Ladies, do you REALLY enjoy anal sex? I don't think so

[Corbal]

I absolutely love anal... Forcefully so, with a fistful of my hair and a hand on my throat. Total domination. Fucking.Yum.

 

[pcarp]

I was never interested in anal...until my g/f practically begged me to do her. I had never done that to a woman, but she went crazy that first time I did it. It was like she was teaching me something and she went wild. She has to be in the right mood, but when she wants it, she wants it....and she loves it.

 

[Ausus_girl13]

Yes. It's awesome. Full of win.

 

[Daniel_Hart]

I was always interested...but it took a great partner to make it mindblowing. Love it as a treat now.

 

[konaboy]

I applaud your post Davide_UK!

Could the men who wish to do this to their woman have homosexual tendencies? And the women? I put it to you that you only do it to please your man. There can't possibly be any pleasure in it for you, only discomfort

First, let me compliment you on your post. You're very well spoken, and have the type of curiosity that makes for a wonderful lover.

I'm a heterosexual male, who has been blessed with some incredible experiences. Because of my above average maturity and communication skills, I became a confidant of many girls in my teen years, and learned early, the things that make women comfortable opening up to a guy. Many of the things shared were negative sexual encounters, where I was able to convince them that they had nothing to feel guilty about. In my late teens and early twenties, I became obsessed with learning everything I could about women and relationships, having read dozens of sex and relationship books. One of the best being "The Joy of Sex". I've conversed with the women in my life about everything that has come to my mind. One of the interesting things that I've learned is that most women can't explain why they have the desires and impulses they do.

First, anal sex can be incredibly pleasurable to almost any woman, but for most there are a few criteria that have to be met. The woman must have trust in the man she is with. especially if she has been victimized. She must know deep in her heart that he would never intentionally hurt her just to fulfill his own desires. Most women, especially those who have never had a pleasurable anal sex encounter, must be completely aroused. Usually having cum at least a couple of times. I've been with a couple of women who never showed any interest in anal sex, and I'm not a guy who requires it to be fulfilled, but during some incredibly hot love making sessions, where I spent a considerable amount of time caressing, exploring, and making her cum orally a few times, having started with vaginal intercourse, and massaging her anus with my lubricated thumb (By the way, unless she has a lot of big hangups, all women love to have the outside of their anus skillfully massaged during intercourse. If you do it right, you'll hear a woman go from moans of pleasure, to becoming very vocal and animated!! I love watching a woman grab the sheets in her fists, and push back into me!) If she shifts her butt away from my exploring wet thumb, then I take the hint until another time, but almost every time, she is likely to push back into you harder... If she does, eventually you can remove your cock from her pussy, which should be very well lubricated with her own juices by now (but "Silk Water" applied to the anus with your thumb isn't a bad idea), and place the tip of your cock at her anus. I've never known a woman to accept a skillful thumb massage, but pull away from the tip of my cock... Very slowly push the tip of your cock into her, then stop... allow her to get used to it, and for her butt muscles to relax... then she'll push back into you, where you slowly push forward. If she pulls away a little, stop pushing... let her adjust again... Once all the way in, hold her hips firmly, thrust into her hips, caress her back, then hold her hips again (some women prefer the tenderness of having their back caressed, while others want the dominated feeling of their hips being held firmly)... My experience has been that most women under these circumstances will cum just as hard, and even louder, and more animated than vaginal sex.

Keep in mind that many women have never cum from vaginal intercourse alone. In my opinion, it's because their lovers haven't been very attentive, and haven't spent an adequate amount of time caressing, exploring, and arousing her first. A female orgasm is significantly an emotional response. It's her frame of mind that makes her cum. Almost all women at times want to be dominated, (Rape fantasy is one of the most common female fantasies.) If the scenario I described above is carried out by a trustworthy guy, the woman will be remembering that encounter as one of the most incredible of her life. Oh, don't forget the snuggle part afterward, and telling her how special and incredible she is. You'll know you've done it right when your woman tells you the next day "Last night was INCREEEEDIBLE!!" and that is often a phrase I've heard after an experience involving skillful anal sex.

