Is cuddling important to you after sex/intimacy?

[Luv2PleasureF]

On another note:
You sure as hell lost a lot of fluids last night, sweating, chowing down for an hour on your lover. And wasn't that "Propel" or Gatorade we had afterwards?

"Do you want some, honey?"
"Nah, I'm okay. Um, no, I changed my mind" with a grin. Ha!

Damn, I wonder how I'm still able to walk having my legs spread open for the amount of time I do. You definitely give me a great work out!! <smiles> I lost 15 pounds in two mos. I may not have to go to the gym after-all

Hoot, hoot
I love you
My little slut
And cuddle bug.

Ah, yes my love, definitely was working up a sweat, enjoying your incredibly sexy bod, and loving your moans and screams!
And let us not forget that you were getting fantastically wet, such a turn on! Plus, it helped me from getting too dehydrated! YUM!!
I recall in another thread you wanted to know if I'd be willing to chow down on your delicious kitty for an entire day... still waiting expectantly for an opportunity to do so!!
Besides, I can't think of a more enjoyable workout than sexercise, can you?
Oh baby, I love you!!
Hoot, hoot!!

 

[lick_me_there]

i think cuddling is very important. i wish i had that in my relationship. my boyfriend is the type to finish and get up, get dressed and watch tv. not so romantic to say the least. i wish that just once in a while he would just stay in bed for a few minutes just so i can cuddle up and enjoy the after glow

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

Cuddling afterwards is one of those simple things that enhances a sexual experience tremendously. It doesn't have to be a big production, but without it, sex feels incomplete. To expand on the Superbowl metaphor, it's like running 80 yards for the winning touchdown and not doing any kind of victory dance. You've won the championship - take the time to thank the little people who made it possible, don't just walk off the field (or fall asleep on it).

EXACTLY

 

[Mr.L.J.M]

i never used to cuddle after sex. i used to hate any real sort of intimate contact besides sex... wierd i know. but now i am with a girl i truly care about i love to shnuggle. its not so much important after sex... especially if your all hot and sticky.... because i feel i have been forfilled in the intamcy department. but in the same respect if we dont have sex for long periods of time.. i feel i need to touch her more, even in public, which isnt usually my thing, i want to be affectionate because im not getting intermatly fulfilled in the bedroom?

 

[Willing and Unsure]

I'm kinda in between on the cuddling afterwards thing. I normally like it, but there are times where I'm just feeling like "okay, get off me" despite enjoying his company and being with him. I guess there's just times where I feel like he's just using me as a pillow afterwards than anything.

I like to cuddle other times too though, like when we're both fully clothed. For some reason that kind of cuddling draws me a lot closer to him than the after sex cuddling does. It's that kind that actually gives me a fuller feeling.

 

[Fleatopia]

Cuddling all depends on the weather. If it's slighty chilly to cold then I'm all about the cuddling and the snuggling and the spooning. I love the feel of my skin against his. After sex it works to sort of calm me down, let my heart and breath even out. It's comforting and intimate and I totally dig it.

But in the summer when it's hot as hell in this place? Everything sticks together and you have to peel yourself apart because of the layer of sweat building up... Uck. In those circumstances, I'm more likely to inch away a bit at a time as soon as it isn't rude.

 

[lisasmurf]

I find cuddling important

I find cuddling important, before and after,

I don't feel i'm or we just been useing each other!

its better when I can go to sleep in his arms,

cudding is the best part of a great ending! <x6

 

[phoenix1224]

I guess there's just times where I feel like he's just using me as a pillow afterwards than anything.

Yeah? So?

I like to cuddle other times too though, like when we're both fully clothed. For some reason that kind of cuddling draws me a lot closer to him than the after sex cuddling does.

Me too...

 

[Willing and Unsure]

Yeah? So?

I dont like to feel used like that

Me too...

and good

 

[Halo_n_horns]

I believe cuddling can be a good thing, but I don't do it. It's a matter of work logistics. She holds her positions, maybe wriggles from time to time, but for the most part, I'm the one in motion. I'm pumping back forth or up and down, or long-stroking or short-stroking, or doing the stir-stick, all the while doing my damndest to make sure that she gets her orgasm(s) and that I don't get mine too soon or eventually go numb and not get mine at all.

