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cookiecat said:
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Hmmm. Those tennis shoes look familiar. Are you suggesting something, Cookie?
 
LucyCanyon said:
Hey Cookie, the thread is great and I watched it from the start, posted rarely but always lurk. Not all images do it for me, not all seem gentle in my version of gentle, but who am I to say my version is right?!
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Thanks! I got the idea from Honey's thread in the Talk section:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1389900

Plus my own new-found toppy feelings. Thought this would be a good place to explore!

Femdom has traditionally been a humiliation linked activity I think, a role reversal of control and punishment. Some sissification to further show the femme is indeed also the domme . And that's where I diverge I think. I ennjoy lingerie and feminine clothing as a sensual thing to wear and feel, not because I want to be dominated and sissified, not because I want a man, that's the last thing on my mind. So, if gentle femdom includes me in my femme guise (and I am mostly a Top with an interest in switching!) then it's to be consensual and with someone who understands and is ok, even aroused, by my kink.
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So LucyC - let me ask - it must be the "femme" part - what you call your "femme guise" that floats your boat. I understand the sensual feel of lingerie. But you can find sensual feeling male clothing. Is it the feminine part?? Feeling softer, more gentle? I suppose you can't really get man nylons/stockings!

Why do we not also have a thread for gentle Dom? Maybe we do, but in my head the gentleness comes from the purpose of the domination or control.
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I am SO on board for the gentle Dom thread. Or FUN. HAPPY. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy humiliation. Not always but sometimes. I like hard impact, gaping holes, gagging and drooling, yada yada. I like looking at those images, too. But come on! Why is everything in some dank, moldy cement dungeon? Let's have pink shag carpet and disco balls!

I'm trying to understand that last line. "Gentleness comes from the purpose of the domination or control."


I love spanking someone over my stocking covered knee, but I love it because it's what she wants me to do... not because I want to do it for my own pleasure. Controlling her pleasurable pain is such a turn on but only because she is getting aroused, her lips beginning to part with every blow. Would I enjoy the same, would my cock grow as I lay in my stockings across her nylon encased flesh?? I don't know but I think I want to find out!
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I get turned on when he takes something from me I don't want to do. Like pee play, for example. I never, in a zillion million years, thought I'd drink his pee. Ever. I fought it, I cried, I whacked him. I was disciplined for being disobedient. Many times. I was peed on a lot because I wouldn't put his cock in my mouth and swallow. I was always really turned on during this. Eventually, it did become something very intimate and connecting between us. Kneeling in front of him, my hands on his butt, his soft cock in my mouth. Looking up at him, waiting. Providing him this service he really wanted from me.

It does have to be reciprocal, though. As you say, LucyC - you love it because it's what she wants. Controlling her pleasurable pain because of her arousal. If I weren't getting aroused by his insistence I become a urinal, he would have stopped.

I hope you do find out how it feels to be spanked while you AND your partner are in stockings!! :rose:
 
There is something really hot about a clothed guy with just his cock out.

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cookiecat said:
Thanks! I got the idea from Honey's thread in the Talk section:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1389900

Plus my own new-found toppy feelings. Thought this would be a good place to explore!



So LucyC - let me ask - it must be the "femme" part - what you call your "femme guise" that floats your boat. I understand the sensual feel of lingerie. But you can find sensual feeling male clothing. Is it the feminine part?? Feeling softer, more gentle? I suppose you can't really get man nylons/stockings!
I think you can get man stockings, or at least make tights. There is something slightly taboo, against societal norms too. A skirt swishing around my nylons is a feeling you don't get with men's clothes. I wear thigh highs under my own clothes sometimes, a stockinged foot in a shoe is a different sensation too. I am skinny, wiry would be generous I guess, so I have the advantage that my long legs look ok in stockings but that's not what I do it for as so few people see me anyway! Heels are good too, again different and naughty.


[QUOTE} I am SO on board for the gentle Dom thread. Or FUN. HAPPY. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy humiliation. Not always but sometimes. I like hard impact, gaping holes, gagging and drooling, yada yada. I like looking at those images, too. But come on! Why is everything in some dank, moldy cement dungeon? Let's have pink shag carpet and disco balls!

I'm trying to understand that last line. "Gentleness comes from the purpose of the domination or control." [QUOTE}

I think I tried to give an example of what that means. The control and the way is exercised can be for the sole gratification of the one in charge, and they get their pleasure by taking what they want, even hurting for their own pleasure and not at all interested in the subs pleasure. That's not gentle! Might be on a sliding scale that Top is at an end of but gentle doesn't mean not spanking or clamping, but for me it's done because she gets off on it, and I get off on her getting off! I push a little past where she might want me to stop but the purpose is administering something she wants, teasingly and perhaps differently, but all with joint pleasure in mind. I would have failed if she was not wet and panting after my spanking of her ass and pussy


[QUOTE} I get turned on when he takes something from me I don't want to do. Like pee play, for example. I never, in a zillion million years, thought I'd drink his pee. Ever. I fought it, I cried, I whacked him. I was disciplined for being disobedient. Many times. I was peed on a lot because I wouldn't put his cock in my mouth and swallow. I was always really turned on during this. Eventually, it did become something very intimate and connecting between us. Kneeling in front of him, my hands on his butt, his soft cock in my mouth. Looking up at him, waiting. Providing him this service he really wanted from me.
So perhaps there isn't gentle dom, just dom that suits both people. What you describe you went through would not turn me on as either Dom or sub, and if I was forced then I am in the wrong place with the wrong person I guess.

Dynamics are hard to describe in words!!


It does have to be reciprocal, though. As you say, LucyC - you love it because it's what she wants. Controlling her pleasurable pain because of her arousal. If I weren't getting aroused by his insistence I become a urinal, he would have stopped.

I hope you do find out how it feels to be spanked while you AND your partner are in stockings!! :rose:
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I do too, sadly unlikely as anyone who has shown any interest is either male and in the UK or female and out of the UK. Neither option does it for me!!

Really appreciate the reply though, keep it coming, enjoying stretching my knowledge by checking out all these pics

L :rose:
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