So, although many women do submit to anal sex out of obligation and desire to give to their partners, when a woman desires to be dominated, or when it is as I described above, they truly do enjoy it more than is logical.

Oh, and it occurs to me to mention that a guy who includes the anus in intimacy isn't necessarily bi or homosexual. I've known a woman who gave me an INCREDIBLE prostate massage while sucking my cock, and I tell you, if you avoid that because of homophobia, you are REALLY missing out!!! Anus doesn't mean gay. Anus means no limits in providing each other mutual pleasure!!!

Spend time with a woman where there are no limits as long as it's consensual, get over your hangups and the "what will people think if they know I enjoy this" crap, and spend time learning and enjoying everything you can together. You won't regret it!!

 

[BetterLuver]

In my opinion nothing makes me come faster than having something in my ass. There are a lot of nerve endings back there and all pleasurable. If women are only doing it to please a man then why do some ( including myself) integrate anal play into their masturbation techniques?

If you dont believe woman gain pleasure from it check out my audios in the link below, there's one labelled anal that will prove you wrong

It is so hot to hear a sexy woman like yourself admit you like attention back there.. id LOVE to talk more about this topic with you.. turns me on, so much!

 

[BetterLuver]

I absolutely love anal... Forcefully so, with a fistful of my hair and a hand on my throat. Total domination. Fucking.Yum.

Unbelievable post with a great pic.. you are so sexy and to hear you talk that way made me SO hard.. OMG!!

 

[2bmarion]

First, let me compliment you on your post. You're very well spoken, and have the type of curiosity that makes for a wonderful lover.

I'm a heterosexual male, who has been blessed with some incredible experiences. Because of my above average maturity and communication skills, I became a confidant of many girls in my teen years, and learned early, the things that make women comfortable opening up to a guy. Many of the things shared were negative sexual encounters, where I was able to convince them that they had nothing to feel guilty about. In my late teens and early twenties, I became obsessed with learning everything I could about women and relationships, having read dozens of sex and relationship books. One of the best being "The Joy of Sex". I've conversed with the women in my life about everything that has come to my mind. One of the interesting things that I've learned is that most women can't explain why they have the desires and impulses they do.

First, anal sex can be incredibly pleasurable to almost any woman, but for most there are a few criteria that have to be met. The woman must have trust in the man she is with. especially if she has been victimized. She must know deep in her heart that he would never intentionally hurt her just to fulfill his own desires. Most women, especially those who have never had a pleasurable anal sex encounter, must be completely aroused. Usually having cum at least a couple of times. I've been with a couple of women who never showed any interest in anal sex, and I'm not a guy who requires it to be fulfilled, but during some incredibly hot love making sessions, where I spent a considerable amount of time caressing, exploring, and making her cum orally a few times, having started with vaginal intercourse, and massaging her anus with my lubricated thumb (By the way, unless she has a lot of big hangups, all women love to have the outside of their anus skillfully massaged during intercourse. If you do it right, you'll hear a woman go from moans of
pleasure, to becoming very vocal and animated!! I love watching a woman grab the sheets in her fists, and push back into me!) If she shifts her butt away from my exploring wet thumb, then I take the hint until another time, but almost every time, she is likely to push back into you harder... If she does, eventually you can remove your cock from her pussy, which should be very well lubricated with her own juices by now (but "Silk Water" applied to the anus with your thumb isn't a bad idea), and place the tip of your cock at her anus. I've never known a woman to accept a skillful thumb massage, but pull away from the tip of my cock... Very slowly push the tip of your cock into her, then stop... allow her to get used to it, and for her butt muscles to relax... then she'll push back into you, where you slowly push forward. If she pulls away a little, stop pushing... let her adjust again... Once all the way in, hold her hips firmly, thrust into her hips, caress her back, then hold her hips again (some women prefer the tenderness of having their back caressed, while others want the dominated feeling of their hips being held firmly)... My experience has been that most women under these circumstances will cum just as hard, and even louder, and more animated than vaginal sex.