During all this activity I'm burning calories, getting hot and sweaty, and when it all does finally come to a close cuddling up with a warm body is simply an uncomfortable prospect.

 

[phoenix1224]

I dont like to feel used like that

Fine... Then you can't drool on my arm any more when you're using ME for a pillow...

 

[Willing and Unsure]

Fine... Then you can't drool on my arm any more when you're using ME for a pillow...

but that's part of the double standard thing ya know

 

[Munachi]

Depends a bit whether it was just sex, or someone I really like... but usually I love falling asleep in the guys arms... Right after sex, if it was really good, I need some time just to myself in which I don't like to be spoken too or having to do or say anything, but after that... all for cuddling...

 

[Succulent-one]

There is nothing like two hot naked bodies lying intertwined next to each other and feeling each others heart beat fast and then slow to contentment. Gently stroking and kissing each other. It is kind of like putting the whipped cream and cherry on top of the hot fudge sunday. It kind of tops it all off.

 

[toolhholder]

Cuddling, before and after is part os the intimacy.
Afterwards, just drifting along together, sharing calming breaths, stilling hearts (even with online sex - but of course you lose the warm body contact) is part of the depth of shared passion and desire fulfilled.

 

[bhg08054]

This particular man thinks cuddling is an extremely important thing, before, during, and after.

 

[CURIOUS1026]

There is nothing like two hot naked bodies lying intertwined next to each other and feeling each others heart beat fast and then slow to contentment. Gently stroking and kissing each other. It is kind of like putting the whipped cream and cherry on top of the hot fudge sunday. It kind of tops it all off.

Boo Hoo Hoo..........now I want someone to cuddle with!!!!

 

[SkyyAngel]

Cuddling is very important to me. Before sex, after sex, and any time of the day or night!

I haven't seen my baby in almost 2 months and although I'm sure we'll be hopping into a bed as soon as possible when I finally see him again next week I would settle for and enjoy cuddling/snuggling just as much as sex.

It's a connection. It shows that he's there for me and not just my pussy. It shows that he loves me and would protect me with his life in need be. It shows that I love him and respect him and I trust him... which he knows is hard for me to develop with people.


This intimacy just is the physical way of us showing our love for each other. We both enjoy it very much, in the bedroom and out.

 

[silverwhisper]

i'm big on cuddling but what i've learned is that we can't fall asleep like that: we both tend to snore. :>

whoever said earlier that it's particularly important to re-connect after going outside your usual comfort zone: that was particularly insightful, i thought.

ed

 

[Eilan]

I'm glad that we installed the ceiling fan right over our bed. The cuddling sessions aren't as hot and sticky that way.

 

[muddpuppy]

It really depends on whether im just fuckin the guy or if im emotionally involved. If we are just fuckin i totally avoid anything emotional like kissing or cuddling to prevent my self from feeling anything for him. Now if we are involved i like to cuddle when we are on the couch watching tv i dont need it right after sex b/c after i catch a nut im ready for bed.

 

[greenffingers]

Cuddling before and after and with no sex is important

It's comfort, security, intimacy.

After sex it's floating back together inot everyday reality.

(I wouldn't want to do it if at the back of my mind i was thinking I feel nothing for this person).

 

[GRIFFBABY]

Yes cuddling is important to me after sex. There is nothing sweeter or more romantic than after having sex to lay down next to your partner and hold him/her in your arms. There is a great feeling of security and love in cuddling.

 

[BigM]

Zombie cuddle?

The notion of cuddling after sex sounds great and romantic and all sweet -- but for me (and often my wife) -- in the moments immediately after orgasm some part of my brain shuts down and goes lifeless, blank and numb.

I become Mr. Zombie. Wish it didn't happen, but there it is. It's like a bad movie: "Night of the after-sex zombie."

 

[Big Bair]

HELL YES

of course cuddling is important - with what is happening in our bed lately I need to hold onto someone before I lapse into unconsciousness (spelling) and fall off the bed !!!!

it good to be The Bair