Ladies, do you REALLY enjoy anal sex? I don't think so

[EbonyPrincess19]

As submissive as I am and as much as I enjoy doing things simply to please my partner whomever they may be, I love anal sex a lot and would never feel obligated to do it if I didn't want to, simply because it can be uncomfortable.
I don't think my boyfriend is into it and it's not something that I can just do whenever, I would still would be totally up for it if he ever asked.

Once I lost my virginity, I only wanted to have anal sex for awhile.
And I think it provides all kinds of kinky positions for great access to hair pulling and spanking. Can't go wrong with either of those.

 

[analgirl69]

Note the name.

I love anal. Surprise surprise!
Lol. Seriously though. I was the one to suggest it to my hubby after some alone experimentation. Lol.Then we did it. -wrong- and I HATED it. Every few weeks for a year. Yes. I did it solely to please him by that point and did not tell him that I freakin' loathed it. But I figured out how to do it right and now I love it. And we do it almost every day. Sometimes with vaginal, sometimes with toys, sometimes alone/just anal. For a while there all we did was anal every day. He we come home, I would bend over and we both knew where it was going. Lol. Of course, that gets old and you want variety again, so back to regular and anal mixed.
He's not gay-faaaaaaaar from it. He loved having sex with me normally and had barely ever even thought about anal. That was me. Now we have variety.

 

[Wingsfan45]

Mrs Wingsfan...

Likes it. Once in a while (about 3-4 times a year) for full on cock-in-ass-pounding. It seems certain conditions have to exist, of which I have absolutely no dam clue, and the stars align or something and it happens. She is crazy vocal, and has very hard/knees wobbled/face red/out of breath orgasms. Me too for that matter.
It did not start out that way however. It took lots of patience, practice, love, trust, communication and lube.

 

[MrSir972]

Good thread! Ive always wanted to introduce a girl to anal, any advice on how to make the sticky transition ?

 

[cuckold_tales]

I really enjoy it.

 

[lazyloz]

It's been said already but it's worth repeating. If we all hated it so much why would we do it when masturbating alone? It's definitely an acquired taste and I am sure for some people who are over sensitive it will never be a fun option - but not everyone is put together exactly the same.

 

[Sonofawhore]

It shouldnt matter if they like it right?

 

[lonelonghorn]

I once had a lover who wanted anal all the time and it became just as frequent as vaginal intercourse. She just experienced the most powerful orgasms that way. I was happy to oblige

 

[Edensgarden]

I always joke that I masturbate with Me, Myself and I. You do the math...

 

[XpersiusX]

I always joke that I masturbate with Me, Myself and I. You do the math...

Oh dear God! You do know how to make a mind imagine a scene.......

 

[Jon4Fun916]

I always joke that I masturbate with Me, Myself and I. You do the math...

I thought about cloning myself twice so I could do that to.....how's it work out?

As a guy, I enjoy anal stimulation...so I would find it very hard to believe that many women out there couldn't as well.

 

[Edensgarden]

I thought about cloning myself twice so I could do that to.....how's it work out?

As a guy, I enjoy anal stimulation...so I would find it very hard to believe that many women out there couldn't as well.

How does it work out?

Me uses the vibrator.
Myself is in charge of the glass dildo.
I use my fingers to rub on my clit.

No cloning needed. You just have to know what you want and how to get there.

The ability to multitask when you are about to lose all control is a plus.

 

[mind_the_gap]

For a while there all we did was anal every day. He we come home, I would bend over and we both knew where it was going.

did it ever happen that u came home, bent over, got a cock in ur ass, and a minute later ur hubby came in saying "hi honey", u turn around and see that it's the postman fucking ur ass?

 

[analgirl69]

did it ever happen that u came home, bent over, got a cock in ur ass, and a minute later ur hubby came in saying "hi honey", u turn around and see that it's the postman fucking ur ass?

No...lol. Only one cock has been in my ass. Plenty of toys though.
On that note, op, I am home alone and am using a toy. Why would I do that if I didn't like it?

 

[Tomahawk26]

As soooo many other ladies have already chimed in to say, yes, there are women who like, nay, even LOVE anal! I get wetter fucking myself in the ass with a dildo than I do from many other activities. I've only had anal sex with my husband and one other guy (in a threesome in which my husband was my other partner), and it was a little tough for me the first few times (like 6 years ago), but I really enjoy it now. I think it's all about the ability to be truly comfortable with a partner, as others have mentioned.