Keep in mind that many women have never cum from vaginal intercourse alone. In my opinion, it's because their lovers haven't been very attentive, and haven't spent an adequate amount of time caressing, exploring, and arousing her first. A female orgasm is significantly an emotional response. It's her frame of mind that makes her cum. Almost all women at times want to be dominated, (Rape fantasy is one of the most common female fantasies.) If the scenario I described above is carried out by a trustworthy guy, the woman will be remembering that encounter as one of the most incredible of her life. Oh, don't forget the snuggle part afterward, and telling her how special and incredible she is. You'll know you've done it right when your woman tells you the next day "Last night was INCREEEEDIBLE!!" and that is often a phrase I've heard after an experience involving skillful anal sex.

So, although many women do submit to anal sex out of obligation and desire to give to their partners, when a woman desires to be dominated, or when it is as I described above, they truly do enjoy it more than is logical.

Oh, and it occurs to me to mention that a guy who includes the anus in intimacy isn't necessarily bi or homosexual. I've known a woman who gave me an INCREDIBLE prostate massage while sucking my cock, and I tell you, if you avoid that because of homophobia, you are REALLY missing out!!! Anus doesn't mean gay. Anus means no limits in providing each other mutual pleasure!!!

Spend time with a woman where there are no limits as long as it's consensual, get over your hangups and the "what will people think if they know I enjoy this" crap, and spend time learning and enjoying everything you can together. You won't regret it!!

What a way to make a first post! Great addition to thread. I have to agree with what is said here. I have had anal sex multiple times, and find it very arousing if done correctly. I cum harder and am definitely more vocal when I'm pleasured analy. There have even been sometimes when I couldn't climax unless I was stimulated by or in my ass.

 

[CandiCame]

First, let me compliment you on your post. You're very well spoken, and have the type of curiosity that makes for a wonderful lover.

I'm a heterosexual male, who has been blessed with some incredible experiences. Because of my above average maturity and communication skills, I became a confidant of many girls in my teen years, and learned early, the things that make women comfortable opening up to a guy. Many of the things shared were negative sexual encounters, where I was able to convince them that they had nothing to feel guilty about. In my late teens and early twenties, I became obsessed with learning everything I could about women and relationships, having read dozens of sex and relationship books. One of the best being "The Joy of Sex". I've conversed with the women in my life about everything that has come to my mind. One of the interesting things that I've learned is that most women can't explain why they have the desires and impulses they do.

First, anal sex can be incredibly pleasurable to almost any woman, but for most there are a few criteria that have to be met. The woman must have trust in the man she is with. especially if she has been victimized. She must know deep in her heart that he would never intentionally hurt her just to fulfill his own desires. Most women, especially those who have never had a pleasurable anal sex encounter, must be completely aroused. Usually having cum at least a couple of times. I've been with a couple of women who never showed any interest in anal sex, and I'm not a guy who requires it to be fulfilled, but during some incredibly hot love making sessions, where I spent a considerable amount of time caressing, exploring, and making her cum orally a few times, having started with vaginal intercourse, and massaging her anus with my lubricated thumb (By the way, unless she has a lot of big hangups, all women love to have the outside of their anus skillfully massaged during intercourse. If you do it right, you'll hear a woman go from moans of pleasure, to becoming very vocal and animated!! I love watching a woman grab the sheets in her fists, and push back into me!) If she shifts her butt away from my exploring wet thumb, then I take the hint until another time, but almost every time, she is likely to push back into you harder... If she does, eventually you can remove your cock from her pussy, which should be very well lubricated with her own juices by now (but "Silk Water" applied to the anus with your thumb isn't a bad idea), and place the tip of your cock at her anus. I've never known a woman to accept a skillful thumb massage, but pull away from the tip of my cock... Very slowly push the tip of your cock into her, then stop... allow her to get used to it, and for her butt muscles to relax... then she'll push back into you, where you slowly push forward. If she pulls away a little, stop pushing... let her adjust again... Once all the way in, hold her hips firmly, thrust into her hips, caress her back, then hold her hips again (some women prefer the tenderness of having their back caressed, while others want the dominated feeling of their hips being held firmly)... My experience has been that most women under these circumstances will cum just as hard, and even louder, and more animated than vaginal sex.

