Married Woman Who Like To...

[monique1971]

Yes, I know those thoughts quite well. The worst is the times that we do cuddle up and watch tv, things are going well and I'm thinking "maybe tonight". Then he gets up to say he's going to bed. I followed him, ready to continue to play and I got shot down in a not-so-blaze of glory. Apparently, sometimes "going to bed" is just code for "going to bed".

LOL... In my house, "going to bed" always means "I am tired now, and would like to go to sleep." He does enjoy the cuddling on the couch. But that's it.

 

[bronco_2006]

LOL... In my house, "going to bed" always means "I am tired now, and would like to go to sleep." He does enjoy the cuddling on the couch. But that's it.

Cuddling on the couch? Whats that? Oh ya I get to do that with a blanket and pillow.

 

[YankeeGirl74]

LOL... In my house, "going to bed" always means "I am tired now, and would like to go to sleep." He does enjoy the cuddling on the couch. But that's it.

Maybe they are long lost twins??

 

[YankeeGirl74]

Cuddling on the couch? Whats that? Oh ya I get to do that with a blanket and pillow.

Are you the outside or inside spoon?

But seriously, I hear that.

 

[bronco_2006]

Are you the outside or inside spoon?

But seriously, I hear that.

LOL, outside of course my dear

 

[YankeeGirl74]

LOL, outside of course my dear

LOL

 

[bronco_2006]

LOL

Now to get the pillow to wear silk panties

 

[YankeeGirl74]

Now to get the pillow to wear silk panties

So hard to find the right cut of brief for the pillow. Everything tends to bunch. But, if you put a bra on your pillow, you have instant stuffing! Win-win?

 

[bronco_2006]

So hard to find the right cut of brief for the pillow. Everything tends to bunch. But, if you put a bra on your pillow, you have instant stuffing! Win-win?

Good point! I guess I will have do a lot of panty shopping to find the right ones then

 

[YankeeGirl74]

Good point! I guess I will have do a lot of panty shopping to find the right ones then

Well, if SpongeBob Squarepants can wear pants that stay up, and he's pillowish in shape, hopefully there's hope for your special, fluffy friend.

 

[bronco_2006]

Well, if SpongeBob Squarepants can wear pants that stay up, and he's pillowish in shape, hopefully there's hope for your special, fluffy friend.

hahahaha, wow I may never be able to look at my pillow the same way after that comparison

 

[YankeeGirl74]

hahahaha, wow I may never be able to look at my pillow the same way after that comparison

....And suddenly this thread took a total left turn..... But let's hope it makes people chuckle. Then it's all good!!

 

[golfdude776]

And it's all those horndogs that give the guys who do care a bad name. It's not something that is solved by a provocative and carnal PM. While I do enjoy trading sexy and erotic PMs with the ladies here, there is a time and a place for it.

hey i resemble that remark...but im just a horndog because i cant get enough in my current relationship...when we started she had a sex drive that matched mine like 3x a week at the minimum... now its like we schedule sex maybe once a week more like twice a month... but i love her in every other way so i look for extra stimulation... and i come from the side of making a woman cum first is the only way... i cant get off unless my partner cums first

 

[goodgirlmn]

Why love it

I am married, he is a stick in the mud wants to do the same thing everytime I want more...I love chats with they guys that I have meet from here..I have to say I have even learned some new stuff that I have been thinking about...and I have cheated yes since I am not getting what I crave at home..and I will keep on cheating...

 

[bronco_2006]

I am married, he is a stick in the mud wants to do the same thing everytime I want more...I love chats with they guys that I have meet from here..I have to say I have even learned some new stuff that I have been thinking about...and I have cheated yes since I am not getting what I crave at home..and I will keep on cheating...

Stick in the mud I can relate to, she was that when we did have sex which wasn't often, however it was more then never which seems to be the theme over the past couple of years

 

[LustyLeo22]

My husband has me up on some sort of virginal platform - doesn't even like the idea of me talking dirty.

