Ladies, honesty about "fingering".

[texasace]

I wrote this for a girl I met on a flight to London...

I introduced myself to you in the bar, 'cause you caught me looking, and with a big smile and a lip lick, you left to board the plane. I thought I had died and went to perve's heaven when I saw that we were in the same row.

I was happy to see that there was an empty seat between us... especially when I saw how beautiful and super fuckin' sexy you looked as I helped you remove your suit jacket.

You announced that you were tired from shopping all day, and that you were going to take a nap. I asked if you would like a pillow and a blanket, and you gave me a sex smile and said... yes, that would be nice.

As I put the blanket over you, I noticed that your blouse was open, and you had no bra on. I expressed how gorgeous your tits looked, peeking out of your blouse. You said that I wasn't the first to notice them today... it seems everywhere you went, guys and girls were looking at and enjoying your succulent tits.

After tucking you in... I slipped my hand under the blanket and soon discovered that you didn't wear any panties either. I started to finger fuck you, and you gave me a big, thanks Ace, smile.

Each time someone would walk by going to the restroom... male or female... I opened the blanket so that they could see your gorgeous cunt with my fingers fucking you. A couple of them stopped to have a better look at your wet dripping pussy and asked if they could have a feel and a taste.

You just smiled, and I then invited them all to help me finger fuck you and invited them to taste your delicious girl cum honey... a few of them wanted to taste you with their tongue... but I said they had to finger fuck you and then lick their fingers if they wanted to taste my delicious Lucy.

 

[MPGirlGoneBad]

My first

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[Jules2372]

I love to be fingered and dependant on the mood this can beat penetration. Like the added element of being somewhere public and the risk of being caught as opposed to something to hide. But also love it as part of long slow build foreplay.

 

[MPGirlGoneBad]

My first

The first time I was fingered was by my boyfriends' older brother. No one had ever touched me *there* before. I was so nervous and he was so gentle. I still remember how it felt to have him touch me and how wet he made me. Although it was almost 30 years ago, it still turns me on to think about.

 

[JoeyKicks]

After reading this thread last week, I fingered my wife to orgasm for the first time in years. She said it was mind blowing. Followed it up with a second one a few days later, apparently just as good!

 

[LoveHerNow]

The first time I was fingered was by my boyfriends' older brother. No one had ever touched me *there* before. I was so nervous and he was so gentle. I still remember how it felt to have him touch me and how wet he made me. Although it was almost 30 years ago, it still turns me on to think about.

This brings back good memories of my own, hun. I can remember doing this with my girlfriend in high school and it was her first orgasm. We didn't even take off her pants...truly amazing to have a woman cum into your hand.

 

[GeorgiaSub]

I introduced myself to you in the bar, 'cause you caught me looking, and with a big smile and a lip lick, you left to board the plane. I thought I had died and went to perve's heaven when I saw that we were in the same row...

...You just smiled, and I then invited them all to help me finger fuck you and invited them to taste your delicious girl cum honey...

hmmm...girl cum honey...

Next time I fly I'm looking for the seat next to you!

 

[wriggleonmyface]

I was lucky, my first BF was much older and very skilled with his fingers...combined with his tongue it left me shaking and spent. After I helped him find my gspot? Amazing.
All I have to say is ask a woman throughout what she wants...sometimes another finger is good for climaxing. or maybe she wants a finger in both holes. There's no way to know unless you ask!
Otherwise it can be uncomfortable...so just ask us, guys. We don't mind. Trust me.

Funnily enough, my first experience fingering a girl was with my first GF who was a few years older than me... Taught me all fingering skills!

The horniest times to think back to were when I asked her if she wanted another finger, or should I rub 'here' or 'here' and she'd reply in between increasingly heavy breaths.. After I while I had learned exactly what she wanted, but quite often would hold back to hear her ask me to do it.

One particularly memorable time she was pretty close to cumming and whispered in my ear to 'tickle her bum'.. I very gently rubbed my index finger over her arse hole while my middle finger was deep in her pussy and she came in a couple of seconds... Oh good memories!

 

[texasace]

hmmm...girl cum honey...

Next time I fly I'm looking for the seat next to you!

