

This sounds like me. I'm mid 30s and always horny. Wife can't keep up. I can masturbate 7-8 times a day easily as a minimum. I sexualise everything and everything turns on me. A girl looks at me and I need to go jerk off. Irrelevant where I am. I've been depressed so often jerk off to feel better