 

[firefighterscott]

Would love to chat married 2 years now and sex has gone out the window.

 

[fisherman62051]

My husband has me up on some sort of virginal platform - doesn't even like the idea of me talking dirty.

So you want to chat with some of us privately??

 

[chipcarver]

My husband has me up on some sort of virginal platform - doesn't even like the idea of me talking dirty.

I would love for my wife to talk dirty during sex instead of an occasional moan. She is very vanilla so the chances of anything different, when the rare occasion for sex arrives, are very remote.

 

[LustyLeo22]

This seemed like a good place to vent..

I've been super horny all day. Got a massage from a male friend (no funny business just good old therapeutic massage for the muscles) and let myself get all turned on by his touch. Came home and read stories on here about massage turning sexual and kept my warm horny glow going..

Husband comes home. Takes a shower. Announces that he is naked and waiting for me. 5 minutes later it's done and I feel soooooo let down! Really??? That's it?? Fucking rediculuos.

 

[JonnyD1]

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[LustyLeo22]

That really sucks! Do you feel used? Not exactly what I would call quality time.


Sounds like he needs a little (hell, a lot of) direction. Take charge and slow him down! Next time that happens, ask him in your best goodfellas voice... "You waitin' for me? You waitin' for me?" Then tie him down and use him!

Yes, a hell of a lot of direction

I don't feel used so much as let down. Kinda like "that's all you want from me?" I don't feel Wanted or like I was any part of his excitement. He was hard and has a wife to satisfy his needs, that's it. Not to mention, when he called for me I had my hands deep into dishes and not exactly ready for sex - besides what I'd already worked up to on my own.

We have talked. I have told him that I want to feel desirable to him and he has responded by telling me I'm beautiful 20 times a day (I'm exaggerating a bit but you get the idea). Just that, beautiful. No variation, no reference to what I'm wearing doing etc, and it's so repetitive it's become pretty much meaningless to me. He did sense my disappointment last night and asked about it so i was able to tell him I'd appreciate a little more foreplay on my part...

I like your idea maybe I will give that a try next time...

 

[fisherman62051]

I hope that the next time you are out with him in a public place that some handsome, distinguished men look at you... and that they smile or wink in an appreciative way. For one, their actions may improve your feelings and more importantly that hubby will see you as a wonderfully sexy and desireable women who deserves his undivided and energetic sexual attention. Then as he comes to his senses, he gives you an evening full of excitement that recharges the love you share.

 

[bailadora]

We have talked. I have told him that I want to feel desirable to him and he has responded by telling me I'm beautiful 20 times a day (I'm exaggerating a bit but you get the idea). Just that, beautiful. No variation, no reference to what I'm wearing doing etc, and it's so repetitive it's become pretty much meaningless to me. He did sense my disappointment last night and asked about it so i was able to tell him I'd appreciate a little more foreplay on my part...

I like your idea maybe I will give that a try next time...

Leo - maybe you've already tried this approach, so please forgive me if this is redundant. But you just might have to tell him exactly what you are after. Tell him all the little things that would make you feel appreciated and wanted. This may seem counter-intuitive, especially when you've been together with someone for so long and it seem like they should just KNOW what you want. But from my own experience, it doesn't work like that - at least, not in my relationship. I don't know if your husband is the same way, but my husband basically said to me, "I'm a guy, not a mind reader. Just tell me what you want, what makes you feel special and I'll try to pay more attention to those things." And for the most part, he has. Sometimes he does better than others, but then - don't we all.

 

[LustyLeo22]

I hope that the next time you are out with him in a public place that some handsome, distinguished men look at you... and that they smile or wink in an appreciative way. For one, their actions may improve your feelings and more importantly that hubby will see you as a wonderfully sexy and desireable women who deserves his undivided and energetic sexual attention. Then as he comes to his senses, he gives you an evening full of excitement that recharges the love you share.

Thank you I hope so too..