he beat me to posting this only I because I listed to the recording first.
In looking around, I wanted to stay away from the super cliche crabby looking Domme in black latex, shiny sky high heels, whip in hand. Of course, as soon as I said that in my head, I found this picture and I liked how it looked:
Disclaimer: I really do understand what gentle means. I'm not trying to be obtuse. Exploring these dominant / top feelings IS new to me and I want to understand other points of view.
So there's been talk in a couple other threads that gentle isn't gentle...
The pictures I post appeal to me whether it's the composition of the picture: colors, the background, the filters OR it's images that arouse me. I identify as submissive so I"m generally putting myself in that situation, thinking - hey! That'd be pretty nifty!!
My toppy side seems to be coming out. I've played with a few bottoms - nothing more than a momentary scene - spanking, teasing. It was more being a "service" top at a play party. Nothing ongoing.
I've tried to get a handle on what "gentle" femdom means. I realize that's a large question. But the complaint seems vague. Sure, I get that porn in general runs toward the fantastic - whether it's hardcore or more r-rated.
Anything, to me, can be gentle. Caning can be gentle if done... gently.
There aren't many voices here. A few. There's a another sub male "pet" thread which has turned in to a little more role playing between a couple people.
So for those folks who lurk - or those who haven't but only posted a few comments - what floats your boat? PM me if you don't want to post here. What do you see as gentle vs. not?
Disclaimer: I really do understand what gentle means. I'm not trying to be obtuse. Exploring these dominant / top feelings IS new to me and I want to understand other points of view.
We have a ton of picture threads already! Although they are equal opportunity threads, most go the way of male Dominant, female submissive. There's an awesome thread Wildhoney started about Gentle FemDom - it's got a lot of great conversation about the subject.
This could go nowhere. It might be redundant. There might not be enough interest. But I've been enjoying the images of men in service to women.
As always, follow the rules.
So - pictures like this (no cock, pussy or insertion) can be posted
Pictures like this - with a big 'ole cock in it MUSt be linked like this:
http://imgur.com/JabrRWu
I'm not 100% sure about this -- no overt penetration - no messy cock
or this
So what do you think? Do we really need another thread? Just focused on male submission? Gentle FemDom?