I haven't seen or heard from you in a while... but I'm happy to see you well and horny. You should try some "girl cum honey"... first yours... I know that yours will be super delicious!!! Ace

 

[quietlylooking]

My first boyfriend to touch my pussy (we were both 18, late starter that I was) probably didn't know what he was doing, and never actually got inside my panties, but he still got me very, very aroused and wet. We never actually ended up doing more than use our hands on each other, sadly, for various reasons. But I do very vividly remember making out under a blanket with him at a bonfire party one night... he had his hand inside my jeans and was just stroking me over and over. I don't remember him trying to really push my panties away, but I knew he could feel my wetness, as I could similarly feel his hardness. There were other people just a few feet away, and it was incredibly hard to be quiet and remain still.

I do really enjoy manual stimulation... I love when my partner puts his fingers inside me and then glides them wetly over my clit... a mixture of intentional roughness, as Jen Litgirl said, and gentleness, of internal and external stimulation, and if a tongue is involved too, all the better. And I'm more than happy to demonstrate effective techniques when I'm with a partner

 

[MayorMcT]

I remember when putting my finger on/in a girlfriend's pussy was just another milestone and didn't have anything to do with pleasing her. If I could just get my finger wet with a new gf, fucking couldn't be too far off.

Then, you grow up, and you realize that doing it right will drive them nuts. Wow, what power. I can still remember the first time I made a woman (for the approval of the Moderators) cum with just my fingers: front seat of my daddy's pickup, parked behind a barn, desperate for her to let me fuck her. And after she came, she did.

So, learn to use those fingers, boys.

I can also remember the time I made a woman cum again and again and again just with my finger. After that, she didn't want to skip a night of sex, but unfortunately I wasn't really looking for anything serious. Moral? Be careful who you drive bonkers with your digits.

I'm sure there are some women out there with good finger flicking good stories. I'm going to go back through this thread and see what I can find.

 

[auralforelectra]

I vote yes.

I think I love it so much because there's something so intimate about it. You're there and someone is inside your body, they're feeling every intimate fold and clench but it's not sex. They feel it with their fingers not their genitalia. So there is this distance between them and you that lends itself (in my mind, at least) to a little bit more of a BDSM flavor. It's like you're being forced to have the sexual experience and they can hold themselves back from it so they can observe your orgasm. Appreciate it.

 

[highconcept]

Agree on the fingering

It's the same reason I love a nice handjob. In many ways it's more dirty sexy than actual sex.

Just the idea that someone would want to feel your cock. Manipulate it. Make it cum. And it has nothing to do with SEX proper. So it's only for pleasure.

Very hot.

 

[SwtSassyNrse26]

Funnily enough, my first experience fingering a girl was with my first GF who was a few years older than me... Taught me all fingering skills!

The horniest times to think back to were when I asked her if she wanted another finger, or should I rub 'here' or 'here' and she'd reply in between increasingly heavy breaths.. After I while I had learned exactly what she wanted, but quite often would hold back to hear her ask me to do it.

One particularly memorable time she was pretty close to cumming and whispered in my ear to 'tickle her bum'.. I very gently rubbed my index finger over her arse hole while my middle finger was deep in her pussy and she came in a couple of seconds... Oh good memories!

Good man for following directions

 

[neiljames74]

Good man for following directions

Following directions is always good, if the directions are made available! Everyone's a little different and different approaches will work with different women.

Over the years I've had my fair share of bad/not so great hand jobs, and some that were mind blowing. So I think the issue of correct hand procedure goes both ways

 

[wriggleonmyface]

Good man for following directions

Always willing to be taught new things

 

[gabriel16]

This thread -- love the topic

And it is wonderful hearing from women who are especially turned on by being fingered. Whether in public or private or in between

G

 

[Titts4Tatts]

Funnily enough, my first experience fingering a girl was with my first GF who was a few years older than me... Taught me all fingering skills!

The horniest times to think back to were when I asked her if she wanted another finger, or should I rub 'here' or 'here' and she'd reply in between increasingly heavy breaths.. After I while I had learned exactly what she wanted, but quite often would hold back to hear her ask me to do it.

One particularly memorable time she was pretty close to cumming and whispered in my ear to 'tickle her bum'.. I very gently rubbed my index finger over her arse hole while my middle finger was deep in her pussy and she came in a couple of seconds... Oh good memories!

Well I do declare.....You may be a LIT virgin but you most certainly are no "fingering" virgin...sweet