Isolated blurts about Sex etc

[ecstaticsub]

So... I finally bought some rope!!!

☆*:.｡. o(≧▽≦)o .｡.:*☆

I've been reading up on safety and watching tutorials on basic techniques for awhile now. Recently, I started showing Mister some of the basic videos on YouTube. He really wasn't showing much interest. I was getting frustrated hoping he'd see how much I wanted to do this. He didn't (I know better) so I bought some rope and decided to do some self bondage today. （≧∇≦）


It was so exciting! I practiced a chest harness and a full body harness. I decided that I would wear the chest harness under my clothes when Mister came home. I had just finished and went out to greet him when I realized I made it too tight. I haven't practiced enough to make it the right pressure for me. So I showed him the harness and embarrassingly untied it while he got more comfortable.

His interest was peaked and he started to ask me about the rope. I told him the full body harness was easier and I could tie it quickly. So Mister laid back and watched me tie myself up. I was a little embarrassed, but it was better than any foreplay.

Mister says he wants to learn to tie me up. He enjoyed the look and vowed to tease me mercilessly.

::sigh::

What a good night...

Way to go taking matters into your own hands !

 

[MeekMe]

Way to go taking matters into your own hands !

(^_−)−☆

Sometimes, you just have to!

 

[Stella_Omega]

I left off writing one of those... things, not really stories, I don't know what they are... last night. I left my character tied against a hallway wall, her head in a bag, one leg pulled up, her tits and cunt stinging and throbbing from being whipped, waiting for who knows what.

I know I should get back to it, but... I love thinking about her waiting there. She's so happy!

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

I left off writing one of those... things, not really stories, I don't know what they are... last night. I left my character tied against a hallway wall, her head in a bag, one leg pulled up, her tits and cunt stinging and throbbing from being whipped, waiting for who knows what.

I know I should get back to it, but... I love thinking about her waiting there. She's so happy!

What if her nose itches?!?

 

[IrisAlthea]

What if her nose itches?!?

indeed!

 

[Stella_Omega]

What if her nose itches?!?

Huh!
It's funny-- my characters pee, fart, have to wash their smelly armpits sometimes -- they never get cramps in their legs, and they never get itchy noses.

 

[StrayKat]

What about itchy asses Stella?

 

[Stella_Omega]

What about itchy asses Stella?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-O6485OCBNs

 

[KoPilot]

Ugh I have to finish my story too but so many things have come up in the past few weeks. x\

 

[Stella_Omega]

Just found this surrealist erotic artist; hentai, bondage, monsters raping little fairies, of something like that. This is what pushes my buttons these days.
http://lofi.e-hentai.org/?f_search=Atorie+Rinbou&f_apply=Search

 

[bhndblueyes88]

tried a new food that turned out to be a bad idea... no idea why, not entirely important.

on the third day of the subsequent migraine the pain and nausea had largely subsided when I accidentally bit my lip while eating; so hard my mouth filled with blood. As the pain subsided I found myself intensely horny... which i thought was an anomaly for migraines..

stuck passenger side on a long drive I just pulled my hat lower over my eyes to block the offensive lights and coped very nicely with the pain by savoring the blood and day dreaming about biting all the way home.

Any doubt those cravings were connected to the migraines is sooo gone.

lol, i suddenly have this image of teenager-hormone-fueled vampire cosplay.

"I vant to suck your blud!!"
"uh, no, you are SOOO not glittery enough"
mahaha

 

[bhndblueyes88]

Is it weird to have sexual attraction to someone, but be totally uninterested in having sex with them yourself? Like, thinking of them HAVING sex gets you going, there's plenty of physical attraction, but you wouldn't want to actually be involved.

There's gotta be a name for something like that, right?

 

[bhndblueyes88]

absolutely... but so what? I don't see any reason to malign weird.

Is it unhealthy? I really doubt it.



voyeurism?

I more meant for that type of sex-but-not attraction. I'm generally not aroused by watching people get off

 

[Stella_Omega]

Is it weird to have sexual attraction to someone, but be totally uninterested in having sex with them yourself? Like, thinking of them HAVING sex gets you going, there's plenty of physical attraction, but you wouldn't want to actually be involved.

There's gotta be a name for something like that, right?

I'm more and more like that as I age. it used to be i wanted to get close, hot, and heavy, belly-to-belly. Nowadays, I feel a need to maintain space between myself and my playmate.
Not that my sex drive has dropped in any way-- my desire to give and recieve orgasms-- but my umm... intimacy drive I guess you could call it, has plunged to the basement. I've become a-romantic.
Is that something like what you're talking about?

 

[KoPilot]

Is it weird to have sexual attraction to someone, but be totally uninterested in having sex with them yourself? Like, thinking of them HAVING sex gets you going, there's plenty of physical attraction, but you wouldn't want to actually be involved.

There's gotta be a name for something like that, right?

LITHOSEXUAL

...lithosexual?

 

[bhndblueyes88]

I'm more and more like that as I age. it used to be i wanted to get close, hot, and heavy, belly-to-belly. Nowadays, I feel a need to maintain space between myself and my playmate.
Not that my sex drive has dropped in any way-- my desire to give and recieve orgasms-- but my umm... intimacy drive I guess you could call it, has plunged to the basement. I've become a-romantic.
Is that something like what you're talking about?

mmmm *head scratch* no? If anything, it's the opposite? That'd be hyper-romantic and that's not right either. boo. uhm. There's a physical desire for intimacy, but also a more detached sexual attraction. Yes, in a voyuerist-type fashion, but it's more related to HER than the act of watching. if that makes sense. I think she's attractive and find myself quietly just watching her body instead of really listening (which is facilitated by the fact she can be stupid oblivious). I wouldn't mind "intimate" acts, but the thought of proceeding into "sexual" acts makes everything back pedal and everything about it is awkward and "no".

