Svenskaflicka
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MathGirl said:Dear Swede,
Nicely put. If anyone has the right to feel that way, it's you.
MG
Thanks. I don't get it, but thanks.
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MathGirl said:Dear Swede,
Nicely put. If anyone has the right to feel that way, it's you.
MG
Svenskaflicka said:The way of the WASP-world, BS.
White men are in power, heal diseases, defend criminals, and work with computers. Black men are great at sports and dancing. White women teach school children, sew quilts, and act in porno movies. Black women work at McDonalds, watch Oprah, and bake sweet potato pie.
Svenskaflicka said:You're a social mis-fit.
Svenskaflicka said:...
They'll be even more confused in September, when Hubby comes over.
BlackSnake said:Babes dressing in next to nothing. They do know what they are doing, the effect they will and do cause.
It's like the same game I played in my early twenties at the night clubs. It was almost a good think when a hottie shot me down, because that only meant that I was getting closer; playing the odds.
These babes don't want even the best looking guy to look at her and say to himself "Look at rack on that doe, I want to fuck her". She want's him to look at her and say to himself "she's the most beautiful woman I have ever seen in my life. I want to marry her and charish her for the rest of my life."
Talk about pipe dream. The only guys that would be thinking about marrying a babe nearly naked in public is those who just want pussy in their bed every night.
Ding! Ding! The number one reason for getting married: to have
pussy in the bed every night.
destinie21 said:.....
MlledeLaPlumeBleu said:The huge irony, of course, similar to the one that Svenska pointed out, is that these middle-aged men are angry about being "teased" and rejected- ("resisted") but have no concept of the idea that young girls just might not want older men- although apparently, their rejection of the older *women* who are their peers makes perfect sense.
Flicka-mou, I love you! I am LOL so hard, and happy. I wish I had known someone like you 30 years ago.Svenskaflicka said:I think he's responsible for many, many, many porn stories online today.
MlledeLaPlumeBleu said:BS- I treat them the same on a case by case basis, once I've gotten to know them.
But the answer would be, because they treat US differently.
The difference is that my initial perception of a black man is often tainted by the realization that he doesn't respect my gender. By in large white men have at least been forced to either: accept women as people, or hide their socially unacceptable views.
Black men tend to view interacting with women as a racket; cast the wide net, use the line, and in a lot of cases, this is indiscriminate- if she's a woman and reasonably attractive, well, give it a shot.
But nobody likes feeling like they're having an angle worked on them. And that accounts for the majority of the negative responses- someone not giving you the intellectual credit of a better approach, assuming you aren't going to realize it's a boilerplate come-on. There's that initial disrespect, and then, if you have the nerve to be annoyed, there's the secondary reaction "you bitch, who the fuck do you think you are?"
And how flattered are you going to be if the same guy who just tried to pick you up goes on down the line until he finds a taker? Especially if some of those women are not too "money"...
The "I love women" shit doesn't exactly ring true when the same guy turns around five minutes later pissed off because someone rejected his lines or his insincerity, saying "that bitch, I'd like to give her a piece of my mind". That mindset says to me- "yeah, I love women- I love them on their knees, I love them from behind, I love them making dinner-" but I don't respect their basic right to object to being treated as less than human.
But "loving" women- the use of them- and respecting women, is totally different. And unfortunately, because of the majority of black mens' views toward me, I have developed a wariness of their motives.
CLEARLY- this is not the case with all black men. I'm just giving you an honest answer, BS, as to why a lot of women seem unreceptive at first.
mlle