Boxlicker101
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perdita said:Box, the physical battering of women by men is generally accompanied by verbal abuse. It's been my experience (not personally, luckily only) that men aren't generally silent when beating up a woman (for whatever reason). So though I don't think it's right, a woman who only verbally abuses a man isn't a measure in the scheme of things.
Perdita
Hi, Dita. I have never had any experience of any kind as an abuser, and never, ever expect to have any. All my wives and grandchildren and cats know or knew me as the kindest and most gentle and reasonable of men. Having been the target of verbal abuse from experts and having suffered a few physically beatings also, I am well aware that the latter are more painful but verbal abuse is also no fun.
It is probably true that most men who beat up their wives also call them names while they are doing it. I am glad that you have never personally experienced this and I hope this remains true. Even so, I think you would agree that, generally speaking, women are more verbally abusive of their signifigant others than men are. This is so because women are, generally speaking, more verbal than men are. This has probably been proven scientifically, although I would not be able to quote a source. So far as being controlling, I think women are more so, especially if you include controlling of offspring and others.