<<Side note, worst fear ever is that she's on lit forums xD >>

I think what complicates the whole issue IS that she's female and I do generally consider myself heterosexual (my sister puts it as "heteroflexible"). Mostly because I don't really feel the need to label myself and heterosexual fits well enough if accounting for a spectrum instead of ultimatums. It's like "yah, she's hot. I could enjoy that. As long as pants stayed on. Yah, her pants would definitely have to stay on. No bueno skin folds."

And yes, to me a vulva is moist skin folds. Like a furless mix of a bullmastiff and a sharpei xP And let me just TELL YOU what lies in a sharpei's skin folds...

<<Have you noticed how people never actually tell you after they say that?>>

Point being, bisexual doesn't feel like it fits and sometimes my feelings/attraction for her are definitely at odds with that. It could be that I have my ostrich head in a hole

What is a Lithosexual? My cursory google search was just more confusing than trying to break down the term etymology

 

[Endless_Night]

Is it weird to have sexual attraction to someone, but be totally uninterested in having sex with them yourself? Like, thinking of them HAVING sex gets you going, there's plenty of physical attraction, but you wouldn't want to actually be involved.

There's gotta be a name for something like that, right?

< mmmm *head scratch* no? If anything, it's the opposite? That'd be hyper-romantic and that's not right either. boo. uhm. There's a physical desire for intimacy, but also a more detached sexual attraction. Yes, in a voyuerist-type fashion, but it's more related to HER than the act of watching. if that makes sense. I think she's attractive and find myself quietly just watching her body instead of really listening (which is facilitated by the fact she can be stupid oblivious). I wouldn't mind "intimate" acts, but the thought of proceeding into "sexual" acts makes everything back pedal and everything about it is awkward and "no". >

Something similar happens to me. I'll occasionally meet or see women who attract me physically. I like to look at them, the way their bodies move, and there's definitely a desire for intimacy. I wouldn't mind touching or being touched. I'd even go so far to say I'd like to touch, but definitely of "the pants on" variety. Sometimes I'll even fantasize about them having sex (not with me) which I guess might be a bit weird.

The first time it happened was adolescence. It doesn't happen very often, and I've always just considered it some kind of "crush". Viewing sexuality on a sliding scale I've assumed I wasn't completely hetero, but wasn't attracted enough to women to really be bisexual.

I've been with women a couple of times (two of my BBFs have been bi and were happy to assist in my curiosity. ), but I'd have to say the experience was...meh. Like BBE I'm just definitely not interested in the foldy bits. Nope. I prefer my incoming genitalia to be male.

Is this what you're talking about???

It's never crossed my mind that these occasional "crushes" might be odd, but now you have me wondering. Is it weird to be sexually attracted to the occasional female but have no interest in having sex with them?

Lit is such an odd place. All my idiosyncrasies I thought were weird aren't, but things I've never considered weird are....

 

[Curious_in_Cali]

Maybe it's like appreciating fine art. You have admiration for it's effect on you, captivated and moved by the beauty of it... But not really interested in taking it home for your livin room wall.

I feel all sorts of emotions and arousal when I see artful images of submission. I engage in the imaginings of what they are experiencing. Arousal, pain, warmth, fear, intimacy... I am aroused by and connected to the imaginings experience, and often envious of the dance of vulnerability and strength I see in them but I am not drawn to be in the first person with them. It's more a desire to experience being them I think. Admiration like that allows a respectful detachment to remain maybe.

Observing someone who identifies and engages in life as confidently submissive is like that... OMG, that is so hot and beautiful and, and and!!! It never stirs in me a desire to dominate them or engage them, but to snuggle closer and breathe the smell, listen to the sounds and touch the sex of it to the point of being aroused? Absolutely.

 

[bhndblueyes88]

I think both of you are right. I think my conclusion is that the only "weird" is humanity

 

[Stella_Omega]

Kopilot... the movie you've always wanted to see!

 

[KoPilot]

The jist of lithosexuality is that you feel sexual attraction towards people but aren't into it being reciprocated or acting on it.

Kopilot... the movie you've always wanted to see!

WOOHOO

I've got a major crush on this asshole right now:

He's got a bad case of butterface (buttisface?) so the mask stays on. Hell, I'll even take gunface mode over whatever it is that's going underneath.

Haha maybe I'm litho

 

[MeekMe]

It's National Orgasm Day!

Grab yourself or grab a partner! It's time to celebrate!

♪───*（≧∇≦）*────♪

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

I'm really not sure the baby pose was meant to make me think or feel that way. I may be doing yoga completely wrong

 

[IrisAlthea]

I'm really not sure the baby pose was meant to make me think or feel that way. I may be doing yoga completely wrong

If you can hear what you are thinking over the creaking and cracking of your spine and the whining of your tendons, I'm sure you are doing it right.

 

[bhndblueyes88]

If Garrus is wrong, I don't to be right. I'll have me some sexy turian any day <3