And my husband has absolutely no attraction to dudes at all (the MFM was totally me-focused; the only contact between the fellas was their cocks rubbing against each other in my pussy at one particularly exciting point)--I've asked because I was curious if he would even take a blow job from a guy, and he said no.

 

[Karenas]

Many years ago, a guy asked. I said no. He tried it anyway. I threw up. Ooops! It slipped! Fucking bastard never got near me again.

Recently I approached my hub to try. We've tried twice and it hasn't really worked yet, but I think we need some new toys.

 

[69thfirmesthand]

I'll admit I had two ladies one j/o and the other massaging my prostate it was pure heaven.They definitely knew what they were doing because they drug the proceess out and when they finally pushed me over the edge it was incredible.I would highly recommend the experience for any man.

 

[Jon4Fun916]

How does it work out?

Me uses the vibrator.
Myself is in charge of the glass dildo.
I use my fingers to rub on my clit.

No cloning needed. You just have to know what you want and how to get there.

The ability to multitask when you are about to lose all control is a plus.

Oh I was just being humorous.

 

[Annaleise]

I'll admit I had two ladies one j/o and the other massaging my prostate it was pure heaven.They definitely knew what they were doing because they drug the proceess out and when they finally pushed me over the edge it was incredible.I would highly recommend the experience for any man.

My bf loves this. Took almost a year to get him to let me do it though.
For myself, I don't mind fingers but his cock is way too big and its just uncomfortable.
I'm not against it, it just doesn't do much for me.

 

[Bbb13]

My bf loves this. Took almost a year to get him to let me do it though.
For myself, I don't mind fingers but his cock is way too big and its just uncomfortable.
I'm not against it, it just doesn't do much for me.

So what do you want himtodowoth it?

 

[D0ggerSlut]

its new for me

my b/f has just started using my ass.. about 3 weeks now... I don't love it ...yet, but it is a turn on once he's properly in...

When I'm really horny I sometimes ask him if he wants it now, so it can't be too bad

 

[MeredithEighty8]

my b/f has just started using my ass.. about 3 weeks now... I don't love it ...yet, but it is a turn on once he's properly in...

When I'm really horny I sometimes ask him if he wants it now, so it can't be too bad

This is the stage where we are, he kept after me asking for it and we finally did it for the first time about a month or so ago. I've only let him do it a few times, but like you said, once he's in and I'm comfortable it's ok and if he's gentle with me and doesn't hurt me I think I might learn to really enjoy it.

I don't know if it's so much the physical act itself (although it eventually does feel good), my feelings of total physical submission to him or the fact that he seems to get so much pleasure from doing me this way that makes it good for me, particularly when he cums up my ass.

 

[sweet_lusciousdesire]

love the feelings

I love the feeling of being stretched. The sensations are amazing. I like pushing the limits and then beyond. A big cock in my ass feels amazing...

I guess we have to remember that although similar, we all have different tastes and desires and different ways of being stimulated.

maybe like with anything, a healthy respect for differences is warranted, even when we don't understand them......

 

[mineElske]

Good thread! Ive always wanted to introduce a girl to anal, any advice on how to make the sticky transition ?

I would say maybe casually mention anal to the girl, like if you're telling a work story just drop it in there that a co worker was talking about it. Something subtle every now and again, just so she thinks about it, but not that she actually thinks you're suggesting it. Anal should be her idea. Then, while you're in foreplay and fingering, sort of brush up against her anus with your pinky at first and act like you don't even realize it. as she gets more excited, put more pressure on the anus and sort of massage it. Do not penetrate, just work around on the outside. If she figures out youre doing it on purpose, just say that you thought she might like it.

If she doesn't ask you to try it within a few weeks, then try to talk to her about it. Just try to pull a Jedi mind trick first

 

[ButtAnalMan]

i had let a boyfriend of mine do that to me cause I was afraid to get pregnant, it hurt bad wasn't enjoyable....at times I thought it may have been pleasurable but over all it hurt like hell.

Anal should not hurt at all if done correctly. You need to learn.
Do you need any advice?