Keep in mind that many women have never cum from vaginal intercourse alone. In my opinion, it's because their lovers haven't been very attentive, and haven't spent an adequate amount of time caressing, exploring, and arousing her first. A female orgasm is significantly an emotional response. It's her frame of mind that makes her cum. Almost all women at times want to be dominated, (Rape fantasy is one of the most common female fantasies.) If the scenario I described above is carried out by a trustworthy guy, the woman will be remembering that encounter as one of the most incredible of her life. Oh, don't forget the snuggle part afterward, and telling her how special and incredible she is. You'll know you've done it right when your woman tells you the next day "Last night was INCREEEEDIBLE!!" and that is often a phrase I've heard after an experience involving skillful anal sex.

So, although many women do submit to anal sex out of obligation and desire to give to their partners, when a woman desires to be dominated, or when it is as I described above, they truly do enjoy it more than is logical.

Oh, and it occurs to me to mention that a guy who includes the anus in intimacy isn't necessarily bi or homosexual. I've known a woman who gave me an INCREDIBLE prostate massage while sucking my cock, and I tell you, if you avoid that because of homophobia, you are REALLY missing out!!! Anus doesn't mean gay. Anus means no limits in providing each other mutual pleasure!!!

Spend time with a woman where there are no limits as long as it's consensual, get over your hangups and the "what will people think if they know I enjoy this" crap, and spend time learning and enjoying everything you can together. You won't regret it!!

You sir, have made me happy.

You've said everything with far more charisma then I had.

 

[desertslave]

I don't *love* anal. It will never be my first choice of ways to have sex with someone.

HOWEVER (and when Himself reads this, which he likely will, I'm going to hate myself for writing this), very little else brings me to the same level of screaming, thrashing, breathless orgasms like anal does. (He's laughing *his* ass off as he reads this, dammit.)

Yes, Dearest, it's true, I admit it.

HOWEVER, it takes a lot of prep to get me there. I'm probably overly sensitive, I have some GI issues which make me feel conflicted about that evil orifice bringing me pleasure. As a result, I have a lot of trouble relaxing, though I've learned that a glass of wine and/or a healthy dose of endorphins will bring me up to where I need to be. Then the thrashing begins and I lose my mind.

Since we generally use toys to achieve this, I think that His gender preference is pretty clear.

 

[switchbitch]

I've just read a lit story. It was very promising to begin with, but in the end, it was only worth two stars. It was a non-gay story, which unbeknown to me, had a couple of anal sex chapters in it, which didn't do the story any good, even though it wasn't much good in the first place.

I can understand gay men participating in anal sex. I mean, where else can they put it? There's no other suitable orifice available. But anal sex between a man and a woman? Most woman have a perfectly good pussy, but their men insist upon putting their thing into a place that isn't clean.

I've had things poked up my ass, care of treatment at my local hospital. And believe me, it brought tears to my eyes!

I've never known anything so perplexing in my life. Could the men who wish to do this to their woman have homosexual tendencies? And the women? I put it to you that you only do it to please your man. There can't possibly be any pleasure in it for you, only discomfort

It isn't my intention to be disrespectful by starting this thread, but I would very much like to hear your thoughts, in order for me to come to some understanding

every time I see this thread it makes me wonder about the author of the OP, it seems an honest question to something that perplexes, but it does perplex me that someone can see just how much information there is out there about people enjoying anal sex. And then I re read his post, and it sounds as though he had a rather traumatic experience at his hospital with a medical person who was clumsy and did not explain how to make the penetration more comfortable. Most doctors and nurses know not to simply 'poke'but explain how to loosen the sphincter to avoid pain. Sorry that happened to you, should you ever need to undergo such an undignified process again do let them know that last time it really hurt and they will explain it to you.
and as for your thought that perhaps anal is specifically Homosexual,any act that brings pleasure is not necessarily gender or orientation biased simply because it is not specifically in order to engender offspring otherwise why would we kiss?

