Meeting Master for the first time?

[doll_parts85]

Thats it? You make him sound like he's going to be turning 80. 46 is the same age as my father....So really, you want a daddy to take care of you all the way around. Just because you've been talking for 5-6 months doesn't really mean that you know him or know what you're getting into.

So what? I happen to be into age play. He's my Daddy and He takes care of me

 

[lil_slave_rose]

So what? I happen to be into age play. He's my Daddy and He takes care of me

that's all fine and dandy...Master and i do 'age play' as well. what i'm not getting is the fact that you do not really know this man or what he expects of you....yet you are willing to not only meet him (which is fine really) but stay with him in a hotel room.....are you meeting him in a public place first??

 

[doll_parts85]

*deletes*

 

[frappy]

that's all fine and dandy...Master and i do 'age play' as well. what i'm not getting is the fact that you do not really know this man or what he expects of you....yet you are willing to not only meet him (which is fine really) but stay with him in a hotel room.....are you meeting him in a public place first??

I agree. Doll, maybe you could arrange to meet him at a coffee shop first? Like Starbucks? Or a public place of your choosing. As long as there are plenty of people around. Please be safe.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

He's picking me up at my apartment. He wants to meet my pets

i am beginning to wonder if you are being serious, or just trying to see what kind of reaction you can get out of us. it all seems a bit ridiculous, and like you are not and have no intention of listening to or heeding the advice anyone on this thread has given you....so i guess i will step out at this point,,and just wish you luck and hope you don't end up in the paper somewhere......

 

[doll_parts85]

I agree. Doll, maybe you could arrange to meet him at a coffee shop first? Like Starbucks? Or a public place of your choosing. As long as there are plenty of people around. Please be safe.

and do what? I don't drink coffee...and if we eat, there aren't many places I can eat...cuz I'm picky about my food being vegetarian. I'm not big on public places...they make me panicky...only two stores I'm semi-comfy at are Wegmans and Walmart.

 

[doll_parts85]

I guess we could go to the movies...we've talked about fooling around at the movies But I'd like to talk a bit first...

 

[minx1]

He's picking me up at my apartment. He wants to meet my pets

oh boy I don't know whether to laugh or cry!

I'm not going to bother putting my two penny worth in. Surfice to say if you are serious about getting advice dp, heed that given on here....many of the people advising you have been involved in D/s for a long time and are giving you the benefit of all their years of experience. They aren't just saying these things for the good of their health lol

I kinda get the feeling though that unless someone 'says yeah let him pick you up and see where you live, drive you to his hotel where the two of you an be completely alone. Oh and training ....don't worry about that, it'll be fine, you won't even notice it' lol...you won't be happy.

Sorry if i sound cynical or harsh I've been reading the thread for a few days now and listening to all the good advice that appears to be being ignored. It's frustrating ...and almost like watching a car crash in slow motion.

I wish you the very best with your meeting dp, not to mention the good luck you'll need too.

 

[doll_parts85]

oh boy I don't know whether to laugh or cry!

I'm not going to bother putting my two penny worth in. Surfice to say if you are serious about getting advice dp, heed that given on here....many of the people advising you have been involved in D/s for a long time and are giving you the benefit of all their years of experience. They aren't just saying these things for the good of their health lol

I kinda get the feeling though that unless someone 'says yeah let him pick you up and see where you live, drive you to his hotel where the two of you an be completely alone. Oh and training ....don't worry about that, it'll be fine, you won't even notice it' lol...you won't be happy.

Sorry if i sound cynical or harsh I've been reading the thread for a few days now and listening to all the good advice that appears to be being ignored. It's frustrating ...and almost like watching a car crash in slow motion.

I wish you the very best with your meeting dp, not to mention the good luck you'll need too.

sorry Is it bad that I trust Him completely?

 

[minx1]

sorry Is it bad that I trust Him completely?

*smile* I think thats a rhetorical question

 

[frappy]

sorry Is it bad that I trust Him completely?

Trusting a virtual stranger completely is never a good idea. You've only known him a few months. There's nothing wrong with getting to know him in real time before you place your complete trust in him. My impression is that you are too naive, and not in an endearing sort of way, but in an obit sort of way. I urge you to take be careful and rethink your plan.

 

[WriterDom]

Every weekend, vanilla couples meet in a bar and end up naked together. But when we put a "bdsm" label on things people freak out. We are more careful and that's a good thing. I've said this before, but if I were a predator looking to victimize a female I'd be looking outside the lifestyle.

 

[Etoile]

This will NOT end well.

I'm not saying there's going to be murder and mayhem, but from what I've observed here, it's not going to end well. I'm not placing blame on dollparts or her dom, but honestly...I can just tell it won't end well.

Unfortunately, some people feel they have to fuck up their life before they figure things out. I've been there, not quite in this way, but I've been there. You just have to let it happen.

 

[doll_parts85]

*deletes*

 

[frappy]

Every weekend, vanilla couples meet in a bar and end up naked together. But when we put a "bdsm" label on things people freak out. We are more careful and that's a good thing. I've said this before, but if I were a predator looking to victimize a female I'd be looking outside the lifestyle.

Doll seems to have the mentality of a 12 year old, going by her previous posts. This may just be an online persona for her and she is really much smarter, and wordly. I truly hope it's the case. FWIW, if a vanilla person in a bar asked me if they should go home with a stranger I'd say: absolutely not!

 

[doll_parts85]

Doll seems to have the mentality of a 12 year old, going by her previous posts. This may just be an online persona for her and she is really much smarter, and wordly. I truly hope it's the case. FWIW, if a vanilla person in a bar asked me if they should go home with a stranger I'd say: absolutely not!

I'm smart!

 

[frappy]

I'm smart!

I hope so.

 

[doll_parts85]

I hope so.

you should read my animal rights posts on the general board ^_^

 

[Etoile]

He belongs to BDSM clubs in FL. He has plenty of chances at girls...He wouldn't fly to NY to hurt me...He'd hurt a girl down there...

Uh...no.

My god, girl, don't you read the news?! If you really believe that, you have no business dating on the internet, much less in this lifestyle.

 

[doll_parts85]

Uh...no.

My god, girl, don't you read the news?! If you really believe that, you have no business dating on the internet, much less in this lifestyle.

I stay away from the news...its too depressing...

 

[lil_slave_rose]

He belongs to BDSM clubs in FL. He has plenty of chances at girls...He wouldn't fly to NY to hurt me...He'd hurt a girl down there...

are you serious? he'd hurt a girl in his hometown with a better chance of getting caught? this happens all the time...open your eyes...or grow up, or something..sheesh....

 

[Penalt]

This is why I stopped posting in her threads...

 

[doll_parts85]

*deletes*

 

[frappy]

Oh and the pictures all over my computer of Him, His cell phone number, flight to ny and car rental won't give away who He is.

You'd still be dead. I'm not saying he's an ax murderer. I just urge you to be careful. Again, good luck, Doll.

 

[doll_parts85]

You'd still be dead. I'm not saying he's an ax murderer. I just urge you to be careful. Again, good luck, Doll.

thanks.

I'm sure its fine though, He's the sweetest guy ever.