What is most alarming is that you say she thinks sex is "dirty" and that she has trouble feeling worthy of enjoying herself. Does she come from a strict family? She sounds like she's acquired some psychological problems with sex that need to be talked through. I'd actually recommend either a therapist or looking into tantric sex, which teaches that sex is a beautiful, sacred event, definitely not dirty or something to be ashamed of. I'm not saying it's 100% mental, but if it's there, it HAS to be broken down.
And again, not all women have orgasms from sex. I'm one of them. There are times when I don't feel anything from sex. That's largely mental too. Make sure that every time you have sex with her, she is in the right mood for it. I don't want you to lessen yourself at all in your relationship, but at least until this is resolved, try to only initiate sex when she obviously desires it. Tease her physically beforehand so that sex is a climactic event; get her very close to coming and then have sex. You could look into using a vibrator on her clit as you have sex. That's the only way I can come, and while the orgasms are so insignificant as to be unnoticeable, the process sure feels good.
I wish you the best of luck, and if this is something that can only be worked out with age, then I hope you have the time with her to work through it together.
And again, not all women have orgasms from sex. I'm one of them. There are times when I don't feel anything from sex. That's largely mental too. Make sure that every time you have sex with her, she is in the right mood for it. I don't want you to lessen yourself at all in your relationship, but at least until this is resolved, try to only initiate sex when she obviously desires it. Tease her physically beforehand so that sex is a climactic event; get her very close to coming and then have sex. You could look into using a vibrator on her clit as you have sex. That's the only way I can come, and while the orgasms are so insignificant as to be unnoticeable, the process sure feels good.
I wish you the best of luck, and if this is something that can only be worked out with age, then I hope you have the time with her to work through it together.