 

[Shadow Thief]

Could the men who wish to do this to their woman have homosexual tendencies?

That makes about as much sense as saying that women who like being eaten have lesbian tendencies. It's only gay if you're doing it with someone of the same gender.

 

[KatNW1]

Not even then. I think it's only gay if YOU feel you're gay. I think sex should be sex without labels.

No, I've never had sex with a woman - not yet, anyway - but that's only because (1) I've never been approached and (2) I've not met one yet that I'd like to. When I do, I just might shock the hell out of myself and do it for the laugh.

That said, I have done anal once in my life, and at the time, though it was pretty damned hot.

The next day, however, I had my doubts.

Not done it since - but again, the opportunity has never really presented itself and I've not really ever been like I was that night again. Unfortunate, I think, for all involved.

 

[greeneyedsista]

I miss having anal sex. I have an ex that was mind blowing at it. He'd eat me front to back, then a little lube and I was ready to go. I could cum so hard that I'd forget my name. And I could cum over and over. He was the only man to whom I would say "If I could put your ass in a bottle and sell you, I'd be a rich bitch!"

Those were the days... ((sigh))

Anal sex is so about being with a man that knows what the hell he's doing.

 

[BetterLuver]

@ Green Eyed Sista.. its a shame that your husband isnt as creative and outgoing as you are.. im one of those men, when KNOWS what the fuck he is doing, ESPECIALLY when it comes to your "backdoor"

 

[Marlene38EE]

Strictly speaking only 4 myself...

No.
A boyfriend 'ambushed' me once years ago and that was the end of that relationship right there. He'd asked previously, I'd said 'No.' and he then he tried that stunt.
I've never been into anal anything in reality. Fantasy and fantasy-lit...sure, but reality, nope.

 

[Iamnotthe1]

Anal sex is erotic. I like it when I am in a nasty mood.

 

[naughty_shygirl]

I wonder if the guy that wrote this thread can look at this and honestly say it does not turn him on?

 

[BiTodd]

Gets me going, in a bad way. Love to examine the possibilities with you.

 

[pwr2theblondes]

Not reading the whole thread but Yes, some women do enjoy it. I have the best orgasms with a cock in my ass and rubbing my clit on the sheets. This was a dumb question.

 

[LuckyBuckYT]

Okay, I'm new here and I've been absolutely DEVOURING stories and forum threads. This is hands-down the most entertaining thread I've seen here.

The OP is a little naive, but I can understand it, because I used to wonder the same thing. But, yes David, there is a Santa Claus, er, there really ARE women who like being fucked in the ass.

I didn't get it either. Sometimes it's a mood thing. It's ALWAYS a "careful" thing. And I never asked for it, myself, but just about every woman I've been with wound up wanting it.

 

[clearlight30]

I absolutely love anal... Forcefully so, with a fistful of my hair and a hand on my throat. Total domination. Fucking.Yum.

I wonder if the guy that wrote this thread can look at this and honestly say it does not turn him on?

Not reading the whole thread but Yes, some women do enjoy it. I have the best orgasms with a cock in my ass and rubbing my clit on the sheets. This was a dumb question.

and people wonder why i am a fan of these three women....
duh...

 

[BiTodd]

I think the op is pretty smart. Posting such a quesion. And then sitting back furiously masterbating while all kinds of beautiful women post on here particular scenarios and pics, raving about their anal pleasures. What a turn on. Kudos to the op, he made my day.

 

[ButtAnalMan]

Nice thread

 

[Jon4Fun916]

It's clear to me that I need a new girlfriend. hahaha